DISQUS

AMERICAblog: Obama rejects California gay marriage ban; McCain supports it

  • DennyB · 1 year ago
    I'm so sick and tired of hearing criticism of Barack for his religious views. Can't we all just live and let live? When Obama said that he believes marriage should only be between a man and a woman, there was no reason to attack him. We all have the freedom to our own faith and values. We need to treat others respectfully before we demand they accept our lifestyle.
  • misterorff · 1 year ago
    For real. My parents are against gay marriage 100%, but I don't hate them for it. They love my "boyfriend" and just don't think we should get "married." Big deal. Luckily, I believe I will be able to marry my boyfriend whether my parents or Obama like it or not :)
  • ClintonHater · 1 year ago
    I think my mother is a bigot and I'm not even gay.
  • jackpatzer · 1 year ago
    Let me be the first person to openly question Barack Obama's gaytriotism. To learn more horrible truths about Obama, visit www.obamasecrets.weebly.com.
  • ClintonHater · 1 year ago
    He supports the full repeal of DOMA unlike Billary and McCain.
  • misterorff · 1 year ago
    Why is it when Obama does something wrong, there are hundreds of angry people commenting, yet when he does something good no one says a word?

    I'd move to California and get married, but Earthquakes scare me way more than Hurricanes.
  • Bostonian_Queer_in_Dallas · 1 year ago
    The solution to all this marriage shit is simple: European style law.

    1. Your marriage is performed at the Registry. THAT is the legal contract affecting taxes and inheritance and such. YOU ARE DONE.
    2. If you wanna praise the Jeebus myth, or Avram, or Mohammed AFTER the civil marriage service at Town Hall, fine with me. BUT YOUR GODDAMNED MULLAH OR RABBI OR PRIEST OR MINISTER DOES NOT SIGN ANY GODDAMNED LEGAL FUCKING STATE DOCUMENTS.

    End of the fucking discussion.
  • misterorff · 1 year ago
    "End of the fucking discussion."

    Good lord, wouldn't that be nice?
  • Andrew · 1 year ago
    Couldn't agree more. The issue of marriage should be held at the state level along with states rights. We're making progress even in New York. It's nice to know that Obama rejects the gay marriage ban. That is until he flip flops again like he did on FISA.
  • Hangtown Danile · 1 year ago
    Wow I agree with you.
    I have been saying the same thing for years and nobody cares.
    Most of the people who are for the ban are afraid that the government will try to force gay marriage on to the Churches that do not agree.
    Get the whole term Marriage out of the wording and just give all people ONE Civil Union at one time. That is preformed by the government and is a contract, everybody is equal. Nobody is better or worse.
    Everybody is happy.
    Except for the people who are trying to force gay marriage onto Churches that do not agree. But they are a very small minority thank God.
  • Bostonian_Queer_in_Dallas · 1 year ago
    My own daughter is now living in delicious sin in the Netherlands with her fiance. They are beginning to plan their wedding in Amsterdam. It will be a simple ceremony at the City Hall. Afterwhich we will go to a fine restaurant and have a simple buffet meal. There will be about 100 guests. There is NO CHURCH or Synagogue or Mosque involved here. I asked her if that bothered her (we did raise her in the Anglican tradition but New England Episcopalians are more concerned about sherry at coffee hour than Jeebus crap....it's barely a true faith.) She told me that in Holland no one would get caught DEAD getting married in church nowadays...at least the twenty somethings anyway.

    Get the churches out of the marriage business altogether. Marriage business meaning LEGAL CONTRACTS.
  • Hangtown Danile · 1 year ago
    I agree with getting the Churches out of the legal business part. The churches have the right to practice there faith.
    Congrats to your Daughter.
    Mine are only babies right now but some day I hope they can find a good man (my hope anyway) I will love them whatever there choice is. Unless they choose a bum who hurts one of them. Then I will have to kill him:>)
  • jcgraham77 · 1 year ago
    That is really the answer to all of this. Marriage is a religous invention. Unions are civil. The partnership is made of the two people...i think "partnership" is a word more applicable to what most people consider marriage. Marriage in reality is a religous vow you take in front of god and your church saying you won't abandon the partnership. I can do this without the church and without calling it marriage. Let them make marriage illegal for my but lets stealthly set up rights under federal and state statutes as unions and partnerships...and for those of us who need the religous affiliation it will come in time as the old fu**ers die off.
  • Jim Olson · 1 year ago
    As an ordained Minister, I completely agree. Maybe not with the snark, but with the idea...
  • Bostonian_Queer_in_Dallas · 1 year ago
    And many of us in the gay community have always argued...why the fuck base
    our rule book on a failed institution anyway?
  • Hangtown Danile · 1 year ago
    I am glad there is still a chance for us to vote on it.
    I will likely vote no on the ban.
    Come to Sacramento. No earthquakes hear, no flooding either.
    Just heat heat and more heat.
    And a state that can never pass a budget on time...
  • fredndallas · 1 year ago
    I am major unhappy with Senator Obama these past two weeks -- about FISA and his slamming General Clark for telling the absolute truth. . .

    but I am thrilled (and surprised) to hear of his rediscovery of courage and character in this posting. It sounds pretty solid and difficult for him to run away from (as he has done on protecting constitutional rights.)

    There is little question that the country has had these last horrible 7-8 years because of (a) gay "leaders" insistence of cramming gay marriage down the throat of the electorate (b) the shrewd and hateful Republican scum that have exploited the issue to enormous advantage.

    I never thought anything but political disaster would come from it all, but I was wrong on that point. We would have never gotten actual progress on legally sanctioned gay marriage in decades without what has happened, but the price the society has paid is enormous nonetheless. A mixed blessing any way you cut it.

    John, as usual is exactly right imo. Much, much more has to be done to educate and persuade average non-hating folks. Meanwhile from the looks of it to me, Obama has taken the strongest stand we can reasonably expect.
    Good for him.

    Now, he needs to find his character and take a principled stand on FISA and protection of American's 4th Amendment rights and get over being a freaking scaredy cat. (An issue that curiously has gotten very little, if any, coverage at americablog.)
  • Blueflash · 1 year ago
    Obama's slap-down of Clark for simply stating the obvious - getting shot down and captured (let alone co-operating) with a war-time enemy doesn't qualify anyone to be President - was cowardly. The picture is getting clearer. Obama is gutless before the right when the audience is national while trying to calm progressives' nerves in more private venues. Maybe it's too soon in this country's history to expect any black man who got anywhere not to be a panderer by nature. Disgusted.
  • Bush_Bites · 1 year ago
    Obama says he wasn't referring to Clark and Clark shouldn't apologize.

    Said speech was written two months ago.

    McCain's people are steaming.

    http://www.dailykos.com/storyonly/2008/7/1/1785...
  • Blueflash · 1 year ago
    Yeah. Right. Just a coincidence.
  • ClintonHater · 1 year ago
    Its all about getting elected. Lets check the Gallup tracking numbers in the next two days. Right now Obama is at +5 I bet you he'll be at +8 in a couple days. So you guys may not like it, but it will get him elected, and frankly that is all I really care about after 8 years of Bush. It doesn't mean he has to follow through on any of this when he is elected.
  • vegasbaby · 1 year ago
    my s/o of 26 years (we had our commitment ceremony on the isle of Ibiza Spain years ago with both our families and lots of friends in attendance) and I are thrilled that Obama is stating the obvious...equal rights under the law for all....my relationship is none of the govenrnments' bees wax....(funny..the GOP used to be the party that respected states and private citizens rights...now...not so much)

    let's hope big O doesn't move to "center" (whereever that is) on this issue too!

    still smarting from his FISA cower and not sticking by Clark's true statements
  • Hangtown Danile · 1 year ago
    .(funny..the GOP used to be the party that respected states and private citizens rights...now...not so much)
    That is why I got out.
  • paulbot5 · 1 year ago
    Thats because Obama is really just like any other politician, he says change so much people fall for it. He like very other mainstream politician believes terrorism is a great threat and is willing to give up liberty for it, and he thinks Iran is a great threat(what good is pulling out of Iraq to bomb Iran?)
  • Nigel Elliott · 1 year ago
    Bravo, John. Your energy and talents have added much to enlighten the national discourse on this important issue. You're an essential spoke on this wheel of change.

    Equal Rights for ALL!
  • Blueflash · 1 year ago
    I forgave Obama for the McClurkin business and convinced myself it was an innocent mistake - an oversight on his part (he's straight after all) of the fraudulent nature of the so-called ex-gay movement and how deeply offensive it is to gay people struggling to live honest and self-respecting lives. At the time I thought it was the Clintons who weren't to trusted. Now I don't know. Obama is looking slipperier and slipperier. Perhaps he assumes that progressives are so desperate after eight years of Bush that we'll vote for him no matter what. We'll see but he's lost my trust.
  • cowboyneok · 1 year ago
    I believe John is arguing its politically dangerous to support gay marriage, and it sounds like Obama is supporting gay marriage. I might have read it wrong, but its what I understood from the post...
  • Blueflash · 1 year ago
    Who knows what he supports by now. Scroll down and read about his support of faith-based initiatives.
  • moreleesafer · 1 year ago
    I believe that is what I have heard in the past.
    John is right with this issue. Obama can't stand up and say he
    supports same sex marriage. it would be a rallying point for the religious
    whack jobs. As the rest of the country sees that with s.s. marriage in Mass. VT. , and CA have
    not lead to the Earth blowing up and all us being sent to hell immediately; perhaps they will be more receptive to removing some of the other barriers to equality such as the DADT.
  • cowboyneok · 1 year ago
    Clarify the above, John. I think some are thinking you are saying Obama doesn't support gay marriage and you are arguing he should. The way I read the post, Obama is stating he supports marriage, but you are saying he should not because its politically dangerous.

    Me? I'd LOVE to see our candidate support marriage, but do I worry? Hell YES I worry about it. Gay Marriage is one of those issues the large idiot votes rallies around. I will never forget being a poll watcher in Oklahoma and having people ask me "Where do you vote against the gays?" because they couldn't read. Yep, they couldn't read but BY GOD they could "vote against the gays!" (Vote against the gays, of course, meant stamp Republican) Our state Democratic party was STUPID ENOUGH to put Gay Marriage on the ballot and expect not to get spanked over it. The Democrats who voted to put it on the ballot thought they would be REWARDED by Republicans who wanted it on the ballot. SURPRISE! (not) our state LOST the Democratic majority in the house and senate, and the Republican idiot vote came out by the BUS LOAD to "vote against the gays."

    I'd love to be more optimistic about the average American. Its why I supported Edwards for President. I'd love to thank the average working class idiot would be smart enough to vote for his self interest and elect Obama for President. I just don't trust half of America to be intelligent or progressive enough to understand and vote for a black man. Maybe I'm wrong. GOD I hope I am...
  • Bush_Bites · 1 year ago
    OT:

    [Obama] says his call Monday for supporters to avoid denigrating military service was not a reference to Wesley Clark’s comment about McCain. "I think in at least one publication it was reported that my comments yesterday about Senator McCain were in a response to General Clark. I think my staff will confirm that was in a draft of that speech that I had written two months ago."

    Also says Clark does not owe McCain an apology...McCain campaign accuses Obama of repudiating his own repudiation, and says, "Apparently Barack Obama now thinks that smear attacks on John McCain’s military service are fair game."

    http://www.dailykos.com/storyonly/2008/7/1/1785...
  • cowboyneok · 1 year ago
    The media need to get their story straight. In fact, I just heard Rachel Maddow "mistakenly?" bemoan Obama taking Clark to task.

    This whole thing is just bullshit. There is nothing wrong with questioning McCain's service? Its not like the entire Republican Convention didn't wear purple bandaids on their faces to mock Kerry's service!
  • ClintonHater · 1 year ago
    Maybe Obama said it because he is going to choose clark as VP.
  • jr · 1 year ago
    "gays are trying to undermine the institution of marriage"-McCombover as he writes his alimony check to Carol
  • Bush_Bites · 1 year ago
    Gays aren't a threat to marriage.

    Rich rodeo queens are.
  • moreleesafer · 1 year ago
    hahaha doped up rodeo queens need to be banned.
  • vkobaya · 1 year ago
    Aren't we very fortunate that Obama didn't decide to take his faith based campaign a bit further and condemn gays and gay marriage. Just barely squeeked by on that one. Then again, the Republicans will gleefully say it proves he isn't a Christian but a Muslim as if Muslims are that tolerant of gays ... not that any Republicans are aware of it.
  • Gryphen · 1 year ago
    Well personally I am against gays marrying.

    Of course I am against EVERYBODY marrying.

    Remember "marriage is where love goes to die".

    Don't forget that I was the one who warned you.
  • tlsintx · 1 year ago
    grandpappy mcCain believes marriage is between one man and one Bedhead Barbie:

    http://www.dependablerenegade.com/dependable_re...
  • AdmNaismith · 1 year ago
    He only says these things in private. The Alice B. Toklas club was already against the ban (duh!)- how about saying this ina big speech to his adoring crowds and not just a dozen people behind closed doors?

    He needs to publicly denounce the Amendment- I still have not heard a prominent Dem speak out against the this thing. Schwartzenegger is stealing all of that thunder.

    Meanwhile in public, Obama's actively courting the crazy Evangelical vote by promising them money to teach them how to get even larger grants form the US Govt.
    You promised me a pony, John Aravosis, but all I see so far is a broken-down mule.