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AMERICAblog: Obama recommits to repeal "Don't Ask Don't Tell" policy

  • Akaison · 11 months ago
    Rev Warren, not Wright. You say Wright in your article. Rev Wright actually supported gay rights, including marriage.
  • John Aravosis · 11 months ago
    Okay that's funny, sorry
  • sherifffruitfly · 11 months ago
    "I suspect in the wake of the Rev. Wright fiascoI suspect in the wake of the Rev. Wright fiasco"

    And true colors (!) are shown.
  • John Aravosis · 11 months ago
    Not sure what you mean
  • Akaison · 11 months ago
    It was a typo. You shouldn't assume intent from a typo.
  • KarenMrsLloydRichards · 11 months ago
    All well and good, but repeal of the policy will have to be accomplished by Congress, and if Obama doesn't have the political capital to lead on the issue (and moving for repeal won't happen anytime soon), Gibbs is whispering sweet nothings in our ears at this point.
  • cowboyneok · 11 months ago
    Obama could repeal it with an Executive Policy change. He is Commander-in-Chief. Congress being tasked with changing the policy is just a cop out Presidents use to not have to make a decision who's time has come.
  • Gabriel · 11 months ago
    While I agree that DADT probably infringes on the responsibilities of the president as CiC, Obama would need to litigate this in court. He can't just issue an executive order to override the law.
  • Akaison · 11 months ago
    DADT is a statutory issue. Not a regulatory one. This is not in question. And nor can it be addressed in the courts. Many of you do not understand the law.
  • cowboyneok · 11 months ago
    Hmmm... I'm not an attorney but what is the difference between Obama signing an executive order and Truman?

    "In 1948, President Harry S Truman's Executive Order 9981 ordered the integration of the armed forces shortly after World War II, a major advance in civil rights. Using the Executive Order (E.O.) meant that Truman could bypass Congress. Representatives of the Solid South, all white Democrats, would likely have stonewalled related legislation."

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Desegregation

    Again, not an attorney and Clinton's torpedoed efforts leading to the current policy might have thrown a monkey wrench into a simple executive order that could be signed now, but I don't see the difference.
  • Akaison · 11 months ago
    You should have wiki'ed "Don't Ask, Don't Tell." Rather than me explaining it to you, I wil link you to the subject:

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Don%27t_ask_don%27...


    Servicemembers Legal Defense Fund also provides information on the subject:

    http://www.sldn.org/pages/survival-guide


    The core issue is that the Congress enacted the policy into law. It's not just a military regulation.

    Also, I would add as to Truman desegregating the military (although I am hate to admit it) the real change apparently did not come into full affect until Eisenhower. Apparently, there were a lot of things that had to be worked out. My point here is that even after getting rid of the law and changing the regs, there will be years of problems ahead in terms of integration.
  • cowboyneok · 11 months ago
    Oh, excuse me, but do I detect a patronizing attitude? I DID wiki "Don't Ask / Don't Tell"

    I was hoping I could gather more information from you in a polite conversational manner, since you seem to be such an expert on the issue, but I'll pass on the snarky attitude and do my own research. Thanks.
  • akaison · 11 months ago
    You are projecting a lot on to me saying you should have wiki Don't Ask DOn't tell. Sorry if being told you should have looked up something offends you. But it is true that it could have saved both of us a lot of time. That's not patronizing. That's treating you like the adult you are.
  • cowboyneok · 11 months ago
    Read what I wrote again, smart ass. I DID wiki the article. Saved both of us a lot of time? Sorry your time is so valuable you can't bring some of your knowledge to the table without belittling others. Your patronizing attitude is persistent.
  • MotherBottom · 11 months ago
    hi girls; girls, hi. girls, love. love for one and love for all; yes, all - including those in trans community who cannot seem to get a seat on the bus. special thoughts and prayers to the dear friends in my head - yes those brave gay men serving with courage and pride in the israeli army; we are thinking of you at this difficult time.

    girls, repealing DADT is a start -- now when can i get married. i want ALL my constitutional rights - not just some. let's keep the pressure on!!!!
  • Notes_On_Virginia · 11 months ago
    This is what I'm talkin about!

    I certainly join a lot of people in being upset about Rick Warren, but at the same time many on our side seem to be forgetting about the big, substantive promises Obama has made on LGBT rights. The repeal of DADT is just one of them.

    So we've got to keep the pressure up on him and our representatives in Congress. Hear that non-DC people? Call your congresspeople. I'm going to have to wait until DC gets voting rights, but that's another thing altogether...
  • Troy3 · 11 months ago
    believe it when i see it.

    he already got my vote.

    the ball's in his court.
  • existenz · 11 months ago
    I've heard talk that they would wait until troops are back home from Iraq, but that's ridiculous. We're still gonna have 30,000 troops in Iraq in 2012.

    This is the kind of change that should be done quickly, in the first year. Former opponents of gays in the military have moved on, and it won't be nearly as big a deal as some people think. I also think it will be a key moment for gay equality when the first openly gay servicemember dies for his country. At that point, how can the military-loving far right still treat them as inhuman?

    I know, they still demonize blacks and Latinos even though hundreds have died in Iraq, but it does make it a bit harder.
  • RitornaVincitor · 11 months ago
    I agree with your assessment, John. This is good news. If I'm not mistaken, Obama has already laid the groundwork for delaying action on repealing DADT by saying or implying that it needed to be agreed upon by the top brass. I could be wrong on that, but I think that's what he said. At any rate, this is good news, and somewhat reassuring in the face of his decision to stick with Warren.
  • cowboyneok · 11 months ago
    Presidents need to remember they ARE the top brass. They are Commander-in-Chief and a minority President needs to remember the lessons of racial integration of the military. Anything less is a cop out.
  • RitornaVincitor · 11 months ago
    Yeah. Good point.

    I see that you were aboard submarines. I was in the Navy too. CTM. This DADT is such a crock, isn't it? Gay folks have always served.
  • cowboyneok · 11 months ago
    I should have known. Crypto! Of course, you're a brain. I was in nuclear engineering and then cross rated to Yeoman (submarines). I was one of very few who ever cross rated to Yeoman after graduating as a nuke.

    Yes, gays have always served and served with dignity and honor. Its too bad the military doesn't value serving HONESTLY and OPENLY.
  • RitornaVincitor · 11 months ago
    Wow. You have to have a very special personality to be able to cope with life abord a submarine. And nuclear engineering! Another wow.

    I was a communications technician who maintained the equipment. It was advanced for its day. Now it's a joke. ;0) Ultimately I was in crypto. For a time I was aboard one of the USS Pueblo's sister ships. She had just been captured by the North Koreans.
  • cowboyneok · 11 months ago
    I didn't mind the isolation of submarine life, at all. I enjoyed working on subs. I was just disappointed the military kicked me out for being gay.

    Very interesting about being on USS Pueblo's sister ship.
  • RitornaVincitor · 11 months ago
    Wow. So they kicked you out for being gay. There went another valuable serviceman - lost to a reprehensible policy.

    I turned myself in for being gay. Back then they had recently stopped giving dishonorable discharges for gay servicemen who came forward on their own, so I ended up getting all my veterans benefits, not that I've used them. I turned myself in because at the age of 24 I just couldn't stand living the lie any longer. I'd already left Catholicism and gone through a born-again phase in which I'd had "demons" cast out in an attempt to cure me of homosexuality. Those people I met in that Christian ministry were the sickest people I've ever encountered. Once I finally made up my mind to be true to myself I knew I had to get out of the Navy. I was part of CINCPAC Fleet, so when I told my commanding officer, he sent me to meet with the Commander In Chief of the Pacific. Telling people that I was gay was still something very new to me, so this meeting with the Admiral was pretty tough. He didn't believe me. lol. He thought I was lying to get out of the service. But they immediately pulled my security clearance and put me to work in the Admiral's car wash. LOLOL. I was sent back to my duty station to pick up my things. It required a Top Secret clearance with Special Intelligence Access to get inside. When I arrived several guys I'd been working with for almost a year greeted me with weapons drawn. LOLOLOL! They'd already been notified that I'd lost my clearance, and they thought I'd been caught selling secrets to the Soviets. LOLOLOLOLOL! In order to let me inside to get my things they had to go through the entire security process for uncleared personnel. They had to shout out "Uncleared Personnel", and everything sensitive inside had to be covered with tarps. I kid you not. I'd been in there working on that stuff just days before. But here they were escorting me around and shouting "Uncleared Personnel!.... Uncleared Personnel!!...." And the LOOKS I was getting from my friends and colleagues! I had to resist the urge to shout "Unclean!!... Unclean!!!"

    While working at the car wash I was sent to a psychiatrist for an evaluation to see if I was gay or not. That was the biggest joke of all. The poor shrink didn't seem to know what to do. I actually got him laughing (intentionally) with some of my answers to his questions. Maybe he was gay himself? Back then being gay was still considered a psychiatric illness. I don't think he could directly determine if I was gay or not, but he concluded that I wasn't lying. So after working in the car wash for two months I got my discharge with honorable circumstances. I promptly got on a plane for San Francisco and never regretted my decision. I'm sure the Navy didn't regret their decision either, since they believed gay people in sensitive security positions were vulnerable to Soviet blackmail. Seems to me I've read that such a thing has actually never happened. In fact I had been approached once in Japan by a guy with a Russian accent who seemed to know what our ship's mission was, and he wanted me to "come byack to moy pllayce". It was too funny because it was a warm summer day, and he was wearing one of those Russian fur hats. I concluded he was one of our own intelligence operatives doing his job very poorly, and told him to get lost. ;0)

    Most of my time in the Navy was spent in shore duty in some pretty exotic places. As for being on that ship, it was only for a few months, but it was very interesting. It took me throughout the west Pacific, including Cambodia and Viet Nam during the war, though we were never under fire. Its primary mission is no longer classified. In fact, what our missions were became public many years ago. The Soviets used to test their ICBM's by launching them and bringing them down in the middle of the Pacific. The Pueblo, and its three sister ships took turns waiting for the Soviets to launch. We would sit at ground zero ( sounds pretty dumb, huh?) and wait for the missile to come down. We would communicate with it in space, and after the blackout period as it reentered. It was all spy stuff. Our poor dinky little destroyer escort was so top heavy with spy equipment that it used to roll 45 degrees. We had a rollometer in our compartment, and once we measured 52 degrees. The ship seemed to just hang there for the longest time. It was actually easier to stand on the bulkhead than on the deck. Rumor had it that we could not go past 53 degrees without capsizing. So I guess you could say I was only one degree away from the Poseidon adventure. LOL.
  • Steve_in_CNJ · 11 months ago
    i see a best selling book here, co-written by you and cowboy.
  • RitornaVincitor · 11 months ago
    Lol. How would such a book be classified? I know my part of it would have to go in the comedy section.
  • cowboyneok · 11 months ago
    LOL...

    btrw - interesting stuff, Ritorna.

    I got outted because I had been honest to my ex-wife before marriage. Was silly enuf to think "marriage" would "fix it." Yep - young and naive - both of us.
  • RitornaVincitor · 11 months ago
    Gosh. Live and learn, isn't it? I thought going into the Navy would fix me. ROTF! The Navy?! Hahahaha.
  • Glenn I · 11 months ago
    Hopefully Obama takes heart from the non-event that the lifting of the gay ban in the British military turned out to be. (That happened post-Clinton.) The opposition there was vociferous and just as deranged as the opposition here -- it's just that with the Parliamentary system the party in power is not as easily knocked off stride by a minority as here. No such thing as a filibuster in the UK.
  • cowboyneok · 11 months ago
    THANK YOU and EXCELLENT POINT! For all the gnashing of teeth by conservatives it certainly was a non-event and the same thing will happen here in the United States.
  • pcvirginiabeach · 11 months ago
    Got any data on how badly it hurt that parties credibility with the unifromed services? Tjhe President can order our military to do anything... that does not make it a good order, even if the public accepts it.

    This is not the UK. We have a much larger uniformed service. Much more powerfull.
  • wearing out my F key · 11 months ago
    what a rare thing to behold: good news.
  • Indigo · 11 months ago
    I might sing a zen Te Deum in thanksgiving but not until the repeal is a done deed
  • LKeithG · 11 months ago
    Warm and fuzzy thoughts notwithstanding, it’s gonna take 60 votes to get this done in the Senate, and I do not see the workable math. John, you are an expert. Where are the votes?
  • John Aravosis · 11 months ago
    We'd have to ask SLDN for the latest vote tally because, you're right, congress passed this thing into law, it's going to take, I believe, legislation to undo it. Or a court case.
  • Akaison · 11 months ago
    Well considering a large segment of the public, including conservatives support repeal, I am hoping it will not be as hard as it was in 1993. We do not want a Court case over this. The litigation would be a slow process, and it would not yield, with the present make up of the Supreme Court, a good result.
  • cowboyneok · 11 months ago
    " Clinton walked into a buzz saw because he did not prepare for the obvious opposition he would face. " - which came in the form of Democratic Senator Sam Nunn who held a press conference onboard a submarine to prove gays couldn't serve with straight men on a submarine. This falsehood was disproven by MANY gay Americans serving on submarines, including my experience:

    http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&rlz=1G1GGLQ_...

    Gay people can serve honestly, openly and professionally in every area of the military.

    The American opinion has changed to where it is MORE CONTROVERSIAL to pretend gays can't serve in the military than it is to lift the ban. The one word answer was totally appropriate considering Americans are READY for this change and polls prove it. Pretending the American people agree with bigotted Republicans that it shouldn't change is just giving them ammunition they shouldn't have.

    http://www.nydailynews.com/news/us_world/2008/0...

    "Three out of four people in a Washington Post-ABC News poll believe openly gay people should be allowed to serve in the military, up from 62% in early 2001 and 44% in 1993.

    Former President Bill Clinton faced resistance 15 years ago today when he introduced the controversial policy encouraging homosexuals to stay mum about their sexual orientation.

    But since then, approval of gays in the military has begun to cross party lines."

    Times have changed. Opinions have changed. Take advantage of it, and use the FACTS to our advantage!

    It would be different if polls showed Americans are for keeping the policy. They aren't. Its less controversial than we are making it out to be. Lets not give conservative bigots talking points with the lie their argument is on equal footing with ours. Americans are READY for change, and the polls prove it. Bring out the FACTS and make the policy change.
  • yawn · 11 months ago
    I really couldn't care less about DADT, as I think a lot of younger LGBT people who are against warmongering are. A repeal of DoMA would mean a lot more to me. That said, I expect that it will get repealed fairly easily with not much opposition except from the regular talking heads. I think he'll probably push for it flanked by folks like Wesley Clark, Colin Powell and a few other bipartisan surprises that will make anyone opposing it look like Jesse Helms. Of course that would be an honor to many, but I don't think 40 senators are willing to stop it.
  • Akaison · 11 months ago
    If you didn't care you wouldn't be posting here. So your very first line is per se a lie.
  • yawn · 11 months ago
    uh thanks. that really added to the discussion.
  • akaison · 11 months ago
    ANd you added what exactly?
  • yawn · 11 months ago
    what is wrong with you? please troll around someone else.
  • Akaison · 11 months ago
    I think you are confusing me with yourself.
  • yawn · 11 months ago
    Oh touché! The old "I know you are but what am I."
  • scytherius · 11 months ago
    Awesome.

    And let's remember, the man isn't even resident yet. We'll know better how he will govern soon after Jan 20. No point for him now to start tipping his entire hand.
  • FunMe · 11 months ago
    What Obama needs to do is repeal DOMA in the first 3 months of his administration and also sign Employment discrimination act.

    Once the CONservatives start to whine and bitch, Obama needs to turn on the IGNORE button and move to other matters.

    That's certainly a way of him "solving" the Warren FIASCO.

    Otherwise, Obama pretty much has a lot of the GLBT vote, money $$ and help that he will need in 4 years.
  • FunMe · 11 months ago
    I mean otherwise, Obama has LOST the GLBT vote.
  • Indigo · 11 months ago
    I already withheld further money and wrote a nice email explaining that until the gay community is respected, there won't be any more money from me. I'm perfeclty capable fo voting for Ralph Nader if that's what it takes. And I told O's team so.
  • pat · 11 months ago
    Gay in the Air Force....

    It's very simple, as a first pass, eliminate DADT in the air force and replace it with
    "Homsexuality in of itself is not a disabling condition from service in the Air Force".

    The Air Force is a civilian service that delivers bombs, most of the service members live in bases,
    and they rarely endure field conditions. This in of itself will eliminate the blow back in regards to
    "Foxholes" and "Trenches" and "Field Showers".

    A gay man or Lesbian can turn a wrench, fix an electronics system or repair a vehicle as easily
    as any straight man or woman.

    After you fix that, consider fixing the policy in the Coast Guard and then the Guard/Reserve.
  • Elmo Buzz · 11 months ago
    Two thumbs up for Obama if he's seriously going to remove this ban.

    That means Obama thinks we're good enough, while openly serving in the military, to die for our country.

    Now, let's hope he thinks we deserve the same opportunity to live equally in the country he's willing to give us the chance to die for.
  • AdmNaismith · 11 months ago
    This is the sort of thing you do with the swipe of a pen and tell everyone under you to take care of it. It's the military- give them an order and tell then to follow it. All the sex stuff is taken care of by following and enforcing the rules of conduct already in place. I know, there are plenty of female soldiers who are getting the short end of that enforcement; but like so many things, the Power of Gay can fix that.
    also, Elaine Donnelly can fuck herself straight to hell on this one. She has no experience or background in the military or of gay people, so she can eat hot death.
  • lark83 · 11 months ago
    This has been so long in coming that I don't think its going to be a big deal when it finally does. Besides, anybody with half a brain knows we've always had gays in the military.
  • PissedSissy · 11 months ago
    Hmm - let's make it legal for queers to get shot at. Easy sell there . . .

    Doesn't impress me one bit. Now, if they answer the question "Are you going to push ENDA through Congress and sign it within your first year?" is another simple "Yes", THEN I'll be impressed.
  • Soundboy_jeff_meanie · 11 months ago
    that's good...

    now what about a difinitive "YES!" on repealing DOMA?
  • Steve_in_CNJ · 11 months ago
    bill clinton was not "bringing up DADT" at the start of his term. he was bringing up the absolute ban on gays in the military, intending to remove it. DADT was the ridiculous compromise that resulted from his getting rolled by Nunn and Powell.
  • pcvirginiabeach · 11 months ago
    Which is exactly what Obama is doing... and it will be met with the same reception.
  • Akaison · 11 months ago
    Any sense of where ENDA is right now? I am hoping a trans-inclusive version of the bill will now pass in 2009.
  • John Aravosis · 11 months ago
    I don't know. I doubt the Congress is any more receptive on trans issues now than they were 18 months ago. NGLTF and its "300 groups" took on this issue, they need to keep working it - not just throw wrenches when votes come up. it takes a long time to gain enough acceptance to win a vote. I fear that the 300 groups don't appear to be doing much to change national attitudes.
  • Akaison · 11 months ago
    Follow up: As a practical matter, its hard for me to accept "let's throw the trans under the bus, while saying we should not be thrown under the bus." That's another practical reason I don't accept these arguments.
  • Akaison · 11 months ago
    I will be blunt: I have a hard time believing they will accept queers under this bill but not trans. I believe that issue regarding the trans debate was a manufactured one meant to divide and conquer. "Let's get them arguing amongst each other." this is just gut check. I don't think people are more accepting legislative of gays than of trans.
  • Indigo · 11 months ago
    "Team Obama needs to prepare now for how they're going to lift the ban in a timely, successful fashion. And if they do, God bless 'em."
    And if they don't?
  • John Aravosis · 11 months ago
    And if they don't we hold them accountable. I think the fact that they're even talking about DADT now is a sign that our opinion of them matters to them.
  • Indigo · 11 months ago
    Yes, maybe we got their attention somehow.  I'm still feeling huffy, though.  I know, I know, it's expensive to maintain a Huff, but right now, I'm not feeling the luv.  ☺
  • pcvirginiabeach · 11 months ago
    John- I find this kind of proposal to be typical. Everyone wants to change this policy.

    You care to give me a good way to impliment and enforce order and discipline with open sexuality that is not managed by controlling space in a military setting?
  • Steve_in_CNJ · 11 months ago
    i think i'm getting your problem finally. you are confusing open sexual identity with open sexual conduct. as in, fucking in the corridors and showers. you are no ally to gays and lesbians if you think they are more likely to have sex on the job than straights. that is just raw prejudice.
  • Hunterdon_Rube · 11 months ago
    word-up! ignorant Str8's just wont accept that gays can be "moral" and "upstanding" citizens-soldiers too! Makes me sick to think that they believe they've cornered the market on what it means to be a human-being........get over your selves!
  • Just Me · 11 months ago
    I find it a little ludicrous that sometimes people see or hear things that aren't there. My ex wife was one of those fools who you could tell, on Christmas Eve, "Tomorrow, I am getting up late..." and she would conclude that meant she could say "So we're canceling Christmas???"

    How does DADT make it so gays can't serve? I have never understood that mentality. If what you are looking for is to flaunt who you are, well, I understand why the military doesn't want you then. If you want to serve, go to it. I did, and I never told anyone about any part of my sexuality.

    The difficulty I have is not that the far left even would have any interest in serving, but rather, that they constantly re-define history to suit their own minds desire. Cruising a site not long ago, I saw in a post at http://the41stvote.org/wp/2009/01/troll-alert-a...

    The post itself showed that truth and understanding, like the kind you would need to accurately understand and reiterate to others what DADT really means, was not a strong point of the left.

    "I was over reading “Liberal New Year Resolutions” at Conservative Oasis. Two comments there show that the trolls are very active indeed. One from Tang, is one of the sickest rants I have seen so far"

    Additionally, "the slaves were freed by the party of northern urban liberals, the Republican Party of 150 years ago."

    Slaves? Freed? By liberals, with guns?

    Everywhere I turn, I hear revisionist approaches to some of life's simplest terms, history, etc...
  • Robert · 11 months ago
    The flaunting argument is fairly weak, because actions which are considered perfectly normal for heterosexual people are considered flaunting for gay people. Sexual activity can be regulated, but under the policy you could be discharged from the military if you spoke of your same-sex partner, were seen holding hands or kissing a same-sex partner on shore leave, were seen in a "gay establishment", etc. These activities are not flaunting in my opinion, but could qualify someone for dismissal under DADT.
  • edfu · 11 months ago
    I'll believe it when it happens. I have recently decided that it's necessary to take everything Obama promises with a grain of salt. His record so far is not at all reassuring. I believe we will be fortunate if one-third of all his promises are fulfilled. Change? Oh, a little, but nothing like what we all thought he would accomplish during the campaign. Never mind the opposition; I don't think he's even going to try for many items on the campaign agenda. He's too concerned with appeasing Republicans, and this is not what most of us hoped for, expected, and voted for.
  • Former Army GI · 11 months ago
    I think you need to change your terminology. President Obama cannot end the ban on gays in the military by repealing DADT. DODT actually was an improvement over the witch hunt against gays that existed prior to 1993. I knew it well because one of my high-performing colleagues in Army Intelligence was dishonoably discharged from the military when I served with her in the 1980s. What President Obama needs to do is ask Congress to change the law that makes serving while gay a crime, as described in the Uniform Code of Military Justice. We cannot simply ignore the law, we must change it.
  • Steve_in_CNJ · 11 months ago
    a dubous "improvement" at best. you make a good point that removing the ban requires striking this from the UCMJ:

    "Any person ... who engages
    in unnatural carnal copulation with another person of the
    same or opposite sex or with an animal is guilty of sodomy.
    Penetration, however, slight, is sufficient to complete the
    offense."

    i've read opinions that this provision (article 125) applies "evenhandedly" because it limits both gay and straight people to vaginal intercourse (with humans). so removing the ban is going to inflame a bunch of morons. get ready for it.
  • pcvirginiabeach · 11 months ago
    and you want to be the NCO managing this catastrophe on a submarine? What a joke.
  • Steve_in_CNJ · 11 months ago
    obviously subs are crammed with gay sailors NOW. what exactly needs to be managed? if you asked a submarine officer what "catastrophe" he or she is concerned about, you'll hear a lot of scary things but not gay romance.
  • pcvirginiabeach · 11 months ago
    And repalce it with what, exactly? Open homosexuality in combined close quarters that the 18 year old kid from Nebraska is ordered to live in? Talk about stupidity. They seperate men and women in barracks and latrines... what will be the new policy for openly gay men?

    This is just foolish. It is exaclt how Bill Clinton got off on the wrong foot with members of our armed forces... a complete lack of understanding of the job, and the nuances that make the job different from every other job in the United States. Sexuality is controlled in our military. That is just a fact. They do not let male and female soldiers share a tent or a bathroom. Using rules to out gays and kick them out of the service is wrong... and perhaps the service should chage the rules on marriage to support a gender nuetral system that does not create a known gender of the spouse.. but this is just nuts. It means a complete revision and re thinking of military regulations in regards to gender seperation and sexuality... huge mistake.
  • mirth · 11 months ago
    So you think young Nebraskans are uncertain about their sexuality and Gays in "combined close quarters" are predators?

    Is that your argument?
  • pcvirginiabeach · 11 months ago
    see previous posts..

    Got any real answers other than "order them to do it and it will be ok"...? Let me know.
  • mirth · 11 months ago
    Why avoid the question?

    Is your argument that young men haven't yet determined their sexual orientation and that Gay servicepersons are predators?
  • pcvirginiabeach · 11 months ago
    Not my argument at all. See previous posts.
  • Steve_in_CNJ · 11 months ago
    there were males and females on many shuttle space missions. you need to get your mind out of the gutter.
  • Steve_in_CNJ · 11 months ago
    oh, and there have been gay men and lesbians in close quarters in the military since the dawn of history. what kind of "complete revision" are you imagining?
  • pcvirginiabeach · 11 months ago
    Not openly gay. Not the same thing that is being addressed in this post at all. The point is, if it is kept private, it is not an issue. You let open homosexuality KEY WORD... SEXUALITY.. and trans gender into the ranks, you just opened a whole new set of circumstances for the managment of personnel...

    You got how much expereince managing members of our armed forces?
    That is what I thought... ZERO, NONE, ZIP. This will be recieved like a bad of crap by 90% of the active duty force, and play into every negative Democrat stereotype the republicans have been pushing for years... not to mention it will create a lower level managerial nightmare. You want Obama starting out instantly untrusted by our military because he pushes this nonsense ....

    Look... I consider myself to be an ally. I fully support gays in the military, as well as gay marriage... but this is a disaster... it is not just like ordering people from different ethnicities to live together anf fight, you are pushing sexuality into the picture... keep sex and sexuality out of it. If we could have every woman serving pretend not to be a woman so it would not create issues... the military would. You all are not dealing with the realities of what you are asking for.
  • Steve_in_CNJ · 11 months ago
    you cannot force gay people to pretend to be straight, for whatever misguided supid reason you might come up with, and then ask them to give up their lives for their country. if you think straight people need some kind of therapy to get used to gays, then that should be their burden. i personally have a lot more faith in them than you seem to. the well-trained, heroic people who serve us in the military will not need any kind of therapy. but if they did, they could take time off and get it worked out and hopefully come back whole.
  • pcvirginiabeach · 11 months ago
    lol. Therapy? You have to be kidding.

    How about reality. How do you propose members of our armed forces manage the sexuality issues that this policy wll bring? You seem to be forgetting that memebrs of the armed forces are ordered to shower together... ordered to sleep together... sexuality is managed by keeping members of the opposite sex in seperate iving quarters.... how exactly should we manage openly gay or lesbian people? What about trans gender? Who do they shower with, exactly?

    You can force gay people to leave their sexuality out of the military... it has been done for centuries...

    You all have not given me one good method of physically managing the sexuality issues involved if open gays, lesbians,and trans gender people are allowed in the service. Not one.
  • TampaZeke · 11 months ago
    You tell me pcvirginbeach. Do you really think that a man who can witness his buddy being blown limb from men, a man who can somehow get through seeing children torn apart and burned in war, a man who is expected to be able to maintain professional composure in the face of autracities that most people cannot imagine are somehow so delicate, so fragile, so out of control and so unprofessional that they can't handle the thought that an out gay man might get a glimps at his pee pee? Is that what you're trying to say?

    You are not offering one single concern that wasn't brought up by those who fought to keep our armed forces racially segregated. AND YES, showeres and sexuality WERE brought up as concerns.

    Somehow we were able to get through that without our military collapsing. I feel confident we will get through this too. I also feel confident that we will one day look back at this discussion and shake our heads in disbelief at the ignorance just as we now do about the ignorance of segregationists in the fifties.
  • Hunterdon_Rube · 11 months ago
    BRAVO!
  • pcvirginiabeach · 11 months ago
    Zeke- You say you were a Marine? Then you know damn well, this would not be accepted by the vast majority of the Marines in the service... not at any paygrade. You already know that.. yet throw out the blood and guts to do what, exactly?

    God... the blacks in the 50s thing? This is not the 50s, and we are not talking about race. We are talking about sexuality...

    You can feel confident all you want... but you know damn well, this will hurt Obama with people in uniform. Not to mention the managment mess you will be handing every NCO in the service.

    But go ahead and throw the blood and guts out there if it makes you feel better about it.

    You are living in fantasyland.
  • RitornaVincitor · 11 months ago
    They're tough guys, Pc. They can handle it. They know they are dealing with gay people right now. They can handle it being open. For some it will be a tough adjustment. But they are tough. As for actual sexual activity in the military, that has to be banned, just as it is now.
  • Steve_in_CNJ · 11 months ago
    they are showering together NOW. get it? NOW. in between getting blown to bits by bombs.
  • TampaZeke · 11 months ago
    You are setting up a strawman arguement just so that you can burn it down to give the appearance that you've made a reasonable point. You have not. SEXUALITY as you scream, I suppose in an effort to scare people into visions of anal sex, is NOT about SEX. Homosexual soldiers, sailors etc will still be held under the same rules of military justice that all other personnel are. Ending DADT simply means that homosexual people can be honest about their sexuality, that they can have homosexual sexual contact, when off duty and appropriate (something NOT allowed under DADT, and that they can be free from worrying that someone might ILLEGALLY or LEGALLY read their personal mail, dairy, email or other correspondence and then throw them out based on information contained in private correspondence (something else that is allowed under DADT), they won't be able to be thrown out because someone saw them coming out of a gay bar while off duty and on shore leave. DADT is about WAY more than not asking and not telling.

    It's YOU who needs to do more research. YOU need to research the Israeli Defence Force, the British Military, the German Military, the French Military. Even the commanders who were against opening their services to gays have come around in ALL of those countries.

    And WHERE is it exactly that you heard or read that ending DADT would mean that the service would be opened to open Trangenderism or transvestisism? NO ONE has called for that and it isn't even being considered. That's a whole other issue that will be fought at another time but it's not right to deny gay people admittance because you fear that it will lead to transgenders joining at some point in the future.

    Oh, and since you asked? YES I DO have experience managing members of our armed forces. I was a Captain in the USMC for over a decade. I have commanded many platoons including combat tours.
  • pcvirginiabeach · 11 months ago
    Zeke

    The Israeli defense force operates in an area the size of New Jersey, is largely full of reservists who live at home, and would not last two days in a war with the US Armed Forces. In fact, none of the militaries you mentioned holds a candle to the US Armed Forces… Britain and Germany do not have the same culture and military regs that we have in America… you are comparing apples to oranges.

    If it is not partially about sexuality… then why are there separate berthing and heads for women? Why no women on subs?

    This has next to nothing to do with what your level of management on the ground was when you were a Marine. Were you an infantry officer? Then you know, you would not be the one trying to enforce all these “same” regs. You would not be in charge of keeping good order and discipline, or what would result from lifting the current ban. What would your gunny say now?

    You were a Captain for over a decade in the USMC? That makes no sense to me at all. I have never heard of anyone spending over 10 years at 0-3. Even a mustang. I am willing to believe you, to which my response is- why the denial? You know that the vast majority of the USMC would be strongly against open homosexuality in our military, and it would kill Obama with the Marines politically, before he even got started. I mean seriously Captain… give me the SWAG on what % of your infantry Marines would be fired up to lift the current restrictions? 10%? 20%? Hey, I admit that has something do to prejudice. People do not want to be ordered to live with others who have openly alternative sexual lifestyles. Nor do most leaders want to try to manage that mess.

    This thread most certainly does get into a discussion of the current situation in terms of lifting the transgender ban. What is your problem with that? You got a problem with Transgender people or something? Oh wait… it may cause a problem because of... well… not sexuality... err... I mean… err… the county is not ready... err. Semper fi!

    Whatever. Obama pushes this and his reputation is toast with the vast majority of the people wearing the uniform. His reputation with our military will be screwed before he even gets to issue the order to escalate in Afghanistan. That will be especially true with men in combat units. But hey, you already know that. You must believe this is a civil rights issue that supersedes moral and Obama’s and the Democrats reputation and ability to lead men in combat during two wars. Fair enough… but then why not the same absolute standard for transvestites and transgender people?

    Gays and lesbians have served honorably in our military since its inception. They continue to do so. Injecting this into the ranks right now makes no sense at all. People blogging here have even recommended therapy for Marines who refused to accept gays and transgender people living with them … I mean come on Captain… which Corps were you in, anyhow?
  • cowboyneok · 11 months ago
    EXACTLY.
  • pcvirginiabeach · 11 months ago
    You are talking about a small group of the most highly educated elite people on the planet being monitered 24/7 ... who spend what... a few days in such conditions??... hardly a viable comparison to a large group of 18 -20 year olds fresh out of high school... ordered to live together in close quarters for years.

    My mind is not in the gutter. How about a little dose of reality? The military seperates people because of sexuality... berthing and bathrooms are both seperated for a reason. Care to explain to me how this will be managed if we add open homosexuality and trans gender to the mix? It is very easy for you to come up with sweeping changes... given that you do not have to face the reality of managing them.
  • Steve_in_CNJ · 11 months ago
    obviously the US military does NOT separate people because of their sexual orientation. if you think it's somehow an added burden on morally weak young str8 boys or girls to know which of their mates are gay and which are straight, you have some serious work to do on your prejudices.

    every other miltary in the civilized world allows gays to serve openly. it has not been a problem. for that matter, it has not been a problem in our own military to have gays serve their country alongside straights. sex-related problems in the military involve heterosexuals getting pregnant or jealous or beaten up by spouses or sex partners.
  • cowboyneok · 11 months ago
    Preach it, brotherman!
  • pcvirginiabeach · 11 months ago
    Hey, I've got a great idea... let's pretend, that LGBT issues have nothing to do with sexuality... that there are no issues beyond prejudice involved when we start talking about gay and transgender freedom in the unique living situations of our military... lets just pretend there are no sexuality issues involving military spatial and living quarters at all... lets just pretend, rabbits are ducks.
  • Steve_in_CNJ · 11 months ago
    people have stopped listening to you because you are not responding to the rebuttal (for example, what is the practical difference between "open homosexuality" (your words) and closed homosexuality and is it decent to require your heroes to lie about who they are?). as an "ally", perhaps you could at least make a suggestion for helping the gay servicemembers who are offering their lives for your security.
  • pcvirginiabeach · 11 months ago
    People blogging here do not care how badly Obama has to hurt his cedibility within the uniformed services to push this agenda. People think it is a civil rights issue, and do not see the sexual aspects of it when it comes to military living conditions. I am not denying that prejudice has a lot to do with this... people do not want to be ordered to live and shower with openly gay men. Yes, it is also more of an issue for males, I believe.

    Anyhow- If you all truly believe it is worth going to the matt so that the 10% of the 10% of the gay people in Uniform can come out... and transgender people can enlist, I get it. We disagree.

    My advice to gay service members is to keep their sexual lives private. That is my advice. Don't ask, don't tell. I have not heard of a single service member who has been thrown out of the uniformed services if they did not come out.

    Lousy deal... I know... but you are asking Obama to hurt his reputation with the vast majority of service members over this. Just as long as you understand that... ok. We disagree.
  • cowboyneok · 11 months ago
    Polls are showing you are wrong. YOU may have a problem with it, but polls show the time has come to change and integrate. Also, when I was in the military there were still a few southern boys who didn't like serving with African Americans but, guess what, THEY HAD TO and they got over it.
  • pcvirginiabeach · 11 months ago
    Polls? What poll would that be...? I had no idea they were polling bubble heads on such matters...
  • cowboyneok · 11 months ago
    Okay, "pcvirginiabeach" everyone knows you are a hysterical bigot on this issue, so no need to keep proving the point. Move along before some gay man winks at you, and you have to find someone to gay bash to prove you are a a "real heterosexual." Me thinks you are protesting WAY too much on this issue. You have something you want to tell us, girlfriend?
  • mirth · 11 months ago
    Ding Ding Ding

    We have a winner!

    (Mista Cowboy sheaths sword, bows low)
  • cowboyneok · 11 months ago
    LOL - thanks E!
  • Robert · 11 months ago
    Apparently you are out of touch. Here is a report concluded by retired army officers, reported in Fox News: http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,377585,00.html. There have been similar reports from military sources. The military, in general, is ready for this change.
  • cowboyneok · 11 months ago
    I am gay. I served on submarines in the Cold War and was outted by my ex-wife and then discharged for being gay. I was told personally by many on my submarine that if I was what it meant to be gay they had no problem serving with gay men. THIS is on a submarine, so YOU don't know what you are talking about. Sure, there might be one or two, like you, who obsess over sexuality but the rest of us are adult enough to not make every "situation" a sexual one. I was there to work (on the submarine) and my shipmates knew that. In fact, had it not been for me, there wouldn't have been protestant services. It wasn't my choice to be the protestant lay reader but it happened, so I'm with the others who would ask that you get your mind out of the gutter. I wouldn't share this personal information if I didn't think it necessary to prove another point... I was so focused on my work I had to be ordered to masturbate by the ship's Hospital Corpsman. Yes, thats right, this "sexual monster" was told to masturbate because my prostate got infected from not "flushing it enough." I was under the mistaken idea if my prostate needed "flushing" it would occur due to a "wet dream," etc. Just pointing out how ridiculous it is to think us "gays" can't control our sexuality, and how its stupid to make it an issue in a work environment. Gays and lesbians can work openly and honestly with their straight counterparts. Also, you have a problem with showering with them? Better not ever go to a public gym then because THAT happens all the time there, and I don't see riots breaking out there, either.
  • pcvirginiabeach · 11 months ago
    You did not serve under DADT. If you had, you would have been able to continue to serve, no problem.
  • Robert · 11 months ago
    That's not true. While in theory the military does not investigate a person's sexual orientation, if it becomes public knowledge, you can be discharged from the military. This has happened to many people.
  • Edwards · 11 months ago
    I scares the hell out of me to think that any administration is going to simply get rid of DADT. As a soldier that served under DADT, it provided an AMAZING amount of protection against harassment, questioning, & false accusations. If the new administration does get rid of DADT, are they going to implement a new more open standard in the military? Or are we going to go back to the way the military used to be before so many gays & lesbians fought for DADT?

    I get the sinking feeling that a bunch of G&L folks are jumping on a support bandwagon that is going to actually hurt "us" in the end. After talking to folks at the SLDN table at Pride, I feel like anyone that supports repealing DADT without having a Hard Line, Approved Alternative on the table, is about to shoot themselves and the G&L movement in the foot. Last time I checked, an alternative to DADT hasn't been approved so I am quite content to hold onto the small amount of protection I have been afforded.
  • cowboyneok · 11 months ago
    The alternative is FULL integration. Question: What is the Servicemembers Legal Defense Network going to do when DADT is overturned? Are they going to disband because they will no longer be needed? Is SLDN trying to find ways to continue to be relevent after DADT is overturned? I'm wondering if SLDN will have a reason to exist after its overturned? Just curious as to why SLDN would be arguing against ending DADT, and wondering about their motivations.

    There are a lot of Certified Public Accountant organizations who are against simplying the tax code... I'm just sayin'
  • pcvirginiabeach · 11 months ago
    Looks good for your side of the argument... looks like obama is going to take this on... all over the press...

    Congratulations I guess.... I hope it is worth it for the guys that want to come out that are in the service...
  • cowboyneok · 11 months ago
    "it provided an AMAZING amount of protection against harassment, questioning, & false accusations. "

    It didn't provide an AMAZING amount of protection for those of us discharged for being open and honest about our sexual orientation.
  • pcvirginiabeach · 11 months ago
    Exactly right.
  • Matt · 11 months ago
    They need to end that shit as soon as possible. I don't know the exact number, but a huge percentage of our Arabic translators were gay. We could really use them. In order to end harrassment I'd just enact strong regulations against harrassment.