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AMERICAblog: Andrew Sullivan declares war on the DNC

  • Javier · 5 months ago
    Not really related to the interview but I just got a email from Gladlaw

    Hello,

    Thank you for your email. Mary Bonauto will not be attending the DNC fundraiser. We will be issuing a statement tomorrow regarding her decision to withdraw. That statement will be available on our website, www.glad.org.

    Keep up the pressure guys, we are making a difference.
  • Gridlock · 5 months ago
    Wicked! Awesome work!
  • postdamnit · 5 months ago
    Got a solicitation from HRC today for $$$. I sent it back and wrote that when Joe stops sucking up to Obama and the Dems I might consider $$ (not likely).

    NO GAY RIGHTS, NO GAY $$

    And this doubly applies to gay groups who sell us out!!
  • Jay (American in Toronto) · 5 months ago
    John, as an American forced to move out of my own country due to DOMA because I could not sponsor my European husband - I am VERY proud of people like you in our community.

    After living here in Toronto for over two years, we are so disappointed of Obama's lack of action especially Re: DOMA and UAFA Uniting American Families Act.

    We are both highly educated professionals who have taken our money and US education with us to Canada who took us in with open arms.

    After last Friday's DOMA brief, I have stopped my checks to DNC and HRC too.

    Please continue speak up for us!!

    Sincerely,

    Exile in Canada
  • Gridlock · 5 months ago
    Yay Canada! I know so many friends who have imported their American husbands and who are now making a home in Canada.
  • John Aravosis · 5 months ago
    Thank you Jay.
  • mml34 · 5 months ago
    Just sent this to the http://www.whitehouse.gov/contact/:

    I admit it Mr. President, I was skeptical that you could win the presidency. However, I signed up for your email alerts, I donated money to your campaign, I would have been one of those cheering supporters at one of your rallies had the chance presented itself.

    My partner and I, along with some of our gay and straight friends threw an election night party. November 4, 2008 was a bittersweet night for us. There was not a dry eye in the house when NBC projected you as the President-Elect. That was the sweet part of the night. As the results from California's Proposition 8 came in we got the bitter.

    You see, my partner and I were married on June 21, 2008. We've been together for 6 years, but when the CA Supreme Court made it legal, so did we. We were married at a courthouse on a Saturday afternoon by a heterosexual commissioner who volunteered his time to marry people who vowed to commit their lives to each other. My heterosexual mother was our witness. The clerk at the filing window was a heterosexual Asian woman - I got the feeling that she was as excited as we were. The Sheriffs Deputy standing guard at the courthouse? He smiled and directed us where to go to exchange our vows and congratulated us on the way out.

    Proposition 8 put our marriage, our commitment, our love, to a vote. After the recent CA Supreme Court ruling we became 1 of those 18,000 gay couples that are still legally married. Because we're not "married" in the eyes of the federal government, we pay more taxes, and although we're legally married in California, we worry every time we leave the state - what if something happens to one of us?

    Your Justice Department's brief in support of DOMA was despicable. Insert "anti-miscegenation" in the place of DOMA and then tell me that you "had" to file a brief in support of upholding that law! Tell me that I'm taking it out of context then.

    DADT? Where is your courage?! You could issue an executive order stopping the discharges, today. As you said during the campaign - we're in the middle of two wars, in a dangerous world, we can't afford to let qualified, willing soldiers be discharged under this policy! Yet, the discharges continue while you "talk" about your intention to work for it's repeal. Why are you unwilling to stand with the Dan Choi's and the Victor Fehrenbach's? Do you even know who they are? Where is your courage?!

    You promised to repeal DOMA and DADT. You promised to be our "fierce advocate." We were willing to be patient. We didn't expect you to take action overnight. We didn't expect perfection.

    We're not fools, Mr. President. This isn't 1990. Tokens won't buy our silence. We won't go along to get along anymore. We won't continue to patiently wait while we dole out money to the DNC and democrat politicians who talk about their intentions to do something for us someday, when the time is "right."
  • Wren Margaret · 5 months ago
    Imagine the outrage from progressives if the Bush whitehouse had submitted that DOJ brief.
  • Gridlock · 5 months ago
    Yes, who would be calling them "shrill" and telling them to stop indulging in tantrums then.
  • rduke · 5 months ago
    I've really noticed that too. This double standard by the progressives is so blatant.

    A lot of them were apologists for him when he sold out on FISA too. I remember them saying "he had to do it" which is BS. The majority of Americans were against it.

    Obama ran on "Change We Can Believe In". The only change is that the Dems are in control and still have no fortitude which is even worse. They got a huge majority and cave on everything.
  • Encolpius · 5 months ago
    I'm glad to see John coming around to this position. I was beginning to wonder. I'm also glad to see Andrew taking the same position -- but I almost spit my coffee out when I read his echo of ACT UP in the last two sentences. He was a severe critic of ACT UP when it was staging demonstrations to help people who, unlike Andrew, had not concluded the epidemic is over.

    It's just Andrew-as-usual to shift his opinions when he feels personally affected. I truly wish he would go away.
  • Steve_in_CNJ · 5 months ago
    he is like christopher hitchens, don't you think? the occasional joy is not nearly worth all the pain.
  • encolpius · 5 months ago
    Exactly....And they're friends, of course.
  • Terri · 5 months ago
    Here is an idea. Send a penny to Obama.
    The White House
    1600 Pennsylvania Ave NW
    Washington DC 20500
    Dear President Obama,

    Today I am mailing you a penny because you have seemingly lost all conviction of 'change' for the LGBT community. Your administration's recent actions, under your direction, arguing in favor of the discriminatory and unconstitutional statutes of DOMA and Don't Ask, Don't Tell have been nothing short of a flip-flop from your previous campaign promises. Please see below the disheartening about faces that have taken place with your consent.

    DOMA - Then (February 2008)

    "I believe we should get rid of that statute [DOMA] altogether. Federal law should not discriminate in any way against gay and lesbian couples, which is precisely what DOMA does." - Open letter from candidate Barack Obama to the LGBT community.

    DOMA - Now (June 2009)

    "In short, therefore, DOMA, understood for what it actually does, infringes on no one's rights"
    "It is rationally related to legitimate governmental interests"
    "To deny federal recognition to same-sex marriages will thus preserve scarce government resources, surely a legitimate government purpose." - Obama administration legal brief

    Don't Ask, Don't Tell - Then (April 2008)
    "We're spending large sums of money to kick highly qualified gays or lesbians out of our military, some of whom possess specialties like Arab-language capabilities that we desperately need. That doesn't make us more safe." - Quote to AP article

    Don't Ask, Don't Tell - Now (June 2009)
    "Don't ask, don't tell [is] rationally related to the government's legitimate interest in military discipline and cohesion." - Obama administration legal memo to U.S. Supreme Court

    President Obama, please be the bold leader that we thought we voted into office.

    Respectfully submitted,
  • vkobaya · 5 months ago
    Schwarzenegger decides against defending Prop. 8 in federal court
    Case 'presents important constitutional questions,' governor says in legal filing. His decision means no statewide official will be defending the anti-gay marriage measure.
    By Maura Dolan
    June 18, 2009

    Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger has declined to defend the constitutionality of Proposition 8, telling a San Francisco judge that the legality of the anti-gay marriage measure is for the courts to decide.

    The governor's decision to remain neutral in a federal challenge to Proposition 8 means no statewide official will be defending the measure in federal court.


    Whoooo! Schwarzennegger has more honor, integrity, class and character than Obama. World has turned upside down. Bravo Schwarzennegger!!! I'm beginning to wonder if Obama is afraid to be called a fag.

    Very much puts the lie to Obama's claim that he was obligated to defend the law.
  • obamacrat · 5 months ago
    They had Nathanial Frank on NPR the other night talking about his recent book on the history of DADT during the Clinton years. Very enlightening. According to him Clinton was sincerely committed to lifting the ban on gays in the military and was prepared to do so by executive action only to be threatened by Sam Nunn, democrat of Georgia, with legislation that would undo the executive order and make the ban a matter of legislative law. And apparently his reasons had more to do with his own personal discomfort with gays than anything else. The truth of the matter is that the excuse of damage to unit cohesion was just a sham to cover the real reasons for the ban.
    And if our country is in such a dire position that we need to scrap strictures that have been a part of our laws and international laws for at least the last 50 years, why is this taboo that is based on homophobia so sacrosanct and untouchable. The US can throw away the Geneva Convention in the interest of national security but we just CAN'T tolerate a gay arabic linguist? That's just crazy.
    When 9/11 happened, according to all reports and I think the 9/11 Commission report, there was raw intelligence data backed up for months relating to Al Quaeda unread because they did not have the necessary people to translate them. It isn't just that gays have the same right to serve their country as anyone else. We are throwing away a rather substantial talent pool that we need especially now. And lowering standards to fill the gap in recruitment to such an extent that neo nazis are being let in to the military and given military training. This is just nuts and dangerous and I would think our President couldn't wait to take action on this. Being that it is in our national interest and everything. What's the hold up?
  • Bill · 5 months ago
    I got an email today from Paul Begala asking me to donate to the DCCC. I finally found a link in the email that took me to a small card where I could express my support for Obama. I typed in simply "No gay rights=no gay money. Get off your collective butts NOW!" Felt really GOOD to say that!
  • Ernest Tee · 5 months ago
    Who cares what Andrew says. He was a tool for Bush. And the fact is, gays make up 10% of the American population. And how many of that 10% are Dems? Sorry, but to 90% of the American people, they have more important things on their minds than DADT, and the other gay issues. Sorry to sound so callus, but people are worried about their own future.
  • Gridlock · 5 months ago
    Oh yes, more important things on their mind. Must be nice to have all those rights you take for granted.

    Come spend some time in the back of the bus with us, maybe you'd get a fresh perspective.

    We're worried about our own future, because we keep getting fucked over by people who keep saying "there are more important things right now"

    THERE ARE *ALWAYS* MORE IMPORTANT THINGS, it seems.

    No more.

    Help, or kindly move out of the way. We're not stopping. You're either part of the steamroller or part of the pavement.

    Pick one.
  • Steve_in_CNJ · 5 months ago
    somehow i don't think you're the least bit sorry to sound callous (note: a callus is something on your foot). you went out of your way to say STFU about civil rights.
  • rduke · 5 months ago
    Which is exactly why the majority should never be allowed to vote on the rights of a minority. You only care about yourselves, not minorities who are being denied equality.
  • John in L.A. · 5 months ago
    This is starting to sound like the pro-lifers... single issue activists whose emotion clouds their judgment.

    Push back against the dems, push hard... but when you take it so far that you will actually hurt our own cause you are doing the community no favors.

    This bit:

    "I don't look forward to this happening. But I see it happening on the present course the White House and the Democratic party have chosen."

    ... is beneath you. It is petulant and passive aggressive. When you find yourself using the same logic as the far right and as spousal abusers, you should probably rethink.

    Pushback is a part of the process and you usually do a fantastic job with it, but there is a point at which you will hurt your own cause. Your emotions around it are clouding your judgment.

    I agree that donations should be cut off, I agree that political muscle should be used... but that rant by Sullivan was really undermined by his tone.

    He has every right to feel every bit of his anger, but unless it is more important to him to be angry than to be effective, he should rethink some of his approaches.

    The last thing you want to do is force Obama to defend his untenable position. Making it harder for him politically to give us what we want is unwise.

    Push back... harder than we were, but not as hard as some are suggesting... unless you care more about your emotion than you do about progress. If that's the case... then carry on, you're doing well.
  • Vince in Cedar Rapids · 5 months ago
    Playing nice has not worked. How much more patience can you expect anyone to have? Seriously?! Being patient and working "with" our so-called friends brought DOMA, DADT, and more recently a DOJ brief comparing our relationships to incest and Child Abuse. How much abuse should we take before we, in one loud and clear voice, say "ENOUGH". You may be willing to take more, but the rest of us are not. As Gridlock said somewhere in here, move with us or get out of our way.
  • John in L.A. · 5 months ago
    Either read my post fully or get out its way, Vince.

    You sound like a child, intent on throwing a tantrum because you don't get what you want when you want it.

    There is absolutely no question that you are right about your complaints, the question whether a tantrum is the most effective way to address them.

    But you clearly care more about being self-important and playing the victim than you do about real change.
  • John in L.A. · 5 months ago
    Also... has not worked? It's freaking June, Vince.

    Or do you mean bigger picture, because if you are suggesting that there has been no progress on gay rights over the last decades, then you are completely ignoring the big picture.

    Be rational. Withhold donations, put political pressure on... but do not be over-emotional and lock Obama into his bad position because you feel ignored. Do what is best for progress, not for yourself.
  • John Aravosis · 5 months ago
    Well, if it's only freaking June, then why has Obama already discharged 255 gay service members (two in the last day), and just last week defended DOMA and invoked pedophilia and incest? If he's so darn busy that he can't deal with gay issues, why is he dealing with them in a way that hurts us? You can't have it both ways. Either he has no time to deal with gay issues or he does have the time, but only deals with them when they screw us. That's why we're mad.
  • John in L.A. · 5 months ago
    I in no way think he is too busy, nor do I in any way excuse his actions or inactions (on this issue or several others also close to my heart).

    My response was very specific to Vince's over-dramatic insistence that we have tried being nice and it hasn't worked!

    Not getting everything we want in the first six months hardly merits a histrionic, we've- tried-everything-else post.

    I, too, have stopped donating to Obama and to the DNC until I have better assurances on important issues. As I made very clear, I do not disagree with putting pressure, heavy pressure, on Obama and congress.

    I am against, however, treating him as the enemy and cutting off our noses to spite our faces. It will set progress BACK, not help it. It is about personal emotions, not progress.
  • citizen spot · 5 months ago
    I want him to succeed. That said, My chiropractor will be able to fund his kid's college tuition just from my constant whiplash caused by "Oh Yay! vs WTF?"
    Seriously, though, I wish he would get off the damn fence already!
  • Blueflash · 5 months ago
    Total and utter nonsense. You're either a gay who lives in dread of angering any straights (And guess what? When we're silent they happily carry on as if we didn't exist. Believe it or not, our silence and acquiescence has never caused them to spring into action in our defense.) or you're a cynical anti-gay reactionary trying to get us to shut up by way of some oh-so-temperate and "friendly" advice - that's become quite popular recently now that the old-fashioned outright condemnation of us is no longer acceptable among decent people.
  • John in L.A. · 5 months ago
    Oh, give me a break. You do like your drama, don't you?

    I'm sorry that the world is binary for you. If those are the only two options you can imagine, then you certainly shouldn't expect any respect for your opinions.

    Read my post again, looking up any confusing words, and then reply. I am not afraid of angering anyone nor am I an "anti-gay reactionary" of all the ridiculous things.

    I care about the best way to achieve progress, not the best way to showcase my temper tantrum. If you care more about your righteous indignation, then go stand next to the pro-lifers, you suddenly are hard to distinguish, and let the grown-ups work for change.
  • dula · 5 months ago
    So patient of you to wait for my Rights.
  • Gridlock · 5 months ago
    The best way to achieve progress, as you put it, has netted us absolutely NOTHING in 20 years.

    Look what happens when we stand up and fight, at the state level! Results!

    Righteous indignation is the fuel for change, it is what makes people FIGHT for change.. without it, you're at best putting in a half assed effort.

    Indignation is what makes people get out of bed in the morning and hit a picket line, astand in a protest, and weather the storm from opposition. It's what separates people who stand up for what is RIGHT from people who merely go through the motions and hope for the best.

    You owe whatever momentum has happened in this movement to people for whom righteous indignation pushed the protests in the 60's 70's and 80's, who carved out what space we had, and who pushed to get YOU where you are today on a societal level.

    Somewhere along the way we lost that fire, thanks to people like you saying "calm down, relax, stop rocking the boat, assimilate, blend in, play nice"

    Here we are, just getting back that fire and the drive to TAKE our rights, not merely ASK for them and you're saying no... stop... you're being shrill and unpleasant.

    Get.

    Out.

    Of.

    Our.

    WAY.
  • MauraHennessey · 5 months ago
    Be fair;
    President Obama did extend coverage of U-Haul rentals for relocation of the partners of some federal employees. It was a huge television event, too!

    I was so moved that some friends nd I are going to present the President with our first annual "Rental Truck Equality Award for Fierce Advocacy"
  • Blueflash · 5 months ago
    Well, you should be grown up by now - forty years since Stonewall and you haven't gotten us anywhere in Washington and the majority of states. You'll really be grown up by the time we achieve legal equality if we take your approach. Hope you plan on living to the ripe old age of 300.
  • Gridlock · 5 months ago
    are you for real?
  • Vince in Cedar Rapids · 5 months ago
    Yet another apologist. Either straight or self-loathing and therefore doesn't get it.
  • postdamnit · 5 months ago
    Sorry John in L.A. but I am way to old and way to tired to go your route. Been there and definitely done that.

    If you were old enough, which I doubt, to remember the Viet Nam war protestations you would know that it was the only way to achieve the end result (getting the war over with). Had we gone your route, we would still be in Viet Nam and you would probably have been drafted by now and had your ass shot off.

    Enough with this passiveness that has gotten us zilch over the long run. The old saying that the squeaky wheel gets the grease is valid. Do you think Obama would have done his "memorandum" had he not been pressured by the loss of gay $$?
  • John in L.A. · 5 months ago
    Fair enough, you clearly care more about indulging yourself than you do about progress. Your choice.

    Furthermore, your reading comprehension is for crap, since I clearly said I am in favor of withholding donations.
  • postdamnit · 5 months ago
    Thank you
  • rduke · 5 months ago
    The indulging part is just insulting. You wonder why your message is not well-recieved. Demanding equality which we should have had all along is not indulgence. Get a grip!
  • John in L.A. · 5 months ago
    Yeas, because there are only two options there.Just like you are clearly a moron or intentionally over-simplifying.

    You are the one who doesn't get it. The only question here is what is the best path toward progress. You think a tantrum and self-indulgence is, good for you. I think you are wrong. Good for me.
  • Gridlock · 5 months ago
    You think it's tantrum and self indulgence, we see it as justified anger.

    I see you playing the dispassionate "disappointed" advocate, which has netted us absolutely nothing in 20 years.

    Anger and indignation are one thing. What you're accusing us of is lack of focus.

    No, quite the contrary. We're very focused. We've focused our anger into the fledgling position that we aren't going to be the DNC's house faggots anymore.

    Learn to parse and see the difference before you find yourself relegated to beige irrelevance.
  • rduke · 5 months ago
    The lengths people will go to try and silence us is just amazing.
  • latda · 5 months ago
    Wow, I could have gone to church for that sermon and guilt trip.
  • Vince in Cedar Rapids · 5 months ago
    Oops, meaning John in L.A., not you Gridlock.
  • Javier · 5 months ago
    Can I be the first to say hottie. Thank you John for all the work you and Americablog are doing on this issue. I would have never had the courage to be part of this campaign to convince others to drop out of this fundraiser without the wonderful community activismyou and the blog are cultivating here.

    No Gay Rights, No Gay Money!!!
  • Valentine Frey · 5 months ago
    Great job John
  • Biggus Diggus · 5 months ago
    Homonym error: "He was the White House's favorite blogger, and putatively they're favorite gay."

    "They're" should be "their".

    I make that mistake sometimes, too.
  • John Aravosis · 5 months ago
    I know, it's from writing quickly - I do know the difference :-) Thanks for pointing it out.
  • offspring · 5 months ago
    very proud of you john, she tried to do the talking points crap but you stuck to your guys proud of you now dont get lazy and let up
  • John Aravosis · 5 months ago
    No, actually she was very nice, and I think appropriate. Her job as a journalist is to ask me the contrary questions - in this case, ask me the White House spin and let me respond. Which she did.
  • Bruno · 5 months ago
    I hope Rachel Maddow gets you on for an interview too one of these days. She only does one on ones and this info really needs a bigger audience.
  • John Aravosis · 5 months ago
    They don't ever contact me about anything. I'm not sure why.
  • GB · 5 months ago
    By the way, what about the author of the hate brief? Has there been any word about his future? Or what about his boss, Assistant Attorney General Tony West? West was a huge fundraiser for Obama in California. Is he going to lose his job? Or is this all part of a very calculated move by Obama to throw the gays under the bus in order to win more votes in the center? It might really come down to that crude of a political calculation, and in that, Obama would be no better than Bush pushing the Federal Marriage Amendment in 2004.
  • John Aravosis · 5 months ago
    Yes, there is word. He's writing the next DOMA brief too. The one due in a week. Seriously.
  • Kelly Canfield · 5 months ago
    Is Simpson doing so in coordination with the Alliance Defense Fund as I believe he did last time? Any word about that?
  • eclare · 5 months ago
    Really? Unbelievable.
  • John Aravosis · 5 months ago
    Really.
  • johnnyvenom · 5 months ago
    Do you think on this one, Obama will come around and actually do the correct thing?
  • John Aravosis · 5 months ago
    If we cause him and the Democrats enough pain, yes. They're politicians, as clearly shown this past week. It's all a question of who they fear the most. Unfortunately.
  • Travelingman.Rick · 5 months ago
    Ok I have to ask the question...John, will you marry me? Spot on and you had me at hello. Andrew Sullivan and you are both on the right track...it is high time that we shout, loudly and we hold back our money until the DNC gets the hint.
  • timncguy · 5 months ago
    How refreshing to see an interview where there aren't two talking heads yelling over each other throughout. You can actually make a point, hear a follow-up question, then respond. Amazing. Too bad we can't have this type of reporting on the TeeVee. It would make too much sense I guess to have a resonable discussion without the excitement of the name-calling and yelling at each other.

    How many people actually see CBS.com?
  • Jophus · 5 months ago
    I totally agree. It has been a long time since I've had that much information in that short of a time span. I'm actually kind of surprised at his composure. I couldn't have done that, no matter how hard I tried.
  • PeteWa · 5 months ago
    Who is that whispering in Obama's ear?

    Rahm.
  • TimRusso · 5 months ago
    stabbed in the back? you guys need to chill for a second. honestly.

    http://bloggerinterrupted.com/2009/06/on-the-ga...
  • Gridlock · 5 months ago
    You need to take your little mealymouthed article and your bullshit back of the bus "oh calm down" shit and go back in time about 20 years where it belongs.

    Seriously.
  • Steve_in_CNJ · 5 months ago
    at this stage of the game, STFU means "i'm a tiresome bigot". :)
  • MauraHennessey · 5 months ago
    Gridlock,
    With all respect, we ought not to have calmed down 20 years ago either.
  • Jack · 5 months ago
    Nice interview! I just wish they had gotten the part about the DOJ brief's content. I think that a lot of people still don't understand WHY we are so upset over this.
  • citizen spot · 5 months ago
    Yes, that is true. The brief was the straw that broke the camel's back. And for me, not just for GLBT rights, but the current adminstration's embracing the policies of the Bush/Cheney administration with regards to transparency, accountability, illegal wiretapping, rendition, and on and on and on..... I am so dissappointed that the Democratic Party Machine is so beholden to the corporate power elite. I am so done with them. To the DNC, get your money from your corporate overlords and quit begging me for $$. When Rahm took credit for the victory in 2008, ignoring Howard Dean's 50 state strategy, which I did support, that is when I stopped giving to the DNC(DLC). I will support progressive candidates who will represent me, through the grassroots. Eff the Democratic Party Elite!
  • lucidity · 5 months ago
    Great interview. I saw one of your interviews a couple years ago... you got your points out well, but you seemed a little overcaffeinated. :) This one was perfect.
  • John Aravosis · 5 months ago
    LOL I probably was. I mean, I always speak fast, but sometimes if the interview is in the morning, it is soon after that first cup, and well, yes, I can be dangerous after the first cup :-)
  • markf217 · 5 months ago
    Andrew is a great guy. And he has great ideas sometimes. But Andrew is not an American citizen. He is a British subject in the USA on a visa. I am ambivalent about someone who is not an U.S. citizen being so partisan and so overly involved in and worked up about U.S. gov't issues. During the eight-year nightmare of George Bush's presidency, I heard many British folks say Americans are overbearing. And Andrew was a big Bush supporter in the 2000 election. So I wonder what the UK would think if an American came to their country and started calling for the British to "target" specific members of parliament. How would American participation and involvement in British politics be received? This all seems a little presumptuous and overbearing on his part. That said, I believe that Andrew married an American man. If Andrew had married a woman he could become a U.S. citizen. So, in a way, Andrew was discriminated against because of his sexuality. Maybe he would be a U.S. citizen if the U.S.A. didn't discriminate against same sex married couples.
  • Steve_in_CNJ · 5 months ago
    i don't understand you. since when have americans refrained from criticizing foreign political leaders?
  • markf217 · 5 months ago
    I criticize politicians from all over the world all the time. But I would feel very weird about settling in a foreign country where I am not a citizen and trying to organize political action against specific politicians and political parties. I am an American expat living in Bulgaria with my Bulgarian husband. I have my opinions about things in Bulgaria (I am in the USA visiting at the moment). But as an American I certainly can't fathom calling for Bulgarians to "target" certain politicians in Bulgaria or becoming active in Bulgarian politics. That seems to go way beyond "criticism." But if the USA behaved fairly and recognized Andrew's marriage, he could become an American citizen. He is married to an American man. I suppose I have felt stung by some of the hostile anti-American sentiment I encountered in Europe during the eight-year Bush nightmare, especially in the UK (I heard, over and over that "Americans are pushy and overbearing, always interfering in the business of other countries"). But we do have a rich heritage of free speech in the USA and of course Andrew can say what he wants to say. I just don't know how much credibility he has as someone who isn't actually an American citizen. And Andrew's endorsement of Bush in 2000 makes me really not that enthused about Andrew's politics.
  • Gridlock · 5 months ago
    You'd be amazed where some of the posters here come from.
  • Cyrus · 5 months ago
    I'm sorry to have forgotten to show you my naturalization certificate before posting comments here earlier.... Or do I have to have blue eyes and blond hair too?
  • ScottLanter · 5 months ago
    "We will not tolerate another Clinton."

    LOL, with Sullivan everything always comes back to Clinton. He despises Bill Clinton as much as his buddy Matt Drudge hates Michelle Obama.
  • ScottLanter · 5 months ago
    The money quote: "And I am not going to take this crap for much longer on civil rights"

    "much longer" ... ROTFLMAO. Sully always makes sure to provide himself an out. When Donnie McClurkin was paid to perform at an Obama campaign event and when Rick Warren spoke at the inauguration, Sully said a line had been crossed ... until the next line ... and the next ... and the next.
  • Gridlock · 5 months ago
    Maybe we need to turn him a bit towards a cliff so he runs out of ground.
  • Bubbles · 5 months ago
    Far be it for me to apologize for Obama, but I think I know what he's doing here. I'm not sure whether I agree with it, but, here it is.

    Obama's politics is all about reducing resistance. Gay politics amplifies resistance.

    One of Obama's techniques is to disarm his opponents. In the middle east we see this in play - In Cairo he neatly conceded almost everything that the extremist government rants about, except Nuclear weapons and Israel's right to exist. This had the effect of stealing the Islamisists levers for manipulating the electorate, the results of which are people marching en mass in the streets of Tehran against their government.

    This is standard Obama politics. He tries to lull the opposition into sleep.

    Obama figures that amping up gay rights plays into the conservatives hands. Few things get the Republican base motivated like anything associated with gays.

    I don't agree with his position on public health option. I think the compromise position to medicare for all is, medicare for all with a private health care option for those who want it (i.e. redundant health care for the wingnuts that want it).

    But I think Obama approaches things from a different perspective. He gives as much tactical ground as possible, giving in on the arguments of his opponents, and hangs on to only the strategic ground. His public option neuters most of the Republicans past talking points - but would, over time, force most insurance companies out of the business, at which point medicare for all becomes much more politically feasible. My problem with this approach is that Republicans can change their arguments much easier and more quickly than Obama can change his policy proposals, and we are already paying out enough money for universal health care now - Obama's proposal would cost more. etc...

    Gay politics is such a lightening rod on the right, Obama simply doesn't want to bring it up now. Politically, I think he sees that it jeopardizes anything else he might want to achieve in his administration. With greater resistance from Republicans, Obama will have to burn through more political capital, just to do everyday things.

    I think he sees it this way. If I push gay politics now, there will be no health care reform, no card check. If I push it later, I got a chance of getting most of what I want.
  • dula · 5 months ago
    The Country is to the Left of him now. If he feels Gays will jeopardize his agenda NOW, in the first year, he will never get to our Rights (watch John's interview). How long would you be willing to wait for your Rights? So patient of you to deny me mine.
  • Steve_in_CNJ · 5 months ago
    how does your analysis apply to the general election campaign in which he frequently came out as a fierce advocate for GL equality? why didn't he cede that ground?
  • latda · 5 months ago
    He has a Dem Congress and Senate. If he can't get progressive reform through now when do you think that might happen? When he looses the Senate in 2010? But, then again, in the big master scheme that you have figured out, bubbles, Obama can blame not getting DOMA and DADT repealed because of the damn Rep Senate...then he will really have to win again in 2012 to fulfill his initial campaign promises...then the rainbow will come and we will all live happily ever after.
  • Bubbles · 5 months ago
    They are also for single payer health care - and they have a personal stake
    in that.

    I really don't want to defend Obama. I'm just trying to explain what I think
    he's doing. I'm mad as hell at him for a lot of the positions he's taking -
    but I'm holding my powder dry, because he might pull everything off, making
    me look like a passionate, but otherwise ignorant, nincompoop.

    This is America. As Churchill once said, "Americans always do the right
    thing, after having tried everything else first."

    Japan, Germany and England, were each out of the great depression by 1933,
    34, and 35, respectively. The U.S. was not out until five years later and
    it took a world war to do that.

    The way I see it, gay rights is the ripest fruit to pick - its something
    that is most inevitable of all liberal causes (health care, card check,
    global warming), but it is also the one that will electrify the raving
    wingnut idiots the most and call them to action - that's why Republicans
    always make sure that some kind of Gay issue comes up during an election
    year.

    Again, I don't want to defend Obama. I'm in it for Health Care First, Card
    Check second, and everything else third. 20,000 people will needlessly die
    this year because of our health care system. If the labor movement were
    stronger we wouldn't have any problems at all (all liberal legislation in
    this country was the result of labor pushing for it, which is why nothing's
    happened since Walter Reuther died in the early 1970s).

    I'm very antsy, but as I said, I'm keeping my powder dry until he's
    definitively failed, then I'm going ballistic.
  • cowboyneok · 5 months ago
    Just to let ya know. I removed your post because you inadvertently "double posted" the same thing.
  • cowboyneok · 5 months ago
    Answer this: The American people have been polled on Don't Ask Don't Tell. They are FOR the repeal. 253 servicemen have been discharged, and Obama can stop it NOW with a STOP LOSS while the policy is "reviewed" and they can work on repeal. Why hasn't the stop loss been issued? Answer that.
  • Bubbles · 5 months ago
    They are also for single payer health care - and they have a personal stake in that.

    I really don't want to defend Obama. I'm just trying to explain what I think he's doing. I'm mad as hell at him for a lot of the positions he's taking - but I'm holding my powder dry, because he might pull everything off, making me look like a passionate, but otherwise ignorant, nincompoop.

    This is America. As Churchill once said, "Americans always do the right thing, after having tried everything else first."

    Japan, Germany and England, were each out of the great depression by 1933, 34, and 35, respectively. The U.S. was not out until five years later and it took a world war to do that.

    The way I see it, gay rights is the ripest fruit to pick - its something that is most inevitable of all liberal causes (health care, card check, global warming), but it is also the one that will electrify the raving wingnut idiots the most and call them to action - that's why Republicans always make sure that some kind of Gay issue comes up during an election year.

    Again, I don't want to defend Obama. I'm in it for Health Care First, Card Check second, and everything else third. 20,000 people will needlessly die this year because of our health care system. If the labor movement were stronger we wouldn't have any problems at all (all liberal legislation in this country was the result of labor pushing for it, which is why nothing's happened since Walter Reuther died in the early 1970s).

    I'm very antsy, but as I said, I'm keeping my powder dry until he's definitively failed, then I'm going ballistic.
  • rduke · 5 months ago
    Gee, we've never heard that one before. All we have to do is WAIT.

    It's always the same argument. And he we are, STILL WAITING.
  • Butch1 · 5 months ago
    Keep their feet to the fire.
  • Jersey · 5 months ago
    Very nice intewrview John. Informative and concise. I'm so sick of listening to people like Solomenese and that awful interview with Rea whatshername from NGLTF being all apologetic and mealy mouthed. It's also good to hear our better known family members calling for boycotting funding the dems until they finally do something after all these decades of inaction. This is gonna work, guaranteed.
  • A2900 · 5 months ago
    John, you really did an excellent job in the interview -- I wish it had had greater distribution (I'm doing my part with my 200 addresses <g>). I loved the part where you spelled out clearly that the promises made by Obama in the campaign were explicit, and that he has been back-tracking on them. Your clarity of style is helpful too, needless to say.

    Keep it up!
  • John Aravosis · 5 months ago
    Thanks A :-)
  • DMD · 5 months ago
    It's amazing how quickly some people who are supposedly liberals take up the GOP talking points when Obama doesn't put their concerns before all others.

    And how a website can fan the flames by straight up twisting Obama's words and actions and then go asking for donations. Why? All the extra blogging on DOMA costs $ for bandwidth? Creating hate and raising money off of it is what Jerry Falwell did too.

    Like may other people have said in the comments, some "liberals" here are now hard to distinguish from the pro-lifers, PUMA's, and right wingers. Different issue of course, but the same hateful, vile, infantile behaviour. If these are your true colors, then maybe the GOP is actually where you belong.
  • dula · 5 months ago
    If fighting for our Equal Rights is "hateful" then so be it. Btw, did you read the DOMA brief? yeah, thought so.
  • MauraHennessey · 5 months ago
    Today is 18 June 2009, nearly the end of one of the most amazing weeks in LGBT history, though we probably will not realise that til historians tell us so a few years from now. This was the week that the neglected, maligned, and dismissed Queer community in America derailed the powerful media machine of the Executive Department of the Government of the United States.

    Our impact upon the agenda of all branches of the Government was so profound that we found leaders of two branches working hard to pass the blame to each other like a hot potato. "Yes, we can" became transmuted into a denial of responsibility for lack of action on our issues "No, I didn't."

    The President explained to us how he simply had to smear us as part of his Constitutional responsibilities, that he had no choice but to attack our equality by comparing us to incest perpetrators and saying that the Government must save money by denying us rights.

    Our so called leaders fought back against oppression when we began to seize the initiative from both them and the Government. Later, those "spokesqueers" embraced the Government when they offered us a "scrap of paper" and greatly hedged promises of support in some indistinct future.

    For nearly a week we have taken the Government of the United States off of its message. Despite being told over and over that President Obama is busy with other, more important things, the White House nonetheless had to devote media resources and hours to trying to placate us with the usual empty and limited impact gestures.


    Despite being told over and over that President Obama is busy with other, more important things, the White House nonetheless had to devote media resources and hours to trying to placate us with the usual empty and limited impact gestures.

    What could have been the impact had the Government devoted the same amount of time and effort months ago to supporting our rights, rather than spending the time this week trying to defend the indefensible actions that it took and defending the lack of action that it has shown on our behalf?

    The Government feels that its offer to pay for U-Haul rental for the partners of relocated Federal employees was a groundbreaking and newsworthy effort towards equality. They hope that the generous coverage of the cost of Ryder trucks will placate us and silence us. I remain willing to offer a "Rental Truck Equality Award" symbolic of this magnanimous gesture towards moving day liberation.

    After telling us for days that there was no legislation in the pipeline, now we are told that "ENDA may be introduced," the Hate Crimes bill "may be voted upon." Obviously, the bills were hiding somewhere, probably in an undisclosed location with Dick Cheney and were being kept secret for protection in case Islamic Radicals tried to fly an inkpot into them.

    Neither of these bills will see the light of day if we do what the Government is hoping that we do, which is to retreat back to our long-patterned behaviours of whining ineffectively and complaining amongst ourselves.

    For a week, we have been a force to be reckoned with. The threat of us embarrassing an Administration that prides itself upon communication skills and management of the media has led to them sputtering out platitudes and vague intimations of support on issues. If we retreat now, if we engage in self congratulations and then "Leave it to Barney" or "hand if off to Joe" we will have none but ourselves to blame when we acheive little or nothing. Both of those worthies, while briefly tring to get out in front of us when we rebelled, have predicatably rejoined the chorus of unqualified praise and apologetics for this Adminstration. They, of course, expect us to follow.

    The Administration, while scrambling for political Xanax to quiet us, made sure to explain that their unprecedented flurry of panicked activity was not in response to our activities and behaviour, all the while scrambling to man the media ramparts.

    I don't believe them. Neither should you.

    This week occured with us openly opposing an adminstration that casually indulges homophobia while disregarding us. This week occured with the brief, weak concurrance of our leadership who previously have opposed any such groundswell upon our part.

    Every tired, frustrated and angry LGBT made this most amazing week possible. Now comes the hard part, to choose to make other weeks like this possible.

    Are we committed and ready to do so?
    Yes, we are.
  • Wren Margaret · 5 months ago
    Yes we can!
  • cowboyneok · 5 months ago
    You tell me WHY Obama hasn't issued a STOP LOSS EXECUTIVE ORDER to stop discharging LGBT soldiers? Why? Answer that.
  • DMD · 5 months ago
    Well, it can't be because he is trying to do things with proper timing that insures that his political capital is not prematurely depleted and that his party is not put in a position where their control of congress is in jeopardy.

    No. It can't be that we wants to do things in a deliberate way that keeps he and his party in power and thereby able to accomplish ALL of his priorities.

    No, it must be because he hates the gays. Yes. AmericaBlog is right; Obama is a homophobe, out to get you and you must kick him to the curb and trash him in a way that makes Glenn Beck smile. Oh, and while you're at it give more money to AmericaBlog so they can have more cash for vacations and maybe a new car.

    Rapping on Obama with the same tone and vitriol as Redstate.com is actually alienating a lot of Liberal Dems who would otherwise be working for you.

    I mean, right or not, myself and thousands of other Obama supporters are not going to give $, time and effort for people who act like PUMA's. Just the opposite.

    Right or wrong, a lot of Obama faithful hearing this crap about him are more likely to just say "the hell with ya'". If you're OK with that, keep on gettin' on. But that's the kind of "who needs you" kind of logic that's got the GOP so isolated.

    You wanna lose goodwill and support from people who would otherwise support you, keep trashing, insulting and giving up on President Obama. You'll soon find your entire movement on the same "pay no mind" list as the PUMA's.
  • MauraHennessey · 5 months ago
    If he is not a homophobe at some level, he at least sees homophobia as an acceptable prejudice. Otherwise there would have been no Rick Warren and no Donnie McClurkin, and no homophobic faith advisors.
  • MauraHennessey · 5 months ago
    as an aside;
    we have long since stopped expecting any support from you "morning coat revolutionaries" still demanding our acquiescence in the name of President Obama's already mutilated agenda.
  • dula · 5 months ago
    You are absolutely right. This is not just politics for him.
  • Wren Margaret · 5 months ago
    Threatening us isn't going to work anymore. Get used to it.
  • DMD · 5 months ago
    It's no threat. If you talk to people, network, or just read the blogs you will see a lot of dedicated liberals who are on your side but are just not going to lend a helping hand to people who start treating Obama the way GOP does. Name calling, insulting, sneering, and basically spewing crap at he man in the same way Larry Johnson, Rush Limbaugh and
    Sean Hannity, and Sarah Palin do.

    People may agree with you, but when you basically join forces and negative talking points (Obama's an elitist?) a lot Liberals are going to abandon your cause. The kind of crap eminating from sites like this is going to hurt you cause. I mean, after reading the hate for Obama on this site, why would someone who loves Obama want to help you??
  • Wren Margaret · 5 months ago
    If you can't tell the difference between criticism and hate then I can't help you. I have always been a strong supporter of Obama. It's his administration that threw me under the bus, not the other way around.
  • cowboyneok · 5 months ago
    Thank you, Wren! Exactly.
  • rduke · 5 months ago
    We have taken the same crap for years. We believed in Obama and helped get him elected. Then we get slapped in the face with that hideous DOMA brief and our "fierce advocate" can't even apologize for that mess.

    You will not silence us. Every time you tell us to be quiet we will just get louder. If liberals get upset because we demand equal rights then they are not really liberals.
  • cowboyneok · 5 months ago
    Spending "political capital" on National Security? Spending "political capital" on what America has been polled to want right now? How is giving what America wants and protecting National Security spending "political capital?"

    Its called an EXECUTIVE ORDER STOP LOSS order for a reason. He doesn't have to ASK anyone to issue it. He is the President. Again, read what I asked about political capital and tell me how he is spending "political capital" by issuing a STOP LOSS order.

    Oh, and since most Administrations do the really HARD STUFF in the first 100 days tell me when its going to be convenient timing to do this STOP LOSS order? When in fact, arabic translator Lieutenant Choi is a poster boy for why it should have been issued in Obama's FIRST WEEK!
  • dula · 5 months ago
    It's not only the Gays who are giving up on Obama. He is selling everybody out of Single-Payer healthcare. It's about to get real ugly...talk about isolation.
  • FunMe · 5 months ago
    You are so 1993!
  • FunMe · 5 months ago
    It's amazing how quickly some people who are supposedly liberals take up the GOP talking points like Obama who doesn't put the concerns of all Americans and not just his and instead INSULTS his own constituency.

    And it's amazing when Obama wonders why.

    So much for being the smart president.
  • cowboyneok · 5 months ago
    Excellent! Loved how you brought up the STOP LOSS EXECUTIVE ORDER! Good job, John!
  • MauraHennessey · 5 months ago
    Well, you are few days behind the gang at Pam's House Blend who are organising protests now, but welcome to the Uprising, John and Andrew.
  • jasonut29 · 5 months ago
    DMD keeps telling us we're talking hate here. Let's clear this up. Obama's brief is HATE not us saying we're going to unite to make him understand that we are no longer going to step back and ignore that the Dems are famous for promising to us and giving us nothing. At least the Repubs promise us nothing and live up to that. Most of us are not saying we aren't going to continue to vote for the lesser of the two evils which is still the Dems but the fact is our money WILL make them understand we mean business. Those supposed liberals who are going to walk away because we are making demands are part of the problem they are politicals more concerned about "the party" than the real issues. Our civil rights should not be held as a negotiating tool for a future election. Clinton screwed us and now we're being asked to wait again for Obama to have time to move on an issue he promised he was going to take action on. We are NOT a group to be ashamed of we are a group of Americans that are no longer going to ride in the back of the bus and drink from the gay fountains they provide us. Boycotting a gay fundraiser is not abandoning a party. Keeping ourselves in the media WILL gain us support as long as we don't do anything stupid and stating that we feel betrayed is not stupid...stepping back and waiting would be...I for one am not interested in the crumbs that are being offered us I'm ready for steak and potatoes and in my mind that is real action on DADT. This to me right now is the real threat to this nation and Obama knows that and so does his advisors...its an easy step for him and one that would have made the gays accepting of a timetable...right now the timetable they are giving us is wait and see but "trust us"....sorry but I can't think of any politician that I trust with my life and this is my life. I am a gay man with a loving partner, four kids that I can't even provide insurance for because the country that was built on freedom has taken the backdoor to freedom while other countries pass us by...this is no longer acceptable to me and I voted for Obama because I thought he was going to help me...he shows no sign of that now so yes right now my checkbook is locked for the Dems and HRC.
  • Paul Hoffman · 5 months ago
    The video of John Araosis being interviewed on CBS.com is labeled "Andrew Sullivan declares war on the DNC."
  • Jack · 5 months ago
    John looks like Superman in that screen shot. Go John!
  • zookz · 5 months ago
    I've been waiting 60+ years... I'll wait longer, as long as the DNC doesn't mind waiting for my lesbian money and losing my lesbian vote.

    If this was about African American civil rights, do you think oblahblah droids woudl be yammering about "wait", "just give him some time"?

    doubt it
  • lgbtpuma · 5 months ago
    THE P.U.M.A's tried to warn you all but no, many of you in the LGBT community didn't listen. Andrew Sullivan, Donna Brazille , Joe Salomnese, Rachel Maddow, and the rest of you.... YOU are the problem and you are responsible for Obama's coronation. During the primaries Obama repeatedly showed he was not suppportive of GAYS. WAKE UP!!!!
  • John F · 5 months ago
    It's not just 'the gays' that will stop giving their money to the Democrats. I won't be giving another penny until this civil rights issue is resolved.
  • publicsteele · 5 months ago
    Excellent interview, John. Great tone and great questions, too. And you looked quite dashing, to boot!