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AMERICAblog: Obama to the Catholic Press on abortion and gays

  • BlueJelloElf · 5 months ago
    This "conscience clause" stuff just burns me up. If you choose a job in the medical field where you will have to perform certain procedures, or dispense certain medications, or treat certain kinds of people, or whatever your objection is, TOO BAD. Do your damn job.
  • jpa · 5 months ago
    he didn't seem to be wrestling with his faith when he was soliciting my vote last november.
  • Dateline_Molly · 5 months ago
    No kidding. Where was "I wrestle with my faith on this issue" when he was out stumping?
  • SD_Dave · 5 months ago
    Mr. President, Since our nation is one based on secular law, YOUR religious faith is IRRELEVANT to the rights of MILLIONS of American tax-paying, law-abiding citizens whose only "flaw" as you imply is that we are HONEST about who we are as people!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    That said Mr. President, you still have a choice in this battle, either be on the side of justice or continue being a coward because you are afraid of offending the American-Christian Taliban.
  • Jophus · 5 months ago
    Cowboy used a really great term merging some christian word and taliban together. It was brilliant. If I could only remember what it was.

    Where is my hero?
  • SD_Dave · 5 months ago
    Could it be Talibangelicals?
  • Jophus · 5 months ago
    Yes! Thank you.
  • SD_Dave · 5 months ago
    You're welcome. It took me a little bit to figure out the spelling :)
  • Jhyder · 5 months ago
    Talibangelicals.......ROFLMAO.......LOVE IT! Let Stephanie Miller hear that one!
  • gonzalez · 5 months ago
    Only the Republicans can take a hard line agenda. The Democrats are just cowards. We have given them the power to implement the progressive agenda and what are they doing with it? Not a thing. They are worried about what the Republicans will say about them to the Press.
  • mml34 · 5 months ago
    doesn't this real sum obama up? he has "regard" and "concern" for our community. could he be any more patronizing?

    these are the words of our "fierce advocate?"

    it must be really, really, really hard to be obama, constantly wrestling with his faith regarding "the gays." if this money quote doesn't convince you that he just wants us all to go away, nothing will.

    what a farce!
  • Alec · 5 months ago
    Feel victimized? For someone who usually chooses his words carefully, in light of recent events, that was astonishingly callous.

    But then, we're just fodder in the culture wars that he foolishly believes he can avoid. And the take shows the disconnect:

    Religious folks, cultural conservatives included, will appreciate that Obama takes his faith seriously enough that he's struggling with how to reconcile it with his commitment to gays and lesbians. Social liberals and the LGBT community will appreciate that he's unequivocal about that commitment.

    We're not so certain he's unequivocal these days. We're "feeling" victimized after watching institutions like the Catholic Church and evangelical denominations and the Mormons pour millions of dollars into marriage, civil union, domestic partnership and adoption bans, "feeling" victimized because in this employer's market you can still be fired for being gay, "feeling" victimized because gays and lesbians are being discharged at the rate of two soldiers per day whille the president doesn't lift a finger to stop it, and "feeling" victimized by the DOJ's mishandling of their reply brief. The source of all of this, btw, at least in America, is the conservative Christian faith, and the bigotry it masks with theology.

    Trademark Obama indeed.
  • Jophus · 5 months ago
    Now even as we speak, there are those who are preparing to divide us -- the spin masters, the negative ad peddlers who embrace the politics of "anything goes." Well, I say to them tonight, there is not a liberal America and a conservative America -- there is the United States of America. There is not a Black America and a White America and Latino America and Asian America -- there’s the United States of America.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ejkG3VeA2Kc


    We don't need to make new ads to destroy him in the next primary. We can just run his own against him. From just this quote from his 2004 DNC speech he stands opposed to dividing any group, while he is actively drawing a line in and between Americans and gays. Via his work and his silence

    1. We can't serve in the military.
    2. Our contracts aren't honored across state lines.
    3. We can't adopt kids.
    4. We can't marry.
    5. We can't file joint taxes.
    6. We can't make our immigrant partners citizens.
    7. We don't have our partner's protection in court.
    8. We cant' leave an inheritance.
    9. We can't give blood.
    10. We can't have the audacity of hope.

    I don't even want to go on. Let's bring him down in '12.
  • Jhyder · 5 months ago
    I don't want a Bachmann/Palin Overdrive in '12....so no,IT'S ONLY BEEN 6.5 MONTHS, give him at least a term...sheesh
  • Jophus · 5 months ago
    No.
  • Jhyder · 5 months ago
    Then have a Republican nightmare presidency where you are jailed for being gay or NEED an abortion....HAVE A LITTLE PATIENCE,you know how bat-shit crazy Republicans are and how spineless Democrats are,vote in better,Progressive Democrats and WE will get what we want,if you keep up the way you are,you might as well move to a more Progressive state or leave the country because you are begging for defeat by turning against him this early......I would have preferred Dennis Kucinich, but what percentage of the vote did he get? It will require patience and CONSTRUCTIVE criticism,not outright giving up. I don't want to see a Repuke in office for the rest of my lifetime,your kind of apathy will insure they get the office in '12.....MAY (insert deity here)HELP US ALL IF THAT HAPPENS
  • shell · 5 months ago
    I agree with you. I understand how frustrated people get with Obama. I do, too. But what choice do we have? One choice: GOP. So -- you're gonna vote GOP in 2012? Not vote?

    My, that will turn out well. THINK, people!
  • Jophus · 5 months ago
    We can work like hell to elevate a competitor in the next primary. I think we could beat him with Dean.

    Who knows that is very far away in political terms, as my friend Jyhder points out Obama has only been president for about 7 months.

    Maybe if we pressure him like hell he will whip himself in shape and feel comfortable enough to express that currency we gave him in the form of a sweeping mandate for progressive action.

    I think and I am still somewhat civil. I'm just not fucking around.
  • leliorisen · 5 months ago
    I think we support the best PROGRESSIVE in the Democratic primary. Obama ain't it.

    The protest happens before election day. As of now, I plan to be a part of it.

    Obviously, if Obama is the candidate, we have little choice. But, unlike the last campaign, I do not plan on giving money or blogging support.

    That, of course, could change if we actually see some change in the next 2 1/2 years.

    I am not holding my breath.
  • shell · 5 months ago
    I hear you. Unfortunately, very few enter a primary when the incumbent is of the same party. (And those who do are mostly worse than the incumbent. For example, a Democrat entering because Obama is TOO LIBRUL.)
  • Jophus · 5 months ago
    Very few black men become the President of the United States. We can accomplish a lot more as citizens than most people realize.
  • Jophus · 5 months ago
    I for one will donate 3x as much time and as much money as possible for his contender, if they are an honest progressive. If we all pledged a little more than last time, and start looking early we can do it.

    I'm telling you we could make Dean the 45th.
  • Steve · 5 months ago
    I used to think like Jhyder, but not anymore.

    First, I absolutely refuse to accept the following excuse: "It's only been [insert current time since inauguration]; just wait until [some distant point in the future]." No. If the President has time to file briefs defending DOMA, he has time to issue a stop-loss order on DADT. He can try to improve his standing if he wants, but right now he is a gay-rights failure who does nothing but offer one excuse after another.

    Second, my partner and I contributed to the statutory maximum and raised tens of thousands of dollars for the Obama campaign in 2008. WE WON'T BE DOING THAT AGAIN UNLESS WE SEE A MAJOR ATTITUDE ADJUSTMENT IN THIS PATRONIZING AND DISMISSIVE ADMINISTRATION.
  • Polly_Tics · 5 months ago
    Thank you, but no thank you.
  • shell · 5 months ago
    Un-fucking-believable. Yes, I know I am OLD, but I remember when John F. Kennedy ran for president. (I was only 7 years old, but we didn't have cable TV, or other distractions, so we watched more regular news.) And I remember this: there was a giant stink over JFK being a Roman Catholic. And he said his RELIGION was personal, and would NOT interfere with his duties as president. That even if the Pope didn't believe in something, he wouldn't take that into consideration when making his government calls.

    Too bad Barry wasn't even fucking BORN when JFK said that. (And he obviously never read it either.) To me, having experienced the 1st Catholic president's words, it is ASTONISHING to hear a US president actually say:

    "And as a Christian, I'm constantly wrestling with my faith and my solicitude and regard and concern for gays and lesbians."

    It is truly astounding that America has moved SO far backwards in the past 50 years.
  • Jhyder · 5 months ago
    I agree, but Americans were smarter and less distracted then.Consumerism and the Reich's "greed is good" mantra have led us down this path.....It is going to be a long,hard slog to progress into this 21st century with the greed,zealotry and stupidity the authoritarian "conservatives" have driven us into.How many decades did it take for African-Americans to get voting rights? I agree that he should "pull a GWB" and enact signing statements and other dictatorial powers that we so hated under our last Resident(not to imply that Obama is our new "Resident",just saying GWB was) ,but that only makes us as bad as our enemies(misinformed,zealotus,bigoted,lying,immoral Reich-wingers)....I choose the higher path,and I'm agnostic...have patience.....after the first term if he is still this way,then it is time to get really pissed-off.
  • shell · 5 months ago
    You are VERY correct that things were much different circa 1960. Many of my friends had fathers (and some mothers) who were in WWII. Most joined very young -- before age 18. So -- they didn't even have a HS diploma, much less a college degree. But their writing and general all-around education was much higher than most college grads today.

    Thank you for reminding me of the time it takes. After Bush, we all seem to assume things were pretty good before 2001. They weren't. They have taken decades to go down to this point. And it will take a long time to bring it back. I just don't know if I have the strength to do it.

    And no, I don't get that this guy is a troll at all. I feel Obama should do much more -- MUCH more. But I see HIM as a youngster, too. He doesn't GET it. And he SHOULD have things crammed down his throat. So -- keep it up.

    Just remember -- just suddenly getting 100% gay rights will not fix America. Nor will getting full-blown socialized medicine fix everything. This country is WAY screwed up. It will take everyone acting together and not just relaxing after their pet project gets fixed -- if it does. Education is another one. That MUST be fixed -- and soon.

    The key ingredient, I think, is America's fixation on MONEY. Believe it or not, you can live quite a happy life, living in a rental, or even an apt. your whole life! Yet most Americans fixate on owning a house as the American dream. How about having a dream that involves humans, rather than houses, cars, etc.?
  • Jophus · 5 months ago
    You agree with signing statements? That is outrageous. Congress just voted 429-2 against that unconstitutional behavior, that Obama just picked up. THAT is what the veto power is for.

    http://thehill.com/leading-the-news/house-overw...

    You are right, these things take a long time to correct. However if you sit back and silently object, they will never correct. I'm starting to question whether you really are liberal or just a troll. This post is appalling, Jhyder. Just appalling.
  • Jophus · 5 months ago
    The hurt of religious teachings doesn't compare to the hurt of having someone on the government payroll bashing your skull in to the point that your brain swells, when you've went out to get a glass of Riesling.
  • leliorisen · 5 months ago
    'The PanderMan can....The Panderman can. The Panderman can, cause he mixes it with mush and makes the words sound good.'

    The most telling comment from PanderMan here is this,
    "For the gay and lesbian community in this country, I think it's clear that they feel victimized..."

    Get it? He acknowledges, "they feel victimized." Not that he thinks we have been, or are continuing to be victims, but that he knows that we feel that way.

    Which is why he exploited it during the campaign. He knows we want our civil rights. He used it to raise money and support.

    But it also explains why he has done nothing...because he does not necessarily care about us, or believe we are victimized, himself. If he did, why not just come out and say it?

    When one is a great orator, it is interesting how the real truth comes out with a turn of a phrase.

    Thanks for the enlightenment, PanderMan.
  • Jophus · 5 months ago
    Cute jingle. Did you pick that up somewhere or was it a stroke of genius?
  • leliorisen · 5 months ago
    No, it was me. I do satire. But, thanks for the kind words.
  • pjm · 5 months ago
    Obama
    biggest disappoinment ever
    So many promises,
    so little delivered.
    One term wonder maybe?
  • Jophus · 5 months ago
    "I think it's clear"

    You think?! We haven't been loud enough for you? Don't fuck with a faggot scorned.
  • goneover · 5 months ago
    As millions of Christians and gay Christians can attest to, there IS NO conflict between "faith" and gay people having complete civil rights.

    This consciousnous business is a red herring, and I don't see anything in this article that even relates to it.

    The Ninth Circuit just supported WA State's law which says that Pharm's have to provide morning after pills, which has the fundies and Catholics all in a twit.
  • Jophus · 5 months ago
    "There have been some who keep on anticipating the worst from us, and it's not based on anything I've said or done"

    Perhaps that is because you are not saying or doing anything.
  • L · 5 months ago
    he says plenty
  • Jophus · 5 months ago
    All I can see is red right now, and the logic isn't connecting completely. Of course that is all he does (and well at that) is talk.
  • offspring · 5 months ago
    ok one item being a christian is a CHOICE, being gay not. And which is protected? And why? So confusing this world
    I see nothing at all with anyone pointing to their faith and saying, "this is part of myself", nothing at all wrong with it, but when you have ran for a public service position and have chosen to take money from the same people you have a conflict with, that kind of negates your standing on the issue a bit there obama. Everyone has the right not to like a people, for any and all reasons they want, it is when you tell others they have to do the same, or that others have to live as you do, or that they have to live by the standards of your own personal approach to the choice of faith that things are completely upside down. No one should have to live by even my standards or my beliefs, they are "mine", but we all have a common belief that as americans we are entitled to all the the rights of this country, god or no god.
  • usagi · 5 months ago
    John, you've got to have some insight into WTF is going on in the White House. It's one thing to slag off teh gays--it's almost expected, but a sitting Democratic President slagging off the pro-choice movement? What does he possibly hope to gain by this?
  • loganbrown · 5 months ago
    No one is "slagging" the pro-choice movement here. I don't know anyone who is pro-choice who claims that abortions are easy decisions and not hard to make. In fact, most of them claim the exact opposite... that a woman who feels she needs to go this route has gone through a hard process to reach that point.

    Yes, I know this isn't the case in all abortions and there are a small group who go get one without any moral conflict, but they are outside of the mainstream. All the President did there was point out that both pro-choice and anti-abortion supporters would like to reduce the number of abortions which take place in the United States.

    Also, while I'm not Catholic I am religious and it bothers me to see the number of anti-religious statements here. This is not how you get support from people who are committed to the social gospel which has long been a mainstay of the mainline churches in America. The religious leaders who want a theocracy are a small minority of religious leaders and do not represent most religious people.
  • John Aravosis · 5 months ago
    I think the pro-choice movement's head is on the chopping block. If Obama is afraid that gays give him a bad image, and mind you, the GOP won't even touch gay issues any more, so we have an incredible opportunity right now, imagine how Obama feels about abortion? An issue that currently causes far more controversy than gay issues.

    Obama is convinced, or has been convinced, that any issue that reeks of controversy, especially culture issues, are to be pushed aside in the national interest. That's what's going on. That's why he's been so wishy washy about the public option (because the GOP hates it, thus controversy), why he's endorsed a lackluster climate change bill in the House, and so on. The man abhors controversy.
  • Jophus · 5 months ago
    First of all, I'm sorry I've lost control on this thread John. I'm actually kind of embarrassed for myself. Second, really? There is just no way, right?

    Please tell me you think this is an extreme, super-uber-mega tiny chance he is going to approach the abortion issue.
  • usagi · 5 months ago
    But if avoiding conflict is the objective, the actions don't make any sense. What he's doing is exacerbating every single conflict.

    Whatever else I thought of Obama, I thought he was a cannier politician than that.
  • Jophus · 5 months ago
    "I think it's clear that they feel victimized in fairly powerful ways and they're often hurt by not just certain teachings of the Catholic Church, but the Christian faith generally."

    How about our "representative" government?!
  • paulied · 5 months ago
    It is odd to me that, even when speaking to the Catholic media, his religous faith never seems to be at odds with his pro-choice stance. Why then is it all of a sudden such an issue when it comes to civil equality for the LGBT community?
  • JCtx · 5 months ago
    As a Christian, I just do not understand anyone who says that they are "...constantly wrestling with..." their faith when it comes to LGBT issues and the conscience clause for medical workers. There is nothing to wrestle with; just follow Christ's teachings: Judge not, and ye shall not be judged. In other words, other people's sins are not your problem.

    Only those who are without sin are allowed to cast stones. And since everyone is a sinner, then no one is allowed to judge or punish anyone else for their sins.

    Besides which, it is God's job to punish sinners. The only reason that anyone could have for punishing sinners is that they don't believe that God will punish sinners, or they don't believe that God's punishment is good enough. Yes, they will give other reasons, but at the heart of it, it is still one of these. And in both of these, they reveal a profound lack of faith which should be highlighted at every opportunity.
  • NotTimothyGeithner · 5 months ago
    Yes, most Christians are illogical and clearly doubt that their God is all-powerful because they are always questioning God's commandments, like "love one another" or "turn the other cheek."

    Logically, if they are questioning their "God's" commandments then they must not worship the God of that book they love to put in hotel rooms but some other god like money.
  • Polly_Tics · 5 months ago
    Well, I'm no young'un, so I have been addressing Abortion, GLBT Rights and Religious Freedom for quite some time now. That said, I happen to agree with Obama on ONE specific point: "I don't know any circumstance in which abortion is a happy circumstance or decision". I must concur that an abortion is no picnic; be it emotionally or physically because no matter how much it may be needed, wanted or deserved; the act in and of itself is tough to handle. These are some of the most difficult parts when addressing Abortion; the incredibly complicated and personal issues that surround every utterance in this discussion.

    So once again it appears that Obama is phrasing these issues VERY carefully, as any politician would, BUT what concerns me greatly is his apparent need to appeal to the far Right instead of the conservative, moderate and (especially) Progressive Dems.

    Is this problem anything more than just a crafty politician trying to coax the most bang for the buck out of each and every line? Maybe...but the consistency of this same ole song being played over and over again is what has me most worried.

    Continuing to reserve hope that Obama is merely trying to "unite" this country after decades of partisan warfare is one thing, BUT it is the blatant display of a LACK of concern for his own words, promises and political base that should be catching our collective attention.

    I remain heartened that in his still young administration, there are active plans to honor his pledge with a dedication to those who donated their hard fought dollars to get him elected. However, it is Obama's own words that are slowly eating away at his many promises that are giving me a dark sense of foreboding.
  • Indigo · 5 months ago
    Agreed with one distinction. I'm stuck with the memory of Lawyer Clinton saying, "It all depends on what your definition of 'is' is." He threw away his credibility right there. Now the Incumbent has turned to that dumb stunt with his overly guarded comments, seeking to appease the Reich Wing. The Reich Wing cannot be appeased. He's a fool (that's what I said!) to try. He's thrown away his mandate and got nothing for it.
  • Indigo · 5 months ago
    So now he's the Theologian in Chief? Unacceptable.

    OT:
    The Amos & Andy Show is back, this time in a gay format. Brüno. This is not a good sign for a loving tomorrow. Let me rephrase that, anti-gay sentiment through ridicule is unacceptable. It's something like using the n-word in reference to our first negro president, if you will. Offended? Me too! Boycott Brüno!
  • Jophus · 5 months ago
    Can you tell me what OT means? Google gives me like 56.4 billion results.

    Here is a relative clip of Shep Smith and Ralph Nader that had me fuming when it aired. Now I kind of want to get on my knees and apologize to Ralph.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ibsP6XN2dIo
  • Polly_Tics · 5 months ago
    Jophus,

    OT translates (most times) to Off Topic. It is used when you want to stray from the topic stated on the corresponding thread.
  • Jophus · 5 months ago
    I know this abbreviation: TY. ;-)
  • Brad · 5 months ago
    Re: gay wrestling
    Mighty white of him.
  • Jophus · 5 months ago
    You have got to love that Obama argued that we were pedophiles and therefor deserved less rights, then sucks the Pope's dick while he is giving a little boy a handjob under the table..... All while wearing shine control and Prada shoes.
  • Jophus · 5 months ago
    "is rather just a perception somehow that we have some hard-line agenda that we're seeking to push."

    I don't think you are in danger of anyone charging you with having any sort of specified agenda at all, Mr. President.
  • Jophus · 5 months ago
    What is the internal argument, Obama? Gays should have rights that are equal to everyone else's, but............. Fill in the blank for me.

    We are not equal in god's eyes? Please tell me. You opened the door, now walk thru it!
  • Jophus · 5 months ago
    How is it you will make a bold statement such as, "and to the extent that we can help women avoid being confronted with a circumstance in which that's even a consideration, I think that's a good thing."

    How about helping gay people avoid being confronted with a circumstance in which they loose their career or cannot start a family? Would that be a good thing?
  • shell · 5 months ago
    Ah, but there are more FEMALE voters than GAY ones. For now, Obama is treading lightly with womens' right to an abortion, but once polls say over 50% of women are anti-choice, he will change on that, too.

    As someone who was an adult (but barely) when Roe vs Wade became law, I can tell you there was none of this religious claptrap. People, by and large, accepted it. It took the religious nuts decades to become really violent. And, because of that, Americans, as usual, cowered and said they changed their minds -- they are now against abortion. They really aren't, of course, but they sure say they are. (Of course, Religious Right wacko women have abortions, too.)

    The bottom line is that Americans must stop being afraid of everything. Be it terrorists, Religious Right murderers, immigrant-murderers, gay murderers, on and on.

    I am so sick of scared little children -- American adults.
  • Jophus · 5 months ago
    Unfortunately I've just been jaded over the past 2 weeks or so, and I'm starting to see things solely thru the demographic lens.

    What was I thinking that personal and civil liberties should be sacred in the country founded on the notion that we should be free from tyranny and equal to each other.

    It is almost as if our country has completely reset to the theocratic rule that died to escape.
  • MVC · 5 months ago
    I am so sick of hearing Administration saying 'but Obama still supports .......'.
    Far too many positions promised can now be used to fill in the blank in the above statement.
  • ms elyse · 5 months ago
    Me too, dude. I am so sick of all of it. I just feel lied to.
  • Jophus · 5 months ago
    How about we apply the DADT policy to medical workers in regards to their view on abortion? If you say you don't want to do it, you loose your career, and no one voices their personal opinion?
  • shell · 5 months ago
    Sadly, there aren't enough abortion workers to worry about. I would suggest something to do with race.
  • Dateline_Molly · 5 months ago
    It's looking like some of those conservative Dems may withhold votes on public option health care if it includes providing for abortions.

    Un-fucking-real. What a backwards country this is.
  • cheetos · 5 months ago
    I can only speak for myself. Access to safe and legal abortion 34 yrs ago offered one of the biggest reliefs of my life. No regrets whatsover then or now.
  • Jophus · 5 months ago
    Obama said he's struggling to reconcile his religious faith with his acceptance of gays and lesbians.

    Sounds similar to Dan Choi struggling to reconcile his patriotic faith with his acceptance of his personality.
  • nokkonwud · 5 months ago
    Do you remember before the Inauguration, when Obama went to the White House to visit Bush? He went alone, and I think he was doppleganged or body-doubled or replaced by a pod person. I think the same thing happened to Liberman and McCain. They were both opponents of Bush and then they got invited to visit him alone and came out totally different.

    It's the only explanation I can think of between the Obama who campaigned and won and the Obama who now serves as President.
  • cay · 5 months ago
    Why could Bush be Bush (pre and post election--except for the isolationist thing), but Obama can't be Obama? He hasn't suffered a gay 9-11 or anything...
  • richard_121211 · 5 months ago
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  • thereason · 5 months ago
    who in the hell enjoys the experience of having or deciding whether to have an abortion? His comments in this regard were spot on.
  • njprogressive · 5 months ago
    i dont see anything wrong with his comments on abortion. abortion should never be taken lightly. i am pretty sure he was referring to birth control in those comments and how catholics frown on it.

    however, his comments on gays and lesbians have been so disappointing and offensive it makes me question his commitment to progressive policies. i feel like i have been duped. that combined with his unwillingness to do anything regarding the banks strangle hold on our law makers. i don't know if he is trying to spread out his "change" platform over his four years, but it is a mistake if that is his position. his recent slip in poll numbers in ohio shows that people are expecting him to hit the ground running and so far he has been a no show. if this is what his presidency is going to be like you can count me out for volunteering and donating again in 2012.
  • BlueJelloElf · 5 months ago
    Plus, it is a RIGHT. That means no one gets to require that women are in the appropriate miserable, penitent state in order to get an abortion. You may think that "it should never be taken lightly" but that's honestly none of your damn business.
  • KarenMrsLloydRichards · 5 months ago
    He's aware, he thinks, that the gays claim to be victimized.

    Not that they actually are.

    Only they "feel" they are.
  • yucca · 5 months ago
    Abortion isn't taken lightly, you twit. No woman relishes going under a local OR a general to have her guts reamed out. And no woman is ever happy to be in the position of an unwanted pregnancy. It's a terrible, frightening, and often soul-twisting place to be.

    But GET OVER IT, will you? Will you stop wringing, wringing your hands over abortion? It's just NOT THAT BIG A DEAL for the vast majority of women who have first-trimester abortions. If your hang-up is that you care about children so much, then focus on foster children, children in poverty, children of alcoholic parents, children who have no public libraries to go to---something relevant to actual human life, children who have real lives, feelings, needs, and dreams and could use some concrete help---not this sentimental claptrap about ending pregnancies.

    But stop obsessing over the fact that unplanned pregnancies constantly happen and WILL happen when high-quality contraception isn't available to the people who need it, or they're guilt-tripped into not using it because they're taught that sex is bad. And it even happens when contraception IS used. That's just life. Women have always had these rotten situations, and they've always, throughout history and prehistory, found ways to cope. Will you get out of their way while they do that, please?

    Just get over all the emotion about it and get straight that abortion rights MUST exist for women to have clear opportunities in life equal to those of men. It's just a fact.

    And in the meantime, stop calling yourself 'njprogressive'. This constant hand-wringing is about as progressive as Obama's ridiculous remark about struggling with his feelings about gays. Feelings, feelings. You know what? I don't care about his feelings or your feelings about these issues any longer. It's utterly narcissistic of Obama to make such a stupid remark. It's not about him! It's about rights. Give me my rights and shut up.
  • Dateline_Molly · 5 months ago
    Well said.

    I'm so tired of people playing this "emotion" card with the abortion "debate."

    Nobody can speak for the millions of women who have abortions about WHY they do it or WHAT they feel about the procedure. It's none of your business! There are as many emotions about it as there are women. Bottom line is it doesn't matter what feelings a woman has about it. IT IS HER BODY AND HER DECISION. So stop with the faux-concern about women's decisions about their bodies. You aren't fooling anybody into believing you "care" about these women or children in general.

    Abortion is a medical procedure; nothing more. I know several women for whom having an abortion was a huge relief and they couldn't wait to get that clump of cells sucked out of them. In fact, one of them went out and celebrated with her girlfriends the next day that it was done.

    I want to know where the "appendectomy" debate is. Why don't people get up in arms about that? Or the "gallbladder debate?" Where is that one? Or the "thyroidectomy" debate? "Nobody wants to have their internal organs ripped from their body." It's funny that we NEVER hear that debate happening.

    Nope, the abortion "debate" comes down to men (and women who oppose abortion) being terrified of women's power. Not just sexual power, but power in general.
  • Dateline_Molly · 5 months ago
    He's not a progressive. He never claimed to be. He's a center right Dem. That was clear from his despicable voting record on the war spending bills and FISA, to name a few.

    But yeah he is losing political capital by the day. Every time he opens his mouth he says something offensive. On the economic stuff, he's completely clueless so it's not even worth listening to him. But abortion and gay rights - horrifying. Does he truly believe that fundie Xtians are going to vote for him in droves in 2012 that it is worth throwing these other constituencies in their entirety?
  • njprogressive · 5 months ago
    not from what he promised on the campaign trail. repealing DADT, DOMA, regulating the banking industry, reforming the health care industry. these are all things that democrats traditionally wont touch. they are progressive policies, and all things that he ran on. we will have to wait and see with health care, but so far he seems to be leaving it entirely up to congress. and rahm emanuel has been nothing but counter productive in my opinion. i think its time to spend some of that political capital obama.
  • Jophus · 5 months ago
    I'm curious how does everyone know it is Rahm? Is there any proof or is it all just speculation and educated guesses? I live just outside Chicago and inside for all practical purposes and I don't know anything concrete. I'm sure I've just not seen it, but everyone is SOOO sure - I think I would have ran across something.
  • Obama Checking Out Girls Butt · 5 months ago
    Italy a picture caught President Obama’s eyes apparently wandering towards a 16-year-old Brazilian girl's butt.
  • faeriedust · 5 months ago
    He's a man for crying outloud. What do ya think, how many men checked out Michelle Obama...
  • watchington · 5 months ago
    I'm calling BULLSHIT on the religious views comment. He's a member of the freaking United Church of Christ. They are as liberal and gay friendly as the Unitarian Unversalists and the Reform Jews!!
  • Indigo · 5 months ago
    Okay fine. Please note that he isn't acting like a gay-friendly liberal.
  • mml34 · 5 months ago
    so your point is that because he's a member of a very liberal church, we should just ignore his associations with rick warren and donnie whatshisface?

    we should just ignore his language--i.e. he's aware that the gays "feel victimized" and wrestles with his "concern and regard" for the gays? his complete lack of action on DADT and his harmful actions re: DOMA?

    we should take comfort cause he belongs to a liberal church? is that the argument? i'd prefer a leader with integrity, thank you very much.

    i think reverend wright is over the top in many of his comments. i certainly don't agree with him and wouldn't have attended a church where such views were spouted.... but then again, obama threw him under the bus long ago, didn't he?

    i recognize the track marks . . .
  • Charlotte · 5 months ago
    I think you're missing his point. He's saying Obama's religious conflict views are BS. Obama never attended church until going to a UCC church. Now granted, Rev. Wright may not be the most typical UCC minister and each church is different. However, one of the tenants of the UCC is that it accepts LGBT people for who they are and that there is nothing wrong with them and that they should be treated with equality and dignity. If his main lesson's of Christianity were learned from a UCC church, then he really wasn't paying attention when it came to this.
  • mml34 · 5 months ago
    no i'm not missing his point. but his point (liberal church) is cold comfort to me when his actions on LGBT issues are no better than GWB's.

    it's a reflection of obama's integrity, character, or lack thereof.
  • Charlotte · 5 months ago
    No kidding, I've been a member of the UCC my entire life and it has always been open and affirming. They were one of the only major religious groups actively fighting to defeat proposition 8 here in California.
  • Jhyder · 5 months ago
    America has been under the grips of hard-line Reich-wing ideology imposed at the federal leval for at least 30 years........Obama has to parse his words carefully and make slow,drawn-out change for it to be effective....I don't like a lot of the "chess-playing" either,but I'm not willing to give up on him after only 6.5 months in office.....the change he is talking about,he is the start of it...we need to stay behind him and make sure he gets a second term and keep growing our progressive mantra so that a Republican douchebag can't come in after 4 years and start turning things backwards...we will never reach our progressive utopia by allowing that to happen....Obama is the start,after his two terms, we need to elect a more progressive democrat into office and keep building from there until we get a Dennis Kucinich or Paul Wellstone-like viable candidate as the president. The only time change occurs overnight it is usually very bad.(read George W. Bush,Ronald Reagan,etc)
  • Jophus · 5 months ago
    I might agree with you if he was just standing still. He has worked to insure that we wiretap, that we harbour war criminals, fire people for being gay, do not allow gay people to marry, hold people in prison and insuring that they don't get the chance to prove their innocence, and so much more.

    I'll be damned if I am going to stand behind a dump-truck when it is beeping. If we don't try and stop it we are either going to get killed or buried in garbage.

    If you get dunked in the river and you float like a fish, you're evil.
  • Jophus · 5 months ago
    You are on radiation/chemo being treated for cancer... The doctor tells you to be patient because a change is coming. Meanwhile your tumor is getting larger, larger, and larger.. Then you get a new growth else wear on your body.

    Would you sit there silent and just hoped that it went away or do you tell your doctor? If he still continues on the same path, do you get a new doctor involved?

    I do.
  • Jhyder · 5 months ago
    I was not talking about Sick-"Care" I was referring to the GLBT civil rights issue,my grandmother died of lung cancer this year(1/16/09) and I totally understand the want for IMMEDIATE change,but;until we have REAL campaign finance reform(which may take a few election cycles), this RABID Reich-wing media will destroy us and we won't achieve our goals.......I really hate it,how stupid our populace is,but I love my country,am too broke to leave and have no "marketable skills" to even be allowed in a country I would actually thrive in or want to escape to...so I will stay and fight for Progressive change....WILL YOU JOIN ME,OR PULL A PALIN?
  • Jophus · 5 months ago
    Personally? I am here for 10 years until I go abroad and help with the global aids crisis (unless it is over then).

    Personally I am here to gain ground on progressive issues and I will not compromise key issues. I will not stand for retreat, which frankly, sounds like what you are calling for. You can say you are progressive, but you do not sit down to take a break while pushing a boulder uphill.

    When a public poll reads over 70% in favor of progress, you have a super majority, and control 2/3 of the federal government you do not take a break, and you certainly do not loose ground.

    Sorry to hear about your loss. Cancer is a tragedy.

    Edit: I've been inspired by metaphors and similes from all the recent Palin coverage. Deal with it. You don't shoot the ball when there is a fish in the river.
  • Polly_Tics · 5 months ago
    Whereas fighting for what you believe in is the very essence of what makes our country great, there are times when we all must learn to compromise. No retreat, no compromise, no deal.

    Frankly, I would rather have a great debate in working towards whatever goal is set, while keeping in mind that "you can't always get (everything) you want".
  • Jophus · 5 months ago
    Well said. I agree. I would rather have a great debate as well. That is a compromise I'm willing to have. The thing is having a serious national debate on the subject seems to be like another achievement we have to claw tooth and nail for.

    I will do everything in my personal power to bordering on the irrational (but mostly legal) to keep the movement from retreating. As long as we don't move backwards, I'm not crazy.
  • Brad · 5 months ago
    If a woman is found to be carrying her own fetal twin embedded in her abdomen, should she keep it or kill it?
  • Polly_Tics · 5 months ago
    Brad,

    You ask this question as if there is merely only one answer. For goodness sake, each and every case has numerous answers and it is for the woman (and man) to discern what is right for them.

    Now one more point, what the heck are you talking about?
  • Jophus · 5 months ago
    If you happen to pick up the living organism narcotizing fasciitis should you take antibiotics?

    If you don't pass the ball after eating fish from the river, you will float upstream.
  • Polly_Tics · 5 months ago
    You know, that comment sounded like something from "Alice Through the Looking Glass".
  • Jophus · 5 months ago
    I played with a few of those mixed metaphors palin was using in her press conference on the 3rd in a couple of my posts when I was getting extra anxious to go to sleep.

    "Only a dead fish floats down stream"
    'What ever she was saying about passing the ball in basketball'

    I wish I could write like L. Carol. It would be like a non-stop mind blowjob.
  • Jophus · 5 months ago
    It was supposed to read necrotizing fasciitis, by the way.
  • faeriedust · 5 months ago
    I do Believe Women has the right to terminate their pregnacy; gays and lesbians have the right to be together, get married, have children etc.

    We do not have a Church running this country, we have the President and Congress doing that and getting everything F**ked-up, BTW.

    Obama has to express this moreso, because the Gays and Lesbian did however voted for him, He needs to get rid of DADT. I understand that most states have the gay marriage law in effect, where they can marry and most states should reconize that they are married.

    Women who gets an abortion, majority do so, because of an illness, financial, and some uses this as a birth control, now the later is stupid though. I may not have had one, but I knew people who did, and yes they feel a sense of emptiness, but they knew it was for the best.
  • ademendoza · 5 months ago
    So basically, President Obama has said that he is struggling with his internal homophobia. Although it's based on religious grounds, specifically Christianist, he is cleartly stating that he is a homophobe. Addedly, he is admitting that he made promises during the campaign with respect to gay rights that he never truly believed in his heart. I guess the gay ATM causes temporary anti-homophobia during the tough times in a presidential campaign.

    I guess we'll have to wait for him to go through some cathartic "change we can believe in" until he has come around to "feeling" like we deserve to be treated as equals.

    I love the man as much as any progressive but this is interesting at best, scary at worst!!!
  • watchington · 5 months ago
    I am calling BULLSHIT on the statement about his "religious views" being at odds with gay civil rights in any way.

    HE IS A MEMBER OF THE UNITED CHURCH OF CHRIST.
    THE UNITED CHURCH OF CHRIST BACKS AND HOLDS GAY MARRIAGES!!!
    http://www.nytimes.com/2005/07/05/national/05ch...
  • superstition · 5 months ago
    Not only that... I'm 1996 he ran in full marriage equality. He said multiple times that he "unequivocally" supported same-sex marriage recognition.

    He's just giving us another heap of BS.
  • Grrrowler · 5 months ago
    I had really hoped that Obama was not the usual politician and that he would do what he promised: act upon the promises that got him elected. Instead he seems to be going in a very different direction and doesn't seem to worry that he's alienating some core groups from his fan base.

    Oh well...disillusionment has become rather comfortable so I guess I shouldn't complain.
  • Butch1 · 5 months ago
    " Ah, Barack, we hardly knew ye."
  • superstition · 5 months ago
    While he could be seen as gently criticizing the aggressive homophobia of the Catholic Church in that statement, he also fails to point out that a person's bigoted religious views have NO PLACE in our laws.

    We have a little thing called the 1st Amendment.
  • superstition · 5 months ago
    People need to hold Obama accountable to the Constitution.

    If people were to follow the Constitution, as written, right now... There would be no DOMA. There would be full federal marriage equality.

    There would be no laws that discriminate against us.
  • superstition · 5 months ago
    I forgot to include the main point.

    By neglecting to point out that theocratic law is unconstitutional, he justifies the heterosexist/homophobic legal efforts of the Catholic Church.

    This is because he presents the issue as an arbitrary personal matter -- as if the Constitutional rights of gay people are to be decided on personal whims. He justifies the theocratic aggression of the Church by completely ignoring our citizenship.
  • superstition · 5 months ago
    He's talking out of both sides of his mouth, basically.