DISQUS

AMERICAblog: Hollywood gossip mogul Perez Hilton not going to Sundance because of Prop 8

  • foxy · 1 year ago
    Sundance is really being arrogant about this issue. I hope more celebrities step up to the plate. Maybe more pressure on the films and the actors?
  • Rob Mule · 1 year ago
    The media was so entranced with purple Iraqi fingers maybe we should consider a pink or rainbow finger day?
    I just haven't decided which finger...
  • Bailey · 1 year ago
    One can argue the merits of Sundance continuing to use certain theaters in Park City, but the fact that Perez Hilton is so publicly not going to Sundance this year is only a net win for Sundance. PH is a gross cancer in trading in salacious rumors and all other kinds of tabloid crap. I'd be happier to hear that not only was he not going to Sundance but that he was folding up shop entirely.
  • John Aravosis · 1 year ago
    Bullshit. First of all, he has the balls to stand up and not go, and I don't see anyone else in that industry being that brave yet. Second, he has a big name - big name - whether you like him or not. It makes huge news in celebrity circles that he is boycotting. That adds pressure to Sundance, and it keeps the story going. He isn't just doing the right thing, he's doing a very smart thing, in terms of his activism. And he has a huge freaking audience on his blog. People need to put their petty differences aside and recognize a huge asset when they see it. He is doing a good thing, and a very smart thing, and I'm not going to accept people criticizing him because they simply don't like his gossip.
  • BusyTimmy · 1 year ago
    I don't read Perez, but I agree it's a great help... especially if he is actively talking about boycotting and his reasons why. That could spread like a virus.
  • Older_Wiser · 1 year ago
    Agree with you, John. Besides, if celebs like anything, it's publicity, the more the merrier. PH will be one who won't be spreading it for them.
  • Topher · 1 year ago
    I know some of my less politically involved friends have gotten all of their Prop 8 information and positions from PH. Sort of counterintuitive to see him as a credible source on civil rights issues, but I agree it's a deft exercise of his influence.
  • Webster · 1 year ago
    Perez is a blog entertainer--comparable to old Hollywood's Hedda Hopper (well, except for being a whole lot more fluffy and campy--but what hasn't been dumbed-down nowadays?). He still has a huge following and to stand up and focus attention on the issue--whatever you think of him--is still a courageous move and everything that can be done to keep the issue on the front burner is a good thing.
  • tlsintx · 1 year ago
    i used to admire Redford...
    guess he's all talk.
  • Amicus · 1 year ago
    It can't be that hard to replace Park City.

    Besides, aren't Sundance goers ready for another venue? It's been a long time now ...
  • Gridlock · 1 year ago
    but... but glitzy cute ideas are what we do BEST!

    *clutches his glitter*
  • tlsintx · 1 year ago
    :D
  • Milli · 1 year ago
    Well said John.
  • Dave of the Jungle · 1 year ago
    Far be it from me to repeatedly mention the MOUNTAIN MEADOWS MASSACRE.
  • John Aravosis · 1 year ago
    What's that?
  • seanr · 1 year ago
  • LowKey · 1 year ago
    As one of the many co-authors of that page, I like to check it from time to time because mormon vandals will get on to edit and and try and downplay the mormon church and its involvement. I just re-read it and it is not currently filled with mormon propoganda.
  • Dave of the Jungle · 1 year ago
    Just a little inadvertent premeditated mass murder - kidnapping children - ambush a wagon train thing.
  • FNReedie · 1 year ago
    You really should read it ... PBS did a documentary on the Mormons last year that discussed this. Basically the early Mormons killed a wagon train of settlers, blamed it on the Native Americans, so they'd get support of the US.
  • therealdeal · 1 year ago
    Hey moron the MMM has been studied and analyzed in great deal since the 1950s. This is nothing new. Actually 3 Mormon scholars published a book that looked at MMM called Massacre at Mountain Meadows which lays out all the details for you in gory detail. This is nothing new. You should read it and educate yourself.
  • seanr · 1 year ago
    I'd really like to see a lit of names and addresses of every single donor. Then take that list and break it down by neighborhood and post it in each neighborhood. Let's make these people explain to their neighbors why they supported hate.
  • Rob Mule · 1 year ago
    I agree.
    I think the Cincinnati-based Kroger grocery chain might rethink their own anti-gay political contributions if gay people threatened to stop shopping in their stores...Of course, all the closeted produce section boys, who grow pale and clammy when spotting my demanding self, would breathe a sigh of relief.
  • larry · 1 year ago
    1. LDS dislikes the close examination of there history, the actual practise of the religion, the cult aspects of LDS both mainstream and the fundies.....they do not like business that are LDS owned examined, identified, They like the speaking in tongues Pentacostals of Sarah Palin are not mainstream and need and should be exposed. Turn the rock over and look what is under...
    2. boycott all LDS related business....it took a while with Coors but some success happened. Not just Marriott but all LDS owned business and executives.
    3. challenge LDS politicians...democrats and republicans...Start with Reid...Hatch is always good for a off the wall comment for nuttieness
    4. Paint those that are painting gay people as not of the mainstream to be the real culprits. The LDS bunch...the catholic pedophiles..all impossible to defend.
    5. Boycott UTAH and anything to do with UTAH. Mormons will scream like a stuck pig if you go for the wallet.
  • ChicagoKid · 1 year ago
    list and boycott the films that play at Sundance. Protests are fine, but hit them in their pocketbooks and they will listen.
  • caphillprof · 1 year ago
    This has to be emphasized up front, that gays and "no on 8" supporters will boycott the films who participate in this Sundance in Park City. Sundance is key as it hits the Mormons in the heartland
  • Older_Wiser · 1 year ago
    Isn't Sundance just a big old trade show for "independent" film makers? Why not find out who is involved this year and send out letters to them? Publicize, publicize, publicize, so that anyone involved with the films (actors, writers, directors, even crews, etc.) can make their own minds up about boycotting while everyone also knows who they are.

    Good post, John and good on you for taking a stance on BigThink, too.
  • foxy · 1 year ago
    Yes, and the festival people are ignoring this whole issue completely. They seem to be unconcerned and arrogant.
  • Scy · 1 year ago
    Perez is one annoying as hell individual but good for him. I hope more follow in his footsteps until Prop 8 is overturned via court ruling or dueling amendments.
  • tlsintx · 1 year ago
    yeah, and ptooey on Cinemark too...
  • Tamyrlin · 1 year ago
    If any Prop 8 donors are getting married... or if any mormons are hosting weddings for that matter... maybe the "gay mafia" should show up and spray paint the wedding dress with pink spray paint and crash the wedding cake. If we can't get married in peace, maybe they shouldn't be able to either.

    Of course, that means risking criminal charges or at least a civil suit to pay for a wedding dress and cake... IF the participants got caught, anyway.
  • Paul_In_SF · 1 year ago
    No, the idea of trashing the wedding or spray painting is so counter-productive. Don't even think that way. BUT, that's not to say there could not be peaceful demonstrations outside those weddings.
  • therealdeal · 1 year ago
    Nice I will be sure and turn you into the FBI, sounds like we have a lead for the mailing of white powder to mormon temples and the knights of columbus as an act of domestic terrorism.
  • therealdeal · 1 year ago
    Too bad the weddings are actually held inside the temple and temple square is private property or maybe your thuggery would work. Look at how ridiculous you people are. The Mexican Mafia, the Arian brotherhood use these tactics. Attack the innocent and fear them into submission. Such nice people.
  • cjfb · 1 year ago
    You must get more specific over the next few weeks. I have nothing to do with Sundance. I live in liberal Massachusetts. You need to tie this list of donors who do business all over the country. Sundance is just a start. Who in New England needs to know that their organization gave to the fight in California. Tie it to products.

    Give me something to work with.
  • lucidity · 1 year ago
    I'm a non-Mormon living in Utah, and John, you don't help your cause by misrepresenting Mormon beliefs. They're weird enough without your exaggerations. Mormons don't believe that Jesus had sex with his mother, and the bit about "Jesus and Satan were brothers" is technically true but misleading as well. (Mormons believe that all beings on earth are spiritual children of the same parents.) Mormons do, however, believe that the god of this world has a physical body and lives on a planet near the star Kolob. Don't leave Mormons an opening to say "this guy is lying about us." You can make them look bad without being dishonest.
  • John Aravosis · 1 year ago
    So Jesus married his mother and three other women but didn't have sex with them? Is that your argument? Come on.
  • StarSpangled · 1 year ago
    John, this is either dishonesty or ignorance. Since when do you, or anybody else, feel right about publishing wrong? I know many politicians and public figures are dishonest in order to get their way, but that doesn't make it right. Why would anybody trust you knowing you publish false information? Come on.
  • Rob Mule · 1 year ago
    Whoa...The Mormons need to earmark some cash to improve basic concern troll skills.
  • Indigo · 1 year ago
    LOL
  • LowKey · 1 year ago
    Mormon theology is so crazy that most mormons don't even understand it. Why do you expect non-mormons to understand all the craziness? What he posed was mostly correct, why not just corrct what he got wrong instead of calling an honest mistake "dishonesty."
  • BrinkleyBoy · 1 year ago
    Some Mormon theologians have taught that God (the Father) had to have married Mary because he conceived a child with her and, being God, he would not have allowed himself to commit adultery.

    Some have also taught that Jesus was likely the groom at the wedding where he turned water into wine and that he was married to Mary Magdalene, Martha or both of them.

    (See "Mormon Doctrine" by Bruce R. McConkie)
  • LowKey · 1 year ago
    No that is YOUR argument,. It is flawed because you seem to be misunderstanding a basic mromon belief. Or lack of one actually. Mormons do not believe in the trinity. They believe that God the father and Jesus are NOT the same person. They are two separate personages, both of which have flesh and blood.

    God the FATHER had sex with Mary, not Jesus.

    Jesus did marry, (mary magdalene for one, according to mormon teachings) but not his mother.
  • therealdeal · 1 year ago
    You are not really this stupid are you?
  • Dave of the Jungle · 1 year ago
    The god of this world has a physical body and lives on a planet near the star Kolob?

    So, it's not just the Angel Moroni who has gonads? Cool. Can I get a picture of God's wife?
  • Rob Mule · 1 year ago
    WTF????
    I don't recall this site getting into the belief system's jot and tittle...maybe a South Park link from a commenter or two...Anyway, "Kolob"???? Who wouldn't, at the very least, smirk at that? If only Moroni had mentioned string theory...
  • Glenn I · 1 year ago
    The Mormons, however, couldn't make gay marriage look bad without being massively, consistently, continuously, loudly dishonest. They didn't trust the truth to win the vote for them. I don't care a whit about Mormon theology. I'd like them to have whatever weird beliefs they want. But once they finance & run huge campaigns against me based on lies ... I'm supposed to start researching the nuances of their dogma?
  • Older_Wiser · 1 year ago
    Went over to the "Big Think" site...good grief, is it about self-aggrandizement, or what? And why do they let trash like Tom Delay and Carly Fiorina in? Seems like the same old, same old, talking to each other.

    Cheeeeez.
  • samiinh · 1 year ago
    The CA Supreme Court will hear cases on Prop 8 with a decision expected by March.
  • FNReedie · 1 year ago
    Slightly off on the timetable.. CA Supreme Court will accept written briefs in January, hear oral arguments in March with a ruling within 90 days after ... probably June.
  • cilidog · 1 year ago
    June. How timely-- Gay Pride Month!!!
  • Older_Wiser · 1 year ago
    Breaking! Waxman's in, Dingell's out...
  • Tracy · 1 year ago
    I just sent my email to resign from HRC's membership because the organization refuses to support the boycotts. I see no good reason why MY money should go to organizations or people who will then turn around and use it to strip me of my rights. What I'd love to see is a useful list of the big-time individuals (like Cinemark's CEO) and the companies (El Pollo Loco) that gave money to the Yes on 8 campaign and that are run by Mormons because I need to have a practical guide on which organizations to avoid (and www.antigayblacklist.com has too many names to sift through).

    I also encourage everyone on this board to read Jon Krakauer's book, UNDER THE BANNER OF HEAVEN, a great read in general and a fascinating look into the *insanity* that is the Mormon religion.

    Everyone needs to speak up, speak out and get involved.
  • skeptic · 1 year ago
    Good for you. I was monthly donor to HRC but dropped them last year. They make decisions that are not beneficial to our cause.
  • scottinsf · 1 year ago
    Good for you! HRC needs to just fold up and go away. This past cycle they gave $10,000 to the log cabin repugs and ZERO to their counterparts, the Stonewall Democrats. They also endorsed republican Mary Bono. Bono refused to take a stand against prop 8. Her opponent Julie Bornstein was all for marriage equality. Did I mention that they supported Bush's idea to "privatize" social security?
  • JetSetter · 1 year ago
    So many closet-cases here in town. I'm wondering how far many will go in boycotting the festival in fear of being seen as genuine Friends of Dorothy.
  • John Aravosis · 1 year ago
    Prop 8 donor database: http://www.sfgate.com/webdb/prop8/
  • Glenn I · 1 year ago
    The search utility at LA Times is much better:
    http://www.latimes.com/news/local/la-metro-prop...

    Plus they have some cool maps.
  • Paul_In_SF · 1 year ago
    I would like to see a campaign to make every American aware that the Mormons are baptizing everyone after their death. That would be a huge turnoff, I think, to most religious folks (and there are many of them). I think that they would find the idea as creepy as I do.
  • Dave of the Jungle · 1 year ago
    You know, there was a moment when things started going bad for me a few years ago. I wonder if that could be it.
  • BrinkleyBoy · 1 year ago
    Mormons don't really believe they are forcing the baptism on dead souls. They think souls can choose to accept the baptism done for them or not in the afterlife.

    As a former Mormon missionary, I can tell you there are MUCH CRAZIER things to make people aware of. Past racist theologies would be a great start.
  • gex · 1 year ago
    I don't think that staying home from work for a day is that ineffectual - provided people know why you are out of the office.

    Where I work, everyone knows I'm gay, but I don't think that is enough to trigger them to think about gay issues. But if I refuse to come to work for a day, and refuse to take any support calls from my users, because I am protesting unequal treatment as a citizen that can have an impact on those who have been indifferent all along.
  • MNPundit · 1 year ago
    Finally I can commnet!

    How the hell does baptizing after you are dead steal your soul? After you die the soul is already gone, you can't get it back. They are throwing water on some funky shaped dust.

    Yes it's offensive and weird, but it doesn't steal souls.
  • KelvinMace · 1 year ago
    Well, I don't believe in souls, but I find it offensive on a symbolic level.

    Some folks, especially Jews, get VERY bent out of shape over this.

    It is, if nothing else, colossally arrogant. You are very much telling people YOUR religion is the ONE TRUE RELIGION™, and as such, you will convert people whether they like it or not, and you will wait until the are dead, so they can't do anything about it.
  • BrinkleyBoy · 1 year ago
    As a lapsed Mormon I can tell you that the actual theology is that everyone has to be baptized to go to heaven. (A lot of Christians believe that.) To get around the fact that so many people were never baptized, (at least not with the "proper authority",) a living person gets baptized in the name of a dead person. Mormons believe that if that person has converted to the true belief in the afterlife, they can accept the baptism that was done for them.
  • Dave of the Jungle · 1 year ago
    Is God a Polygamist?
  • LowKey · 1 year ago
    Which god?

    I assume you are referring to a mormon god, but momrons believe that there are more than one gods. The main two gods of mormonism are Elohim (aka heavely father, aka god the father) and Jehovah (aka Jesus Christ, god the son, etc.)

    Oh wait, never mind, the answer is the same anyway: Yes they are polygamists.
  • KelvinMace · 1 year ago
    I don't know that Hilton is all that impressive to the community at large. He doesn't have the greatest reputation as a human being, and gossip folk are not exactly beloved by Hollywood folk.

    I would much prefer to see boycotts by people like Spielberg and Reford.
  • Boycottutah · 1 year ago
    Beautifully stated. I think the boycott is the best approach. How dare anyone tell me that I do not have the right to not financially support those who take my money and use it to take away my rights. Boycotts, especially in times of extreme economic uncertainty, have a great impact. Remember, the anti-gay industry is just that, an industry. Boycott an industry and you starve it economically. Just look at the FOTF layoffs.
  • Glenn I · 1 year ago
    Guerrilla activism. The nice thing about big activist organizations is that you can just send them a check and they get all the hard stuff done. ... If only ...

    At the big city hall gathering last Saturday (here in Berkeley) I introduced myself to a neighbor and she started talking about looking up people who had contributed to the Yes on 8 campaign. Turns out we had both tried to figure out where this Berkeley "piano teacher" taught who gave money to take away our marriages. I pictured myself picketing her piano class. But we couldn't find out anything about her. My neighbor said the other local contributors "were lawyers". I wonder if any of them have had ethics complaints lodged against them, or if any aren't paying their taxes ... I'm trying to think like a private investigator.
  • eric · 1 year ago
    as a formerly very active believing mormon (i just formally resigned, hurrah!) i can tell you that mormons care about MONEY more than just about anything else. most mormons don't actually know that much about their own history or theology so exposing that works to peal off those with brains, but ultimately the church is a corporation that seeks money and power. targeted boycotts can really make a difference in this way. and something else to remember: the ugly haters the mormons have jumped in bed with DON'T like mormons any better than they like gays and minorities. its not like the southern baptists will all start flocking on vacation to Utah to fight a boycott by the gays. the mormons will be left as roadkill by their own opportunistic allies.
  • Clem · 1 year ago
    Perez only does the "right" thing when it doesn't cost him anything. Nodbody will care if he doesn't go to Sundance.

    Meanwhile he's all to happy to get in bed with the stars' pr agents and push phony relationships with their beards. How does that help the gay community? And how does outing actors who are lower down on the food chain (i.e., he's not going to piss off the powers that be) help?
  • Chrissy · 1 year ago
    Sorry, but Perez Hilton not going to Sundance is a good thing for Sundance.

    Perez doesn't see movies. He doesn't report on the films, the filmmakers or indie film news.

    Hell, he doesn't even report on The Queer Lounge.

    Here is what Perez does at Sundance: goes around to celebrity gifting suites to get free products and attends celebrity VIP parties at night. And if he doesn't get what he wants, he throws a fit.

    Good riddance! Is this guy's fifteen minutes up already?
  • Chrissy · 1 year ago
    However, in regards to Cinemark cinemas situation, there is an alternative for Sundance to use. It's not as close as the Prospector Square location, but its technically still in the Park City area (about 10 minutes from Downtown Park City). It has plenty of parking. It is less than a mile from The Canyons, where many people stay during the festival. Everyone has to pass them on the way into Park City. It's located in a huge outdoor mall area.

    It's the Redstone Cinemas in Kimball Junction (owned by Metropolitan/Rocky Mountain Cinemas) and features 7 theaters (the Cinemark has only 3 screens) and boasts that it has the largest screens in Park City.

    I've never understood why Sundance hasn't rented out these movie screens. They run shuttles to the Kimball Junction area anyway, and they could double the shuttles to make it very easy for anyone to go and come back from the Downtown area.
  • Indigo · 1 year ago
    Did David Geffen get the message?
  • Dave of the Jungle · 1 year ago
    I have an idea: Let's start a religion where we un-baptize all the dead souls the Mormons have baptized without consent.
  • sjohntucson · 1 year ago
    Actually, I think we should instead gay-marry dead Mormons to each other.
  • Dave of the Jungle · 1 year ago
    But their spiritual offspring would be idiots and have big ears.
  • Indigo · 1 year ago
    We could also revoke Mormon marriages.
  • gregdfw · 1 year ago
    My favorite Mormon belief is that all good Mormon boys get to inherit a planet of their own someday. Just like our God is the God of this planet. And, what's even juicier - for every child born on Earth God has to have sex with some heavenly sort of creature for the birth of a child on Earth. If you're a good Mormon boy you're promised to have tons of heavenly sex for eternity on your own planet! Woo hoo!
  • therealdeal · 1 year ago
    Wow thats crazy....or you can ram some guy up the butt here...oh wait that already happens.
  • Uberschall · 1 year ago
    The classic thing here is the LakePowell.com ad running strong right along your call to boycott utah. That's just rich. Irony or hypocrisy... you decide.

    What you're suggesting people do with Sundance is burn bridges it's taken three decades to build. This seems very shortsighted to me. Filmakers and studios alike are going to think long and hard before destroying relationships- especially relationships that have been very lucrative as of late.

    If you only knew how much Robert Redford hates the Mormon church, you might give him a little more credit. I'm sure this whole thing is only making him hate it more. Maybe everyone should come to the Festival and stay at Sundance Resort- that way you're sure to support a Mormon hater.
  • 5th Estate · 1 year ago
    Given that Perez Hilton makes a living being utterly insubstantial, from what must be a pretty vacuous audience I'd be tempted to say you're giving him too much credit ( at your own expense).
    BUT I agree with you that his boycotting of Sundance is a big deal in pretty concrete terms not because of the traffic his website gets ( a large part of his demographic has got to be fluffy headed starstruck fans) but because he is afforded access to the MSM and though Prop 8 appears in one way to be a local issue it is of course a national issue and a human rights issue.
    Perez deserves major props for rejecting something that is part of his "breads and butter" ( all things Hollywood and glamorous) in favor of principle, and doing so in the MSM arena. He is taking some professional risk in so doing, to do what is right.

    In comparison AmericaBlog has been doing the right thing for years and though it may not see the traffic that Hilton does it has a track record of influence that you are generously downplaying at the moment.
    This site's promotion of progressive candidates has contributed significantly to election successes that will produce results of universal benefit.. And may I add that although I was taught by early experience that homosexuality was nothing to get excited about and I've been was genuinely dismayed at anti-homosexual bigotry over the past few decades, it has been AmericaBlog that has most clearly revealed to me the institutionalized discrimination of gays that has been allowed to continue in general and that has been actually encouraged in certain quarters, despite the general progress that has been made thus far.

    From having read AmericaBlog regularly for some years now I don't just intellectually sympathize, I get outraged. I no longer see assaults on gays as random acts of violence by random bigots on a small minority but instead I now appreciate them as part of an ongoing campaign of discrimination against a large group of ordinary people being attacked and suppressed in hundreds of ways, every day, every year, every decade.

    If the noose is the symbol of black oppression, then chains on the back bumper of a pick-up truck is the symbol of homosexual oppression. .

    As the African-American experience has shown it took the support of a newly educated white majority to break down mindless institutionalized discrimination. By the same token it will take the newly educated heterosexual majority to break down mindless discrimination against homosexuals.

    As I said before homosexuality never bothered me personally and thus 'anti-homosexuality' I assumed was largely the province of a bigoted minority not worth my concern.
    For the longest time I never understood the "fuss" over 'gay marriage'--why for instance would a gay couple so desire a wedding with all the religious trappings and symbolism when every major religion publicly abhors and condemns homosexuality ? Why wasn't a civil union enough?

    Well thanks to reading AmericaBlog I am now properly informed that marriage actually affords legal and human rights that a civil union does not. As a straight non-Hollywood gossip type regular visitor I'd argue that my increased education from reading AmericaBlog is as important as anything that Perez Hilton does. because although AmericaBlog may get less hits it arguably reaches a more diverse audience.

    And BTW the "non-gay issue" posts are varied, often unique, informative and broadly relevant, as are the comments, which is why I always check in here.

    So, well done Perez, but IMHO its AmericaBlog that is more deserving of kudos overall and long may it prosper and educate. .
  • bozemanmontana · 1 year ago
    OMG...I'm so addicted to Perezhilton. As an embarrassed 43-year-old with too much time on my hands!
    BTW, best sign at the Bozeman rally - "my two mommies can beat up your 14 wives"
  • Paige · 1 year ago
  • fr0ntl1n3 · 1 year ago
    you wrote: "principal cinema their using is"

    you meant "they're:

    :)
  • HS · 1 year ago
    Perez Hilton is "hugely influential?" Are you kidding? Give me a break. People go to his site because it's fun to hear about Madonna's divorce rumors. Not because they give a sh!t about Perez's political views.
  • michael_carr · 1 year ago
    Discrimination against gays like Perez Hilton? Not okay. Stealing copyrighted content and posting it without credit? Well, that's a different story in Miss Hilton's morality book. Please. We need more than this Hollywood bottom feeder for a legitimate boycott. S/he (or it) deserves a boycott rather than accolades.
  • warbler · 1 year ago
    Predictable, old fart, rhetorically impoverished, pre-internet style, self -hating sarcasm which implies that less-than-manly homosexuals have no right to a political opinion. Perez Hilton has regularly supported progressive causes on his site which does appeal to gossip hunters but also exposes them to legitimate news with a very astute liberal take on a daily basis. Your "S/he (or it)" and "Miss Hilton" references are gay-bar talk from a time long gone and you should get a new script. Recognize the world you live in now or you'll be left behind.
    This is as big as John says it is.
  • michael_carr · 1 year ago
    Um, okay. Whatever. I was actually addressing Miss Hilton's hypocrisy in pointing out what it deems right and wrong. Concerning my "script," you obviously value dialogue over narrative and substance. And really... if you're as young as you imply, then you're much too young to be bitter. Left behind? Where? In some narrow-minded alternate reality of faux progressiveness that promotes graffiti on that series of tubes formerly known as the Internets while telling someone else effectively to shut up? No thanks... I'll stay here in New York City... where my script is well-received by a tolerant crowd that appreciates celebrity criticism and legitimate public discourse. But you enjoy yourself in that sanitized gay Hicksville.
  • warbler · 1 year ago
    Are you writing this from Julius down on 10th St? The hangout for homosexuals who call other homosexuals "Miss?" Where is the narrative and substance in your posts? No one told you to shut up. But you really need to get better ways to express your hostility. Don't fool yourself into thinking that because you live in New York you are, a priori, an advanced thinker. New York is full of reactionaries who talk like you. And who you callin' faux?
    BTW; I can guarantee you, I've lived in New York longer than you and your script is NOT well received by tolerant people here. It's seen for what it is-another form of bigotry and low-conscious self-contempt. Not appropriate for legitimate public discourse in my New York neighborhood.
    And you really should watch that condescension you have for people who live in "Hicksville." Hicksville in your case seems to be a state of mind.
  • michael_carr · 1 year ago
    Other than the fact that you fail to realize that you're the intolerant one here, you actually do get it in your last line. Congratulations.
  • warbler · 1 year ago
    Yeh! I won!
  • michael_carr · 1 year ago
    That's "state of mind" for ya. You go, girl!
  • Ted · 1 year ago
    I agree 10,000%.
  • Laura · 1 year ago
    Although somebody mentioned this book way down in the comments, I think it's worth mentioning again: Under the Banner of Heaven: A Story of Violent Faith by Jon Krakauer.

    If Mormons are not crazy about bringing attention to themselves, then I propose that we make this book our staple holiday present and give copies out to everybody we know.

    BTW, I've read this and it reads like a true crime page turner - AWESOME book, not one of those dry non-fiction tomes that are dense and hard to get into... It's a book you read and you want to talk about with other people...
  • LowKey · 1 year ago
    I'll third that recommendation. It's a great book.
  • Uberschall · 1 year ago
    This is a very moving book. As a Mormon, it's especially valuable to see where people go wrong and get really screwed up. I still remember reading this and weeping in an airport somewhere in the middle of America. Sad story.

    This book has a lot more to do with the Fundamentalist LDS church than the Mormon church. It's all about apostate behavior and people becoming fanatical... something the Mormon church honestly doesn't tolerate.

    Ignorance of the basics would bring a person to conclude that the Fundamentalist LDS church is the same as the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. That's about like saying all gays are pedofile perverts who are promiscuous orgy lovers. Ridiculous.
  • therealdeal · 1 year ago
    I'm a mormon and I have read Krakauer's book. I found it fascinating. But don't confuse who he is writing about most of the time with The Salt Lake based Mormon church. He mostly is talking about splinter fundamentalists and polygamists who are radicals in every form. Big difference between these groups and the ordinary Mormon like me who goes to work everyday and you wouldn't know me from a gay, catholic, jew, or muslim.
  • reflux1000 · 1 year ago
    Mormans says The Virgin Mary was also Jesus's wife,so the Morman's are saying Jesus Popped his Moms "Cheery"!
  • LowKey · 1 year ago
    Bullshit. There is plenty of crazy shit mormons believe, no need to make stuff like this up.

    God had sex with mary, not Jesus. In mormon theology, God the Father and Jesus are not the same person. They are two separae personages.
  • Ordinary Mormon · 1 year ago
    There is a tremendous amount of fear, confusion and misunderstanding about Mormons and their beliefs. Obviously, in the current climate, many folks are looking for reasons to believe the worst about Mormons. John, I have to tell you, you are seriously distorting Mormon beliefs. I realize you have an agenda to "destroy the Utah brand" and want to paint Mormons in the worst possible light, but I urge you to have integrity and be factual.

    Anyone who would like to understand what Mormons actually believe is welcome to email me at ordinarymormon@gmail.com. I welcome any respectful dialog, but please refrain from hate speech.
  • Chrissy · 1 year ago
    As a former mormon, John is not too far off. There are a few things that are somewhat off, but not by much. John should re-edit the article to make it a tad more factual.

    There are plenty of beliefs in Mormonism that are very embarrassing for the church. Milk before meat is what the LDS church taught me. You won't be able to understand the higher concepts unless you know the basics first. There are some concepts that they won't teach until you are well into the religion and proved your worthiness.

    The endowment ceremony is one of those things which is outright creepy. There's plenty in the Church's history: long deceased prophets telling members that men live on the moon, black people turning white after baptism, etc. that the Church would rather not people find out about.

    There's a good reason why the Church has forbidden archeological digging on the Hill of Cumorah site in upstate New York. This site, where supposedly the biggest battle in the Book of Mormon took place when thousands of Nephites and Lamanites (now known as American Indians) fought with chariots and swords, has been off-limits to any digging because they wouldn't find any evidence of any battle.

    The Book of Abraham, part of the LDS Scriptures called the Pearl of Great Price, since the late 1960s, has been shown to be a fraud. Joseph Smith came across some Egyptian papyri that was part of a traveling exhibit. He claimed it was a long lost book written by the Old Testament Prophet Abraham. He translated it in a similar way he translated the Book of Mormon. The papyri disappeared soon after Smith's death. It was found at the NY Museum of Art archives in the sixties. Modern egyptologists studied it, and it was discovered just a piece of the book of the dead. It had nothing to do with Abraham and Joseph Smith's translation couldn't have been more wrong.

    I think letting people know stuff like this would really start to destroy their active recruitment efforts.
  • therealdeal · 1 year ago
    I fond it interesting that you are a former Mormon who has her own facts mixed up....way off on the Book of Abraham stuff.
  • Chrissy · 1 year ago
    really? Way off on th Book and Abraham?

    You wanna make a bet?
  • Uberschall · 1 year ago
    ???
    You want the facts set straight then you spew forth a bunch of Mormon mythology? The Hill Cumorah? As far as I'm aware, it's widely accepted among Mormon scholars, and has been for a very long time, that the Hill Cumorah talked about in the BofM is somewhere in Mesoamerica.

    I've never heard the men on the moon thing. Black men turning white? Is that referring to the Lamanite conversion?

    Why would the temple endowment be creepy? Because you promise to be righteous and follow Christ ? I would guess you were unable to separate the ritual from the actual ordinance. The ritual is meaningless- simply a teaching tool.

    The Pearl of Great Price is a tough one. There may never be a definitive answer for Mormons on that one. There are certainly many rebuttals given by the scholars, but all require faith, for sure.

    This stuff is all out there already, nothing new. It's not like the gay community will be shedding light on some new concepts here.

    I'm going to say this and mean it, I really believe the only way for this all to work out is for everybody to somehow get along. The Mormons, as in the Mormon leadership, will ALWAYS be calm and respectful in regard to the current subject. Why not look for a way to close the gap rather than increase the divide? The Mormons have the money, but they're really not the religion you should be worried about. A better route may be to establish a true friendship and alliance with the Mormon leadership- then, when this vote or something like it comes up again, it's doubtful they'd encourage their members to give money to the cause. I don't think they would ever be pro-gay or pro same-sex marriage, but they might not fight... food for thought.
  • Chrissy · 1 year ago
    "The Hill Cumorah? As far as I'm aware, it's widely accepted among Mormon scholars, and has been for a very long time, that the Hill Cumorah talked about in the BofM is somewhere in Mesoamerica."

    Funny, the Church's website at http://www.hillcumorah.org has it located in Palmyra New York

    "I've never heard the men on the moon thing"

    Brigham Young (and to some point Joseph Smith) propogated this.

    "Who can tell us of the inhabitants of this little planet that shines of an evening, called the moon?...when you inquire about the inhabitants of that sphere you find that the most learned are as ignorant in regard to them as the ignorant of their fellows. So it is in regard to the inhabitants of the sun. Do you think it is inhabited? I rather think it is. Do you think there is any life there? No question of it; it was not made in vain." (Journal of Discourses, vol. 13, p. 271)

    "Why would the temple endowment be creepy? "

    Sure, let's discuss the temple ceremony which is lifted from the Scottish Rite of the Masons. There are 4 secret handshakes to get into the heaven and you are given a secret name which is usually the name of some Book of Mormon or Biblical character. Plenty of other weird stuff in the temple ceremony too.

    "The Mormons, as in the Mormon leadership, will ALWAYS be calm and respectful in regard to the current subject."

    Except for those Tongan Mormons who beat the crap out of some lesbians sending 7 to the hospital at the tail end of the LA Temple Protest. Calm? I don't think so.

    "A better route may be to establish a true friendship and alliance with the Mormon leadership- then, when this vote or something like it comes up again, it's doubtful they'd encourage their members to give money to the cause."

    Funny!
  • Webster · 1 year ago
    An even more interesting look at the same-sex issue and the Mormon Church is a book by the former head of the BYU History Department, D. Michael Quinn. Same-Sex Dynamics among Nineteenth-Century Americans: A Mormon Example published by the University of Illinois Press, which won the Herbert Feis Award from the American Historical Association and named one of the best religion books of the year by Publishers Weekly when it was published. Heavily-footnoted and scholarly to a fare-the-well, it's nonetheless a very different portrait of how same-sex behavior was actually tolerated to a large extent in earlier times.

    The Church tried to squelch its publication by threatening law-suits--and did indeed manage to get a couple of photos and a few footnotes deleted--simply because the University didn't want to finance a court battle, but it's still an eye-opening read--for Mormons and non-Mormons alike.
  • mirth · 1 year ago
    Ordinary Mormon, as a former Mormon well-versed in church doctrine, I judge John's overall posts to be factual (which is no easy feat when reporting on a secretive religion with secretive practices).

    Regards the current focus on the Mormon church, I pose this question to you:

    Did the Utah Mormon First Presidency, in a letter sent to all wards and read during church services, directly urge their followers to donate money and in other ways work to influence legislation in California?

    And one more:

    Mormons have indignantly commented here that we are wrong to think Mormons are homophobic. They write that Mormons love Gays and many have Gay friends and relatives. Tell us, does this Mormon love allow Gays to express their sexuality, or does the Mormon faith accept Gays only if they abstain from sexual relations?
  • therealdeal · 1 year ago
    John's reported is very distorted and any "well-versed" Mormon would know that. First of all the Utah Mormon First Presidency does not exist, by you calling it this I know you are not a Mormon or have never been a Mormon. So lets not pretend here okay. Even former mormons know their own culturalisms. The First Presidency of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints does exist and it is a worldwide presidency of a worldwide church(one of its members is from Germany not Utah fyi....oops the cat is out of the bag, no trips to germany now) and yes they did OPENLY urge members to participate in the democratic process supporting prop 8, which last time I checked, is their constitutional right to do so and our constitutional right to participate.
    Second question...we believe homosexual relations to be sinful just as we consider fornication between unmarried heterosexuals to be sinful. We condemn the sin but not the sinner. So gays "expressing their sexuality" is considered sinful just as unmarried heterosexuals "expressing their sexuality" is sinful. Its pretty simple and since we believe in the bible and we follow its precepts, that is what it says. Homosexuals can be active members of the church just as unmarried heterosexuals, just follow the rules God has put on place for governing sexuality....pretty simple. It doesn't mean you don't love someone because they choose to cross lines you believe are sacred and reserved for family creation.
  • mirth · 1 year ago
    "Utah" First Presidency was a quick way for me to say First Presidency, located in Utah.

    Perhaps I should mail you a copy of my Patriarchal Blessing, which is unusually long and detailed.

    Convenient that you deny Gays legal marriage and then condemn their unmarried fornication.

    Otherwise, therealdeal, the expressions of your faith are everything that truly loving and Christlike people reject.
  • Uberschall · 1 year ago
    Yes, the church asked members in California to support Prop8. I never heard a thing about it in Utah.

    The "Mormon love" allows one to love an individual, despite differences of sexual preference. Can a gay or lesbian love a straight person despite their preference for the opposite sex? I think so.

    Things that John said that are incorrect regarding Mormon beliefs:

    Jesus having had 3 wives including his mother (not sure where he got this)

    Native Americans being red and Africans being black because they're bad people (hmmmm... this seems to imply that we think Native Americans and Blacks are bad because of the color of their skin. This is pure idiocy born of the Bible belt)

    They are forcibly baptizing Jewish Holocaust victims into Mormonism against the will of the victims' families. (Nobody's forcibly baptizing anyone- it's kind of like saying the Ritz Carlton forcibly made up your bed even though you're staying home tonight)

    We know that the Mormons do this to every living soul on the planet (Do you know this? No you don't. What John may have gathered in his 7 minutes of scouring anti-Mormon sites is that Mormons hope to eventually provide every soul who has lived upon the planet an opportunity to accept or reject the Gospel of Jesus Christ. Well, actually, the anti site would have said pretty much what John said.)
  • Ordinary Mormon · 1 year ago
    Mirth, if you are indeed a former Mormon, then you should know that Mormons do not believe that Jesus married his mother. You should also know that the idea of Jesus being married at all, much less being a polygamist, is not actual Mormon doctrine. Although some past LDS leaders taught such things, it is not doctrinal and I personally do not believe it, nor is it necessary for me to believe it to be a member in good standing. I seriously doubt many Mormons even give the idea any serious thought. You should also know that Mormons are not taught to believe that blacks or native americans are "bad people." As for "forcibly baptizing Jewish holocaust victims into Mormonism," I'm not sure what "forcible" has to do with it, since the alleged victim isn't even there, and as you well know, the Mormon belief is that the individual can accept or reject the proxy baptism. No one's soul is being stolen. The LDS Church has made efforts to curtail proxy baptisms of holocaust victims who are not ancestors of the LDS member doing the temple work.

    This is all about sensationalizing and ridiculing. The problem is that by focusing on the sensational, one is left with a very distorted view of the belief system and the adherents. It's akin to defining Christianity or Judaism as the belief that donkeys can talk (Numbers 22) or that murdering women and children is pleasing to God (1 Samuel 15). It's easy to do with any belief system if your aim is to ridicule rather than understand.

    Regarding your first question, it is well known that the First Presidency of the LDS Church sent a letter to congregations in California asking them to support prop 8. You don't need me to tell you that. It is also well known that many Mormons, including myself, did not support it.

    Your second question attempts to impose a false dilemma. A belief that marriage should be between a man and a woman does not equate to homophobia. As you well know, Mormonism teaches that sexual relations outside the bonds of marriage is sinful, whether heterosexual or homosexual. It's not a very fashionable belief these days, but there you have it.

    From the Mormon perspective, the issue is complicated. There is a sincere belief that marriage and the family are central to God's plan for his children and that God has made known the order of such things. Understanding how gay relationships fit into the grand scheme leaves many Mormons conflicted, especially those of us who have loved ones who are gay. Bashing Mormons at every opportunity does not help to resolve those conflicts or build bridges of understanding.
  • mirth · 1 year ago
    Ok, one more question:

    If you believe that each Prophet of the church receives divine revelations and speaks on earth for God, how then can you pick and choose which of their teachings are true?

    And this may shock you, but I and many of the commenters here are not at all interested in "resolving conflicts" and/or "building bridges" between ourselves and the Mormon church.

    Believe whatever nonsense you choose. What we want is for you to get out of our secular lives and keep your religious hocus-pocus out of our government.

    Get it?
  • Ordinary Mormon · 1 year ago
    Mirth, I understand your position, but I am trying to tell you that the bullying and intimidation directed towards Mormons is not helping to achieve the ends you desire. Voters in California and other states are concerned about the impact of gay marriage. If there really is nothing to fear, then the voters haven't got the message. That's why prop 8 passed.

    If the response is bullying and intimidation, you are sending the message that there is a hostile agenda.
  • mirth · 1 year ago
    The pro-Prop8 campaign, directed from Utah to influence legislation in California, was successful because it was a campaign of lies and deception...something at which the Mormon church excels.

    The hostile agenda was (and is) created by your insertion of religion into our government. Confine your beliefs to your personal lives and *poof* the problem disappears. Until then, recognize that the Mormon church has asked for a war and they are gonna get it. Our patriotic adherence to the founding principle of a separation between church and state and our adherence to the constitutionally-guaranteed equal rights for all citizens demands this of us.

    End o' story.
  • RitornaVincitor · 1 year ago
    Personally I would like the right to not think about Mormons at all. But I can't. THEY JUST CANCELED MY MARRIAGE. That's right. My MARRIAGE!! My perfectly legal, perfectly valid marriage. We've been together 25 years. Haven't we earned the right to marry? I've never done anything to any Mormons. OK. I groaned at one once when I had to drop everything, and come all the way upstairs to answer the door after dark, only to find this ridiculously tidy looking kid on my porch with the Book of Mormon in his hand. So I groaned and shut the door in his face. Hard. Ok, I slammed it. I slammed it! But that's all I ever did to a Mormon. I slammed the door in his face. I didn't even use bad language because I know how sensitive Mormons are about bad language. I certainly didn't want to set off his martyr complex and make him feel like he was being persecuted. But yes, I slammed the door. So did I deserve to have my marriage canceled for that? And I still had to hear his whiny little martyr voice shouting, "God bless you" through the door as I stomped back downstairs to finish my dinner in a bad mood. The squeaky clean little snot wouldn't even let me enjoy slamming my own door. And what is a Mormon doing on my porch after dark? How would a Mormon feel if I knocked on his door after dark and tried to turn him gay??? Huh??? As far as I know, gays don't go knocking on people's doors trying to convert them. Not that it would take much to convert some of the Mormons I've seen, and honey, I've seen a LOT of Mormons. But Mormons go door to door trying to convert people ALL THE TIME! And what exactly are they trying to convert me to? Traditional marriage? Seems to me that for a Mormon, traditional marriage is POLYGAMY. Yeah, yeah, I know. They don't do that any more, blah, blah blah..... at least not officially. But they DID, Blanch, they DID! They DID practice polygamy, and not all that long ago.. And you know what? I think some of them still do. Why else would the angel Moroni lead them off into the wilderness? They had to get out of town in a hurry, that's why! And what kind of angel would ever go by a name like "Moroni"?? Couldn't Joseph Smith have come up with a better name for Christ's sake? And what ever happened to those golden tablets the angel supposedly gave to Smith? Maybe one of Smith's under-aged wives forgot to pack them for the trip to that godawful desert hellhole they ended up in? And why didn't you STAY THERE??? Why did you have to jump on buses in droves and come to California to attack my marriage?? Just who the hell are Mormons to look down their not so squeaky clean noses at my marriage?!? Just keep your Mormon martyr complex to yourself, honey. Just stay off my porch, and STAY THE HELL OUT OF MY MARRIAGE!!!!!!!!!!! Oh, and God bless you.
  • Gary SF · 1 year ago
    Let's add insult to the injury: I propose that we use the word 'Kolob' to mean 'asshole' and Moroni to mean 'really hot gay sex.'
  • therealdeal · 1 year ago
    No Perez Hilton. Thats Great, even less smut in Utah...this boycott is a great thing. What you all fail to realize, especially Mr. Aravosis, is that the Mormon community has been scrutinized in every way, shape, and form since its inception in the early 1800s. This scrutiny has been mostly by other members of the religious right (yes baptists, catholics, evangelicals, ect.) So I find it humorous how John seems to find something about our faith that then he seems to want to scream from the top of the mountains like it is some sort of revelation to mankind. Hey John get a clue it doesn't phase us one bit....just google Mormon and you can see hundreds of years of lies and distortions of the truth that have already been leveled against the Mormons....so it is laughable that you say you are going to scrutinize us. All you have done is made people like myself more aware of the gay agenda in this country. I didn't support prop 8 financially but you better damn well believe I will support every proposition in every state from here on out until we have put a stop to the gay agenda. We will no sit idle and let this be rammed down the throats of the people of faith in America. Long live prop 8. Long live democracy!
  • warbler · 1 year ago
    You''re dreaming if you think your minor religion will stop the arc of history. What you're exhibiting is hubris, pride and arrogance. The machismo you express is inappropriate. Get over yourself. You're just another guy with a religious habit. Nothing special.
  • therealdeal · 1 year ago
    The arc of history....asks the communists how that went for them.
  • Uberschall · 1 year ago
    I don't think the Mormon church believes it can stop the arc of history- they just want to be on the record as having opposed gay marriage.

    RealDeal, lighten up a bit. You're perpetuating the anger and hate that's so prevalent here already.
  • MaudGonne · 1 year ago
    Hispanics will out number Mormons... The time for prejudice is over....

    Congresswoman Linda Sanchez is pregnant. Ordinarily, this would not make headlines, except to the Sanchez family and maybe in a newsletter to the 39th Congressional District in southeast L.A. County, which just elected her to her fourth term. It's no big deal nowadays when members of Congress give birth. The first was Mrs. Yvonne Brathwaite Burke, 35 years ago. What makes Sanchez's pregnancy news is that she is not married to the baby's father -- not yet, anyway. You're practically the first to know. Even her sister and fellow congresswoman, Loretta Sanchez, didn't know until a few days ago.
    http://www.latimes.com/news/opinion/commentary/...
  • athenap · 1 year ago
    The Mormon Church is a homewrecker. It breaks up marriages. Pass it on.
  • David · 1 year ago
    So you're not sure postcards or protests will really make a difference?!?!
    GAYS! when it comes to Obama, please take off the rose colored glasses.
    Wednesday on CNN an Obama surrogate said if Congress passed legislation to repeal DOMA and Don't Ask Don't Tell that Obama will sign it. Otherwise he will not waste political good will to repeal it himself. If you think all those newly elected democrats from conservative states are pro-gay, think again. That's slap in the face number one for the gays from Obama.
    Slap number two was best stated by syndicated journalist Lisa Keen -- "...with ... Rahm Emanuel ... the (gay) community has been put on notice that the door to the Oval Office will not likely be opened wide enough to accommodate gay civil rights ..." Emanuel is well know for throwing up roadblocks to LGBT political progress.
    A huge number of gays helped elect Obama and I don't think that waiting for him to address gay civil rights until the end of his second term when he has nothing to lose is unacceptable.
    So yes -- send postcards -- march -- and remind all elected officials (including Obama) that the next round of elections are only a few years away and that they should get busy representing the LGBT community!
  • Indigo · 1 year ago
    Perez has bigger balls than Redford.
  • Kevin · 1 year ago
    John, I'll manage a national Prop 8 activism effort.
    Kevin Nix
  • Gary Rosen · 1 year ago
    Just to clarify: the John Templeton Foundation has not given money or support of any kind to Proposition 8. The contributions to which this post refers were made by John M. Templeton, Jr. and his wife. They were private and strictly personal contributions and have no relation to the programs or activities of the Foundation, including our partnership with BigThink.

    Gary Rosen
    Chief External Affairs Officer
    John Templeton Foundation