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AMERICAblog: Harry Reid: No plans to do squat on DADT, let Obama do it

  • Liam · 5 months ago
    Neo-Nazis are in the Army now.

    Why the U.S. military is ignoring its own regulations and permitting white supremacists to join its ranks.

    http://www.salon.com/news/feature/2009/06/15/ne...

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    So Lt. Dan Choi is expendable to the US military, but white supremacists are welcome? And my gay tax dollars pay for this, even though I'm not allowed to serve?

    It is time for us to fight back!

    I have written the President, my senators, my congress people, and on. I have informed all of them that I will not support anyone that does not support 100% civil rights for all LGBT people. No more money. No more volunteer work. No more votes. No More Mister Nice Gay.

    Instead, I will be funneling my resources to politicians and organizations that can show a proven track record of accomplishments. I don't buy promises any more.
  • bowser · 5 months ago
    UN-BEL-ieve-able. They let racists in the military but not gays. This is really an outrage. It is time to write the congress and the president and let them know how disappointed we are.

    Every person needs civil rights. PERIOD.

    Those of us who are straight need to step up and join with those of us who are gay and say ENOUGH!!!

    I will be letting Mr. Obama know how outragous this is. I will also be letting Harry Reid and Nanci Pelosi and my own representatives and senators know how I feel about this issue.

    Why am I, as a liberal, continually disappointed by democrats??
  • SCLiberal · 5 months ago
    because corporations own both parties
  • bowser · 5 months ago
    No kidding. Lord, what will we do?

    Can the corporations help us? Can the capitalists help us?
  • Jersey · 5 months ago
    Any monies you would have sent to dem candidates can now go to fighting the "Peoples veto" in Maine and fighting the repeal of the newly enacted domestic partner laws in Washington State. The silver lining is that this shitty attitude of Reid's frees up alot of money for truly worthy causes.
  • mamazboy · 5 months ago
    Excellent point, Jersey.
  • offspring · 5 months ago
    i agree, we should focus on a state at a time with our monies till we get a force to be listened to. as for obama I have nothing good to say so it is a waste of my energy. He cared more in the last few months about the rights feelings than anything.
  • nicho · 5 months ago
    This is almost like it's deliberate. I really find it hard to believe that all of these insults of the past month or so are mere coincidences. You'd have to be a pretty wild-eyed coincidence theorist to believe that.

    I'm starting to think they got together and said "What are the top 10 ways we can stick it to the GLBT community?"

    I'm kind of joking, but what other major constituency of the Democratic party has gotten such shit from the Democrats and Obama on such a consistent basis?

    They've been nicer to the GOP, anti-choice nutballs, the religious right, etc. than they have to the people who worked so hard to put them in office.
  • Savage8862 · 5 months ago
    Democrats are COWARDS! I no longer consider myself a Democrat.
  • Butch1 · 5 months ago
    I stopped considering myself one for awhile now.
  • Mel · 5 months ago
    Same here. I wish I hadn't dropped my Democratic registration a decade ago. It'd feel really good to do it now. Of course, they still send me stuff asking for money.
  • Butch1 · 5 months ago
    Now's your chance. ;-) When they send those annoying little questionaires just to get you to donate money, send them back a nice little note in magic marker, something to the point and mail it back to them. They usually send a previously paid self-addressed envelope. Fill it with your message and mail it back. They will be wasting money mailing those out to people if the envelope is returned back to them without any money in it.
  • terrya · 5 months ago
    Yep, there you go. To see good people like Dan Choi and the other gay and lesbian servicemen and women who have been kicked out of the military just because they wanted to serve their country openly...and to end up sacrificied because of this spineless homophobic bullshit from the Democratic Party.

    I now renounce my affliation with the Democratic Party. No more money and votes from me. Fuck this shit. I've had it with that bullshit from them.
  • Butch1 · 5 months ago
    I mentioned before, that if our government does not want to honour gays and lesbians and their service to this country, then ALL the servicemen and women who are gay, should announce they are gay and leave the service. ( all 16,000 of them. ) Our armed forces don't deserve them if that is how they feel. We should also pay less in income taxes since we are considered 2nd-class citizens. Something needs to be done.
  • Savage8862 · 5 months ago
    Thanks John for being on the forefront of this. I appreciate your hard work!!!
  • glennmcgahee · 5 months ago
    For those receiving fundraising letters. Send it back, no money, just a note. It costs THEM. You get to make a point. I send mine back with the date: May 31, 2008. Thats the day Obama was awarded 4 of Hillary Clinton's delegates in a race he had removed himself from in Michigan. That was the day I realized the Democratic Party was not the party I had been a lifelong member of. Don't forget, that party attempted to remove Gay/Lesbian/Transgender rights from the Democratic Platform. Donna Brazille stated that gay rights took away the legitimacy of the true civil rights of African Americans. There was not a mention of other minorities - American Indians as a good example. Civil Rights belong to everyone, regardless
  • Solitary · 5 months ago
    Someone suggested - here? the Blend? I can't remember now - sending in Monopoly money. It's just as worthless as their promises.
  • PeteWa · 5 months ago
    I helped my brother up,
    And then he helped them hold me down.
  • glennmcgahee · 5 months ago
    Gee, I think ole Donnie McClurkin could have told you all about this a year and a half ago. You must understand, there is a campaign to win in 2012. Clinton tried it on his very 1st day in office, but he's a racist and homophobe you know.
  • LM · 5 months ago
    Thank you! It's truly rich that the Obama apologists are quick to pile it on Clinton. It was cowardly for Clinton to sign DOMA, and DADT was a piss-poor compromise. AT LEAST CLINTON tried, right out of the gate. I'll forgive him for that. (Lest we forget, 1994/1996 was a LONG time ago - Obama doesn't have the excuses that Bill Clinton did).

    Obama is a fraud. That writing has been on the wall for a long time now - remember during the campaign when he wouldn't lower himself to interview with The Advocate? (As though they would have done anything but fawn over him anyway.) Remember that?

    Create all the conspiracy theories you want about right wingers trying to secretly undermine Obama. The fact is, Dick Cheney supports marriage equality. Look at the Republicans in the NY state legislature who have come around and now support marriage equality. More than 60% of the public supports repealing DADT. On and on and on the examples mount of conservative Republicans who are more progressive on the issue than BARRY "hope" OBAMA.

    He duped all of you true believers. And guess what? Our progressive straight allies who said "Oh no, he can't really be against gay marriage, he's just sayin' that" are about 2 seconds away from telling us to "shut up - there are more important things right now. wait some more!"

    He's a fraud. The sooner we accept this as a community, the better. He's not going to GIVE us anything. And we're on our own in this - kiss your progressive allies goodbye.

    Gavin Newsom? Antonio Villairagosa? They'll criticize Obama's hate brief, but won't criticize Obama. COWARDS, both of them. If they don't have the guts to call Obama directly out on his DOJ's hate brief, they're no better.

    Volunteer in OUR community. Give money to OUR community organizations. Support OUR gay/lesbian politicians. And withdraw support from EVERY Democrat who offers up lip service.
  • bowser · 5 months ago
    'Our progressive straight allies who said "Oh no, he can't really be against gay marriage, he's just sayin' that" are about 2 seconds away from telling us to "shut up - there are more important things right now. wait some more!"'

    OH, no no no. I am one of those straight allies. And I am not the slightest bit about to say anything of the sort. I am quite upset about this issue. Personally I believe EVERY SINGLE PERSON deserves the FULL RANGE of civil rights. Including marriage.

    Even if Obama is a fraud, and I am not sure he is (I am VERY VERY disappointed in Obama but....fraud? or standard politician? is there any difference?) but even if he is we must pressure him (and all democrats) with protests, letters, phone calls until we get a full range of rights for gays and all other people.
  • Gridlock · 5 months ago
    "The fact is, Dick Cheney supports marriage equality."

    Oh bullshit. Cheney believes nothing of the sort, he's being politically expedient right now. He said he believes in "freedom" for everyone (The Cheney version of freedom we had for the last 8 years of no habeas corpus and torture?), he didn't say he believed in gay marriage. Nor were there any mention of RIGHTS in his little shpiel. Even if he DID believe in it, he said he'd defer to the states to decide, so at best a patchwork quilt of discrimination.

    You actually BOUGHT that shit? Good god, wake up call.
  • LM · 5 months ago
    no need to take it out on me! i'm not the one who took your money and votes and is now crapping all over you.

    no, dick cheney isn't a crusader for marriage equality. criticize him all you want, he certainly deserves it, but dick cheney said the SAME thing in 2004. he's far more consistent on the subject than obama has ever been. the truth hurts, doesn't it?

    torture, huh? the torture that obama was gonna investigate and prosecute and expose? thankfully he's stopped the torture, but his current plan is to wish it all away - no investigations, no prosecutions. why expose and prosecute the torturers? might hurt his popularity with people who count (i.e. not the gay community).
  • Tracy · 5 months ago
    I hope no one is surprised by this. Obama has been a "fierce" advocate for gay rights in name only but has done nothing for us. And his tendency to be all things to all people in order to help get elected but toss anyone under the buss as soon as they are no longer needed is the reason I was Clinton supporter during the primaries. At least with her I *knew* where I stood, whether I liked it or not.
  • Gridlock · 5 months ago
    I think it's time for a little mass civil disobedience. I'm talking sit ins, i'm talking arrests, I'm talking firehoses, i'm talking tear gas.

    I'm talking take our rights by force since clearly none of the levels of government are going to lift a fucking finger until they have a metaphorical bayonet to their throats.

    SHUT DOWN DC.
  • Seansmith · 5 months ago
    God I wish gay people and our straight allies actually had the organizing and leadership to pull this off, because I keep hearing this generally feeling from gay people. We just need a base.

    This would do more for us than anything, withholding money included.
  • Fight now. · 5 months ago
    Thats what im talkin about.
  • usagi · 5 months ago
    Isn't having nowhere else to go just grand?
    How's that Obama Recession working for everyone?
  • Butch1 · 5 months ago
    If you have nothing to say that is constructive, gloating is rather puerile, don't you think?
  • usagi · 5 months ago
    No, and I'm not gloating--I'm livid. I actually thought I might vote for that bastard when he came up for reelection. If he'd done something substantive and positive, I would have. Now, fuck him and spineless Dems he rode in with.
    You may have missed my comment yesterday--this fiasco is where the slack stopped, so this is now the Obama Recession. That's my constructive contribution. Obama doesn't want to have gay support, great. Let's help rebrand the defining issue of 2010 and 2012 into an albatross around his neck. It's been long enough, this is the Obama Recession now. Unfair? So's not being able to get married. Suck it up.
  • Butch1 · 5 months ago
    I may have missed your comment of yesterday. First impression of this thread's comment appeared to be coming from someone sounding like one of the "drive-by" commenters who are only here to cause us pain. Since that is not the case, my apologies.
    This personally, affects me possibly more than many others who have not had the chance to marry yet. My partner of more than 28 years and I married in Oregon, along with 3,000 other gays and lesbians a few years ago only to have it snatched away from us one year later by the swipe of a justice's pen. At least those who were married in California before Prop 8 are still married.

    This latest stab in the back by a person whom we thought was a "fierce advocate," is the last straw for me. I'm a quick learner and I do not need to have continuous puncture wounds to my back to recognize what is happening to us. I will be doing more than just sucking it up, I'm finished with the democratic party and this president. I believed in him and he is a big deceiver. He is going to have to actually start doing what he promised us he would do and do it soon to ever win my vote back. The clock is ticking and the longer he waits to do what is right, the more convinced I will be that I made the right decision to not support a president and a spineless party that would rather throw us under the bus after every election after courting us and fooling us again and again. This was it for me and I think many others. The ball is in Obama's court and he had better start making the right decisions. Less talk and more walk, if you ask me. I have also had enough of the spineless, leaderless Reid who definitely does not have our interests at hand regarding our equal rights. He is all talk and absolutely no action.
  • DavidinPS · 5 months ago
    Let us not forget what religion Harry Reid is. A we really such a pitiful lot that we turned our eyes in a moment of need to...a Mormon?
  • dula · 5 months ago
    Let us not forget what Religion Obama is either.
  • Jim Olson · 5 months ago
    That would be protestant Christian, and until recently, a member of the United Church of Christ.
  • nicho · 5 months ago
    And it was a member of the Mormon cult who did us in on the DOMA brief. Can you imagine what this country is going to be like if Mitt Romney gets elected?
  • Lepanto · 5 months ago
    Was Clinton a Mormon?
  • nicho · 5 months ago
    I have no idea what your question means.
  • Lepanto · 5 months ago
    Well, so much complaint about this brief because one of the counsel was a Mormon, for a Law that was signed by a President, Clinton, that certainly was not a Mormon. In other words was not the "Mormon cult"as you like to refer to it that enacted the DOMA.
  • mirth · 5 months ago
    So, the next prez race is between Obama and Romney - which is one likely scenario.

    What do we do?
  • dcmsufan · 5 months ago
    vote for Satan.
  • SaveTheChildren · 5 months ago
    NO freaking way. Mormons are NOT an option for the highest office in the Country. What if Moonsun gives an order? Bad news, those Mormons.
  • Jersey · 5 months ago
    I sure am glad you are against a March on Washington, too. We wouldn't want to waste our time and energy expressing our dissatisfaction. Even though the March is on for Oct 10. Be there or be cowards.
  • FNReedie · 5 months ago
    Repeat after me -- not another dime for a politician that doesn't prove his worth to the LGBT community. No more words, no more promises.
  • offspring · 5 months ago
    aunt tom, is to busy kissing the rights ass.
  • Tom in Lazybrook · 5 months ago
    Just got a note from an US Senate candidate in Texas asking me to donate "up to 4800 bucks". I'll let them know that I'll be donating up to $0 until ENDA is passed.
  • Jersey · 5 months ago
    Tom, if you were previously inclined to give this person any money might I suggest sending that money on to the organizations that are fighting to keep equality alive in the states that have these bills in the works. Dan Choi also fronts a group fighting for equality in the military that I'm sure could use some help. I'm sending some when I get paid next. No more for dems from me until they straighten up on gay issues.
  • JP · 5 months ago
    John,

    What are you going to say and do when Obama and Congress repeal DADT and DOMA?

    The way you frame this debate with your words is that he won't ever do anything for the GLBT community and has thus lost your vote forever.

    I'm just wondering if you've ever been wrong before and thought through other points of view that are more complex, constructive and don't continue to sow the seeds of anger.

    Since you whole-heartedly believe that Obama would cut off the GLBT community entirely thus ending your support, as crazy as that is politically alone, I offer this ridiculous notion: that DOMA was argued in a flawed manner to be easily overturned by the courts.

    Maybe I am dreaming but I don't see things in absolutes when it is politically convenient to do so only for the purpose of stirring the pot of anger and then to later find new information that makes you look a bit ridiculous in your grand statements.

    My point is this, engage, understand and bring about a solution. Stop bitching and do something.
  • John Aravosis · 5 months ago
    I'm not sure I understand your point. They've stabbed us in in the back, and now they're going to pay for it. And if they every want to woo us back, they're free to woo us back. I'm a good Christian boy, and happy to forgive someone who shows me they're sincere and understand the error of their ways. After they give me my civil rights.

    More generally, I've been politics for 20 years, the world for 45 years, and gay politics for 16 years. I kind of got over the "gosh what if I'm wrong" phase a lot time ago. You do your best to get it right, and then you fight like hell for yourself, your family and friends, and your community. You don't second-guess whether you're going to look silly. That's what Democrats do.

    And finally, "politically convenient"? What pray tell am I getting out of this? Not my civil rights, not any money or clients, no hot guys are throwing themselves at me as a result.

    Actually, one more thing. My years in politics have taught me that my methods tend to work wonders in getting people to do the right thing on our issues.
  • Jim Olson · 5 months ago
    StopDrLaura.com was a success. How about ThePresidentIsWrong.com?
  • JP · 5 months ago
    John,

    It is the idea of making someone "pay for it" to get your point across. This is the talk I hear everyday more and more from your site. I work with HRC and their members are upset but their language is reaching out versus a bitter rhetoric of anger and talking about Obama and politicians paying for it.

    They keep trying to find a common ground. If Obama and the Democratic leaders who campaigned on these issues for the GLBT community are truly arrogant and don't care as your words and the words of many of those who have commented here suggest, then by that logic, I cannot believe anything he or they say about anything.

    Many of your readers quote MLK's words and his famous letter while in prison but when did Dr. King say to those who suppressed his and all African American's civil rights and even those who threatened to murder him, that that they were "going to pay for it"?

    I'm curious to know if you truly believe Obama is this arrogant to throw away an entire community, a powerful, well financed and organized block of vocal voters.

    When I am speaking about it being politically convenient, I am talking the present, about what is convenient for the news of the moment – fanning flames of anger. The tone being struck here is militant, not engaging and it turns off a block of people who want to engage first before assuming a position such as making them "pay for it."

    Have you personally spoken with Obama? Do you know his heart, mind and soul?

    The only way to know this is to reach out and talk instead of launching an anger-laden diatribe that accomplishes nothing more than further turn off people who want to engage first, then take the next steps to correct the problem.

    Carol asked "Do you think change comes from doing nothing?" No I do not but it is what you do and how you do it that will bring the change you want to see.
  • bowser · 5 months ago
    Personally, I don't know other's motivations, but personally I think the point is that when it comes to politicians, they only seem to understand money and votes. This is how they are motivated. That is what I understand "they will pay for it." This is the only thing they really understand.

    People have to let politicians know how they feel over and over again till they get it right.
  • mirth · 5 months ago
    *eye roll*
  • John K. · 5 months ago
    How many years have we been reaching out now?.... Doesn't work. How about a real protest? And I'm not talking about sitting in the street and blocking traffic for a couple of hours. We should start making life MISERABLE for everyone until they act right.
  • nicho · 5 months ago
    I believe hosting a blog where people can post comments -- even ones like yours -- counts as "doing something."
  • Gridlock · 5 months ago
    No kidding, what's JP doing besides whining?
  • Savage8862 · 5 months ago
    I am no longer bitching as you suggest. I have been working for 20 plus years to bring about change and for once I allowed myself to have "hope" that this time would be different. I live in Oklahoma where being gay is treated like a disease where every county in this state is red to the extreme. Me and my partner of 22 years have every right to bitch because it is our lives we are fighting for.

    I would move to a different state but it seems now they can take rights away and it be upheld. Where are we supposed to go?

    CHANGE HAS NOT COME TO AMERICA.
  • Gridlock · 5 months ago
    Without his "bitching" as you put it, THE SITE WOULD NOT EXIST and you'd have nowhere to complain, however redundantly, about him complaining.

    Look at Obama's voting record. Look at how the different levels of government are pointing fingers at each other in blame.. it's not some brilliant secret decoder ring kabuki dance. It means gays are getting shafted and the issue is being tossed back and forth by cowards.
  • An_American_Karol · 5 months ago
    Do you think change comes from doing nothing?
    John is putting pressure where it belongs, on the politicians who have made promises and are now backing away from them.
  • woodroad34 · 5 months ago
    So who are the 'high-level gays' that have pulled out? And who are the 'high-level gays' that haven't? One should get orchids and a martini, the other should get dandy-lions and urine.
  • offspring · 5 months ago
    little ways to make a point, when ask for donations write in big marker on the form, repeal dadt and doma, but better yet a movement must be made to be know we are treated as nothing a pest, as evident by the census coming up soon, I had two women come to my door and ask if this was a single drewling, i said no i live with my partner she stated that that means single, they dont realize how sick that is to say to someone to belittle us, to make us instantly unequal, I ask if the census was going to count gay couples or gays she just said very nervously no, so when i get my census the thing i am paying for for america to count all the good straight couples, i am writing we are gay across it in big black letters and mailing it back nothing more nothing less, they may refuse to count me on their form but i am letting them no no matter what i exist, my husband and i exist, our relationship exist period. I suggest all gay and lesbian and bi and trans, write on the form the same, why? if people really did that then trust me it will be noticed, dont let people ignore you exist.
  • Butch1 · 5 months ago
    Even though they won't be counting you as partners, a "single-dwelling" means one person, a family, what ever. What it is not is an apartment building, or other structure that could house more than one family. That is how I understand its meaning.
  • Butch1 · 5 months ago
    Why do we continue to elect "children" to mismanage our equal rights? Payback is a MF, as we used to say. The time has come to drop these duds and start shopping around. It doesn't make any sense to continue to support people who do not support you or even care whether you have rights or not. It's more fun to play games with each other. Tick-tock; tick-tock.
  • Paul Foley · 5 months ago
    Pass ENDA this year. Nothing less is acceptable.
  • Steve O · 5 months ago
    I would just like to mention that I hope everyone who is posting on this and other sites has taken the trouble to at least send an email/call to the White House.
  • Savage8862 · 5 months ago
    I have emailed both the DNC and White House informing them they no longer have my monetary support and votes until DADT and DOMA are repealed and a GLBT inclusive hate crime and Enda is signed into law.
  • smith · 5 months ago
    Tim Kaine??? The same governor who actively campaigned in favor of the hate amendment in Virginia, that stripped both marriage and civil unions from gay couples. The DNC can't sink lower...
  • TheOriginalLiz · 5 months ago
    Harry Reid has been a doormat for the GOP all along. The GOP may be the party of authoritarianism, but the Democratic party is the party of "Please Tread on Me".
  • frank · 5 months ago
    Last Sunday in June Cancelled. NO TAX DOLLARS
  • Dan DeLeon · 5 months ago
    Plain and simple. Obama is a homophobic prick.
  • ibankerbob · 5 months ago
    I urge all members of the LGBT community to go to:

    www.notonenickel.blogspot.com.

    It's time for a "No Time, No Money" campaign.

    Stop donating time and money to all members of BOTH political parties. Period.

    Stop donating time and money to all groups who consistently expect the LGBT community's support - but never offer their own to us.

    Has anyone heard from the NAACP over the past few days? La Raza? Planned Parenthood? NARAL?

    Cricket chirps.
  • Mark · 5 months ago
    I contacted Barney Frank's office on Friday, (I live in his district) and am still waiting to hear back. I'd like to think that he'll at least respond.

    EDIT: Oops, I said Monday, but I meant Friday.
  • Stephen Inskeep · 5 months ago
    As a gay man, I am asking you to please have a little patience with Obama. I am sorry but if the choice is health care for the 46 million uninsured this year vs serving in the military I would gladly choose heath care! We can wait one more year for equality. If we try for everything this year we could end up with nothing!!
  • Gridlock · 5 months ago
    You aren't the one with your career and livelihood on the line. You are not allowed to speak for those that are.
  • Mike · 5 months ago
    I might have agreed with you, but the President's insistence on associating with homophobic pastors (Rick Warren isn't the first) shows me something about the man. Its a pattern of behavior, and if you want equal rights, dont wait around me, a straight man, to give them to you. Demand them.
  • SCLiberal · 5 months ago
    As a straight woman, I am suggesting some of the people here can see with certainty that one year from now nothing will have changed. If you think the fight for equality will wait another year, then it will... and another year after that... and another year after that....
  • PeteWa · 5 months ago
    You are right on the money.
  • Kuyper · 5 months ago
    Be patient? On gay rights it's only taken Obama six months to go from "Yes we can" to "No you can't"
  • Solitary · 5 months ago
    As a gay man, do you think you will be covered under health care? I'm queer and I can think of a couple places where they can put it 'except for' the trans, queer and gay/lesbian communities. Equality in all things, not just military and marriage.
  • banshiii · 5 months ago
    agreed, however.....
    this brief is way beyond acceptable.
    and a few words here and there would show intent and do a world of good, without costing capital.
    it's a big ass FAIL.
    I will give my full support to my proven dems. The rest must earn it.
  • stephanie · 5 months ago
    How about a Code Pink kind of activism. Get into venues where you can confront Obama about DOMA.
  • stephanie · 5 months ago
    and DADT.
  • RainbowPhoenix · 5 months ago
    Reid isn't particularly popular in his home state. We're coming up on our chance to get rid of him.
  • SCLiberal · 5 months ago
    I think the party some of you are looking for is the Green Party:
    # End Discrimination Against Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgendered People: Outlaw discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation in housing, employment, benefits, and child custody.
    # Same-Sex Marriage: Legal recognition of same-sex marriages.
  • Steve_in_CNJ · 5 months ago
    it's times like this when i so wish we had a parliamentary system. the greens (if it were safe to vote for them) plus the progressive Dem caucus would form a ruling coalition. the repubs, even with Reid and the yellow dogs, would be impotent backbenchers.
  • SCLiberal · 5 months ago
    I understand the reluctance to vote for third parties, however both major parties started small. If you take the long view, the next generation will have a better country to live in. If you are only interested in the short term, by all means continue to support a party that does not support you. See how far that gets you.
    As a reminder, the Republicans started their rise to dominance decades ago when they concentrated their efforts at the local level. Progressives should do the same and in Vermont, they are doing just that.
    Equal rights are too important to just sit around bitching about the Democrats. Stop waiting for Obama and company to give you what is yours. All major changes in our country have come from the bottom up--NOT from the "leaders".
  • bowser · 5 months ago
    I'm beginning to wonder.
  • John K. · 5 months ago
    If things have not changed with the Dems by 2010, including adding same-sex marriage to their national party platform, then I will seriously consider voting Green.
  • smallhandff · 5 months ago
    The Salon.com article linked in a below posting is a must read. I'm suprised this site has not yet commented on it.
  • John K. · 5 months ago
    OK, first, if they did put provisions in the health care bill for gay families, those provisions, passed later in time, would implicitly carve out exceptions to DOMA, even if they were based on marriage or civil unions. DOMA is mere legislation, not part of the constitution, so any legislation that Congress later passes the conflicts with DOMA trumps DOMA.

    Second, I agree with just about everything else in the article. Obama is hanging on by a thread with me right now, and he represents the Democratic Party, of which I have been a staunch supporter in recent years, since I've become involved in politics. I give no money, support, or votes to ANY candidate who is not completely on board for gay rights in the future. I voted for Obama even though he was against marriage equality because I thought he would get just about everything else done, but as we see, that was all a mirage. Not anymore; it's all or nothing for any candidate, and that includes the midterm elections in 2010.

    Wouldn't it be great if we gays caused the savior Barack Obama to lose his re-election bid in 2012? We have to do something to show we mean business, and we should start now. We should very publicly begin our efforts to thwart his re-election bid, subject only to his getting off his ass and vindicating our rights.
  • Malcolm · 5 months ago
    Please don't think gays are alone in this. Please include non-gays who care deeply about gay equality. Together, we can take Obama down in 2012.
  • John K. · 5 months ago
    You're absolutely right, and I apologize for my careless phraseology. Of course straight supporters are integral to every vindication of a right for LGBT Americans, and would be integral in an effort to show Obama and the Democrats that we mean business on 2012, and that we can change the outcome of elections.
  • mirth · 5 months ago
    John, this needed to be said and I'm glad that you did it so well. Much appreciated.

    Thanks too, to Malcolm ^.

    We must do this together.
  • Malcolm · 5 months ago
    Don't you see it's all the same thing? Health care, DADT, DOMA, Guantanamo, you name it, all the same. Obama talks a brilliantly good game, but when it comes to action, he's on W's page. There won't be health care reform, maybe just the odd bandaid that won't do anything for anyone, and there won't be reform of any of the anti-gay policies that are noxious to all who care about equality, be they gay or straight. Sit on your hands and your wallets, folks, and be prepared to stay home in 2012. A repug wouldn't be any different in action from what we've got now, just less brilliant a speaker.
  • jasonut29 · 5 months ago
    So I do hope that Barney, Tammy and Jared and reading some of this. The party is over folks and hopefully we are going to unite to get a new one rolling!! Lies, rhetoric and "fierce advocates" are no longer acceptable practices from the Dems or the President. We need people in place who will do what they promise and light some fire under the cowards like Reid who wants to be able to "blame" someone to this LDS constituents (this is not a hit to LDS). Just saying!!
  • banshiii · 5 months ago
    yea, and what they are not getting, is that every time they come asking for support, they either get deleted or get a response like, "Call me when you get something done for the GLBT community, otherwise, fuck off. I'd like to be helping, but I just can't do it.