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AMERICAblog: Schwarzenegger: Mormon/religious right gay marriage ban is just like banning blacks and whites from marrying

  • dad · 1 year ago
    prop h8
  • dad · 1 year ago
    preaching collective hate fills the collection plate
  • dad · 1 year ago
    mormons ate the prop hate bait
  • dad · 1 year ago
    a purpose driven lie
  • nctodc · 1 year ago
    Welcome to the Party, Governor. Would've been nice to hear strong language from you...I dunno...before the vote.
  • LangdonAlger · 1 year ago
    I would prefer a mirror of the 1967 case over the 1948 one.
  • smiling_dog · 1 year ago
    I have a feeling that Arnold will become the face of the new Republican Party.
  • RainbowPhoenix · 1 year ago
    Not being able to run for president will put a kink in that.
  • Chrissy · 1 year ago
    I don't know about Arnold being the new face of the Republican party. The wingnuts hate him because he got rid of them after the 2nd year of his Govenorship after a ton of bad advice.
  • moron · 1 year ago
    Nice of him to mention it in such a timely fashion and all.
  • bignames · 1 year ago
    i suggest that we as a group nationwide make it a point to boycott anything and any one that had a hand in this. maybe we should all NOT e spendign money in utah or mormon owned businesses. such as marriott! the power s in our purses, but we need to remember that!
  • tbhull · 1 year ago
    Though perhaps morally repugnant and from a purely normative point of view law classifications based on sexual orientation simply do not enjoy the same Constitutional protections/are not subject to the same strict scrutiny under the US Constitution given current jursiprudence as do race based classifications. California's state Constitution may provide otherwise.
  • Steve_in_CNJ · 1 year ago
    that was one of the highlights of the california court decision: sexual orientation creates a 'suspect class' just like race, according to the decision.
  • tbhull · 1 year ago
    I do not know California law, the deciding law, but I like the arguments I hear in light of the California Supreme Court decision earlier that sparked Prop 8.
  • Topher · 1 year ago
    I agree. I think it is a rather strong argument. And Steve is correct-the marriage case designated gays and lesbians as a suspect class.
  • tbhull · 1 year ago
    It will be exceptionally enjoyable watching states rights fundies try to undo this one if the California Supremes strike this down on purely state law grounds.
  • LeftCoastOracle · 1 year ago
    It does. Gays are a protected class in CA but you wouldn't know it right now.
  • Steve_in_CNJ · 1 year ago
    if you take him at his word, it was always a pet project of Schwarzenegger's to get gay marriage before the state supreme court (that's ostensibly why he vetoed the legislation in 2005). notice he is still saying the court will have the last word. i think he might be sincere. his chief of staff is a lesbian, and who knows what kind of conjugal pressure maria is applying.
  • Topher · 1 year ago
    I remember this as well. Actually, I remember being frustrated then over his veto because he felt it was an issue "for the courts" right when the "activist judges" meme was hitting hard. At least he is consistent.
  • LeftCoastOracle · 1 year ago
    Or a wuss. He's only willing to speak up after we lost. I can't forgive the veto.
  • edanajo · 1 year ago
    Please do not boycott Utah. 40 percent of Utah is non-mormon and 60 percent of Salt Lake City is non-mormon. If you boycot Utah you'll be punishing all of us and all of the homosexuals who have really suffered here in Utah. Instead, if you want to do something, please come here and visit. Bigoted people are afraid of what they don't understand. The more people who come here and show themselves for who and what they are, the more people here will learn to accept differences. Please come for all the people who've been excommunicated by the Church and shunned by their families. Come show your face in support. It's also a nice place to visit - believe it or not. Great skiing and great red-rock deserts. There are hot springs and beautiful Lake Powell. I just moved here from Seattle and I love it - all except for the bigots.
  • MGBYG · 1 year ago
    Feel for ya, but I suffered a decade in Mesa, AZ...the second home to the LDS. (Google: Lehi, Mormon, Mesa ).

    From my experience, the exact opposite happens: Different ways of life reassure the LDS community how right they are and how wicked the outside is. Brainwashed sheep that deep in trance are beyond cult stage...the elders are the law.

    Otherwise, Mesa just another suburban shit-hole full of Targets and Applebee's plus the added benefit of pale-skinned bigots driving Suburbans that they euphemistically called a BMW for Big Mormon Wagon.
  • edanajo · 1 year ago
    Sorry, for your bad experiences in Mesa. I've had some really good debates with Mormons about homosexuality and the roles of women. It's pretty easy to point out their flawed logic - so eventually they start to come around or at least get that - I'm so confused and frustrated look on their faces - that they look like they're going to explode. Someone shoud set up gay missionaries that go door to door and hand out pamphlets on real-life homosexual stories:-) They understand door-to door sales. Or else we could drop a bunch of fliers from an airplane - like they did in Vietnam. It is a propaganda war afterall. Anyway - I don't think it's easy to live here - but it is easy to visit.
  • Chrissy · 1 year ago
    I feel for you buddy. But, I lived in Utah in the late 80s to mid-90s. It isn't going to change. The only thing to do with the Mormons in Utah is to embarrasses the hell out of them. Expose them for what they are: duped bigots.

    The problem with some sort of buycott is that the mormons benefit from that.

    Creeps me out how they hate gays with a smile.
  • LeftCoastOracle · 1 year ago
    I think you may be onto something: door-to-door sales. I'd be up for it.
  • An_American_Karol · 1 year ago
    Most gays don't have fifty years to change "the hearts and minds" of the Mormon bigots.
    Maybe next time the Mormons won't be in such a hurry to take the rights from a group of people.
  • edanajo · 1 year ago
    My grandmother worked more than fifty years as a feminist and worked every day of her life to change the hearts and minds of sexists. Many African American leaders and regular people have been working more than fifty years to change the hearts and minds of bigots all over this country. I'm not even gay and I've already written about 15 letters and participated in a protest here in Salt Lake City. If you boycott Utah - I'm here - others are here - and you are going to make us suffer - because you are too lazy to come here yourself and show your face at the Temple grounds like I did last Friday and like I've done on guided tours there asking tough questions and standing up for you.
  • LeftCoastOracle · 1 year ago
    I appreciate your support greatly but please do not call us lazy because we choose to stay here in CA and march and picket the LDS churches here. It is important that the church get the message in every state and, although a boycott may have an economic impact on our friends, it may be the only way to get the message across to a church that presumes to insert itself into the governance of another state; denying its citizens their civil rights.

    I hope you will continue to support us because we need all the help we can get.
  • LeftCoastOracle · 1 year ago
    I disagree. The only way Utahans can take back their state is to COME OUT and educate LDS members. It won't be easy because brainwashing is hard to combat, but when a church in your state invades another state to change its constitution to deny people their civil rights, the only remedy may be a boycott. Sorry if it hurts 40% of the state but perhaps they could step up to the plate and demand that the other 60% get a clue.

    I used to be in sales (many years ago) and had to fly into Salt Lake City about 4X/year. I would fly in early in the morning and back out by end of day because I could not let myself stay overnight in SLC.
  • azcavalier · 1 year ago
    "I would fly in early in the morning and back out by end of day because I could not let myself stay overnight in SLC."

    Oh, you're SOOOO tolerant of others and their beliefs. You're an absolute model of what we should all be.

    Utahns take back their state? Are you serious? You do know that until Mormons settled Utah in the mid 1800's, it was a desert, right? It's because of the Mormons that Utah even IS a state!
  • LeftCoastOracle · 1 year ago
    I don't tolerate anybody. I either accept them or try to avoid them. Refusing to spend money in a city where I am not welcome is not intolerant, it is just smart.

    So, you wouldn't be willing to "take back your state" if it were returned to its original condition? Not even if it meant you were rid of such a powerful force of ignorance, intolerance and hatred? I sincerely hope you'll consider the destructive consequences of supporting such a scourge economically.
  • RIPWAMU · 1 year ago
    Then how about the 60% of non-mormons stand up for the civil rights of ALL American citizens AND protect the U.S. Constitution while they are at it?
  • chandler_in_lasvegas · 1 year ago
    What a fucking asshole. He could have signed gay marriage into law but he chose to veto it saying that he wanted it to pass by judicial action or public plebiscite. It passed by judicial action and was defeated by public plebiscite and now the asshole is placing the blame when he could have had the balls to decide it himself. Fuck the fucking Republicans that think they can have it both ways. Fuck you Ahhhhhnold, you AIN'T a Kennedy.
  • LeftCoastOracle · 1 year ago
    If I were religious I would say amen.
  • MGBYG · 1 year ago
    Well, a Kennedy let him back into the bedroom since Obama won...maybe he is on a very short leash for now.

    Stand up for what is right Arnold...(you got it in you, somewhere inside that steroid shell.)
  • balafre · 1 year ago
    I much prefer this statement, however belated, to "the voters have spoken, get over it," which would not at all have surprised me, since it *is* Arnold, afterall.
  • LeftCoastOracle · 1 year ago
    I agree. It looks as if folks have forgotten that Ahnold vetoed a bill guaranteed gay marriage.
  • ChrisSF · 1 year ago
    Amen. There was zero political benefit for Arnold by doing this. Good for him.
  • EllaDisenchanted · 1 year ago
    Saw the cutest ad for Utah Skiing the other day...only the best flakes get to go to Utah. Yeah, that about sums it up.

    Too bad too...I was considering the less expensive Utah to CO. No way.
  • edanajo · 1 year ago
    Chicken! See below for why you should come to Utah. I dare you to go on a temple grounds tour and ask the guide in front of a bunch of mormons about their policies of excommunicating gay people and why they think homosexuals should not have the same rights as everyone else. I did.
    BTW Colorado has tons of Mormons too.
  • Gary SF · 1 year ago
    Concern troll. Mormon pretending to be something else. Lying creeps.
  • An_American_Karol · 1 year ago
    Schwarzenegger, since getting smacked down by the voters in his special election, has been a good governor. He strikes me as a fiscal conservative and a social liberal.
    Upon reflection, the win on prop 8 might force the courts to make a final decision and open the flood gates for gay marriage throughout the U.S.
    I am proud of Schwarzenegger for making a dangerous career move in coming out for gay marriage.
  • LeftCoastOracle · 1 year ago
    I, too, am pleased that our governor made this statement, however, when our state legislature passed a bill guaranteeing gays the right to marry he vetoed it. He claimed he wanted to "leave it to the courts." Don't know where that came from; perhaps to avoid losing his right wing.

    Bottom line, I would be a lot more pleased if he had spoken up before the election. As for "making a dangerous career move," he cannot run for governor again in California (term limits) and if you're suggesting he might run for senate (and he might) it's difficult to see how he could lose because he supported gay marriage in this state.
  • tangodaddy · 1 year ago
    If you want to win on this issue quit calling it Gay Marriage and start refering to this as cival union rights. That will take it out of religious community persuasion and make it an issue of liberties and before the courts which are infinately more secular and fair.
  • Gary SF · 1 year ago
    No, it won't make any difference to those who hate. The Campaign for California Families, a nonprofit conservative group, filed suit today fight the suits against same-sex marriage. They also sued the state more than once, trying to make domestic partnerships and ANY OTHER LEGAL RECOGNITION OF SAME-SEX PARTNERS ILLEGAL.
  • RIPWAMU · 1 year ago
    Why don't they put their money and efforts into helping the hungry and homeless or put their efforts into rebuilding our hurricane ravaged regions.
  • Topher · 1 year ago
    I agree with you, but the problem is that the issue is about marriage rights. California already has civil union rights, however separate and unequal they may be from marriage rights, which were taken away by Prop 8. You are correct, that the distinction between a civil marriage and a religious marriage is very real. The former bringing all of the legal rights and responsibilities of creating a family unit, and the latter only having religious or social significance. More importantly, religious marriage is beyond the scope of law--a point of information our side lost on severely in this fight.
  • LeftCoastOracle · 1 year ago
    You don't seem to understand that "separate but equal is inherently unequal."
  • Gary SF · 1 year ago
    There is other good news:

    More than one-third of California's lawmakers added their voices Monday to the chorus calling on the state's highest court to overturn the prohibition on same-sex marriage approved by voters last week.

    Forty-four members of the California Legislature filed a friend-of-the-court brief in support one of the three lawsuits seeking to invalidate Proposition 8. The case, brought on behalf of gay couples who have not yet married, argues the ban should be tossed out because voters did not have the authority to make such a dramatic change in state law.

    http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?f=/n/...
  • green_libertarian · 1 year ago
    They only got a third of the legislature to file? Not good.
  • DeppFan · 1 year ago
    Connecticut got it right.

    "Voters Protect Gay Marriage"
    http://www.stamfordadvocate.com/opinion/ci_1093...
  • dad · 1 year ago
    'cept for their senators

    dudd
  • scottinsf · 1 year ago
    Let's just say that I've got some outspoken neighbors.

    hehe
  • DAWillmore · 1 year ago
    Thanks for the Boycott in Utah. Now I can take my family there and enjoy the peace and quiet.
  • Gary SF · 1 year ago
    Yeah, Utah is such a boisterous place - NOT. Why do you Mormons pretend to be something else on these blogs? Isn't lying and deception against your religion? Oh, I forgot - your religion is based upon the lies of one man and the mass delusion that accepts these lies. Why don't you go marry your cousin or something?
  • Chrissy · 1 year ago
    "Isn't lying and deception against your religion?"

    It appears its an unwritten tenant of their religion to lie. They lied about Barrack's support of Prop 8. They lied about gay marriage causing Doctors to be unable to discriminate against lesbians (that was a whopper).

    Other lies they tell is about one of their scriptures, The Book of Abraham. Joseph Smith supposedly translated from some Egypitian Papyri he purchased. He claimed it was a lost book written by the Prophet Abraham in Egypt. In 1966 the papyri were rediscovered in one of the vault rooms of the New York’s metropolitan Museum of Art. When modern egyptolgist translated it -- not one word was correct. The story is from The Book of the Dead.

    They lie about their past racism.
  • EarthquakeWeather · 1 year ago
    Thanks Arnie. Would have been better if you said this before the election, but we'll take it.

    Jasmyne Cannick had a great op ed in the LATimes Saturday (maybe it was Friday) about how the gay leaders made no effort to reach out to blacks. She also said this on NPR's Talk of the Nation today; gay leaders need to go back to the drawing board and stop assuming blacks will automatically be on their side if they don't make the case to them in a way that works.
  • LeftCoastOracle · 1 year ago
    Actually, although the Governor made a strong statement on our behalf in this interview, it seems that Rex has forgotten that our state legislature passed a bill to make same sex marriage legal and he vetoed it. He claimed that he wanted to "leave it to the courts." I have not idea where that came from except perhaps an unwillingness to buck his right wing.

    I hope you realize that during his first term he put some pretty regressive initiatives on the ballot (the state leg. wouldn't approve them) and spent millions of our tax dollars to present them in a SPECIAL ELECTION. Of course the voters pounded them into the ground. After that he admitted that Maria (Shriver, his wife) had warned him what would happen and acknowledged that she was right. Since that time he has taken a more middle of the road approach - except for the above mentioned veto.

    I tried to post this on Rex's "blog" but it doesn't seem to offer the opportunity for comments. How can you call that a blog?
  • LeftCoastOracle · 1 year ago
    I've got an idea. Let's put an initiative on the ballot to outlaw same sect marriage. Maybe if two Mormons can't marry we'll be rid of them in a generation or two.
  • therepguy · 1 year ago
    Might it be that Schwarzenegger himself has had it with the right wing, christian fashist?

    Why not every thinking American has...
  • Bush_Bites · 1 year ago
    He always pretends he's had it to cover his ass with the California voters.

    But every four years he goes to the Repub Convention and acts like a Wingnut.
  • Bostonian_Queer_in_Dallas · 1 year ago
    Go rent the PBS thing on the Mormons. Their history and their roots are nothing short of Jonestown shit. Jesus walked the Americas for three years? Magic underwear? Polygamy? Preparing twelve year old girls to be fucked by old farts of 60? How anyone with any half a brain could remain a Mormon after the age of 18 is truly baffling. I work with a convert to LDS. A very nice person and respects my private life but he says some truly fucked up shit sometimes. I just smile and say "well whatever makes you happy because in America you are free to believe in the Tooth Fairy if that helps you." The LDS should be taxed like a corporation now. They meddled in politics too directly on this one.
  • azcavalier · 1 year ago
    You're kidding, right? Did you even pay attention to that "documentary"?

    First off, I can't believe that you're wanting to discuss someone's underwear in a public forum.

    Secondly, you think that Gay Marriage is okay, but you're against Polygamy? On what grounds? That it's morally reprehensible? If Gay Marriage ever passes, Polygamy (which is currently illegal BECAUSE Mormons used to practice it over a century ago and it was made illegal with the goal of being able to arrest and imprision the Church's leaders) is the next legal battle.

    And the whole 12 year old girl thing is NOT the Mormon Church. Those are offshoot religions that broke with the Mormons a LONG time ago. They have some of the same fundamental beliefs, but couldn't give up the polygamy thing when the Church stopped practicing it in the 1800's.

    And, of course, like ANY group (religious, ethnic, regional, national, gender, etc) the Church has it's share of weirdos. Don't judge a Church because of what one person says, which may or may not be in line with Church beliefs and teachings.
  • RIPWAMU · 1 year ago
    The issue here is the "one man, one woman" definition, not "one man, as many women as he chooses" definition.
  • azcavalier · 1 year ago
    Two things:

    1. If you think that's how polygamy worked, then you have no idea what you're talking about. It was always mutual, and by choice of BOTH parties, including the first wife. If she said no, then no it was. It was never forced.

    2. How could you possibly be FOR gay marriage, but against bigamy or polygamy? On what grounds?
  • Donna_Q · 1 year ago
    The polygamy argument fails because state recognition of marriage carries with it state responsibility for overseeing dissolution of marriage, at TAXPAYER EXPENSE. Binary same-sex unions can be dissolved in the courts at no greater cost than binary heterosexual unions. Dissolution of polygamous marriages, however, can easily turn into a wildly expensive, resource-gobbling judicial mess. Think about it. The questions of custody, visitation and division of property among who knows how many people can be mind-boggling. Who are the proper parties when you have 40 spouses and 200 children? Some will want to leave, others will want to stay. How do you sort out individual rights and interests in this situation? Who is going to enforce the 800-page decree? How many times can a single polygamous unit pass through the divorce courts?

    My point is that there is a compelling state interest in not recognizing polygamous marriages, that does not exist with respect to binary same-sex marriages. It will monopolize scarce judicial resources, require extensive new governing legislation, and will cost the taxpayers too much damn money. Enjoy your happy marital pig piles, but don't expect us to foot the bill when it all goes sour.
  • azcavalier · 1 year ago
    To be completely honest, that's the FIRST good argument i've heard so far. Well done. But since when does the government ever decide against something because of how much money it would cost? I mean, they decided to try to build a border fence in Arizona that's gonna cost billions and not do jack. No, that would make too much sense.
  • Donna_Q · 1 year ago
    I'm not saying that we couldn't create a huge and expensive judicial apparatus to handle polygamous divorce if we wanted to, I'm just saying that under the "compelling state interest" exception, the burden this would place on finite judicial resources that need to be available to one and all means that we are not required to do so. An individual's equal protection or due process interests are sometimes outweighed by compelling state interests. Outsize costs that could be significantly deleterious to everyone else's interest in obtaining just and speedy resolution of their own legal problems is, in my book, one of those compelling, countervailing state interests.

    And thank you so much for your respectful and intellectually honest response. These discussions can get so ugly, so quickly.
  • RIPWAMU · 1 year ago
    First of all, you are putting words into my statement that were not there. That is how many groups/individuals want state or even federal amendments to read - CONSTITUTIONAL amendments in some case - "one man, one woman".

    Again, the main issue that those opposed are saying is it should be "one man, one woman". So, polygamy really isn't the issue since that is "one man, how ever many women".

    i did not trounce on the Mormon beliefs, I trounced on them getting involved with something that A) they spread misinformation about and 2) butting into other people's lives in the first place.
  • azcavalier · 1 year ago
    No, I didn't. You said "One Man, however many women HE chooses" with the clear intent that it's totally up to a man how many women he gets in a plural marriage, which quite simply wasn't the case.

    And the point of polygamy is that it is the next step after allowing gay marriage. If gay marriage is made legal, then some nut is going to bring up his/her right to have as many spouses as they choose.

    And by claiming that the Church spreads misinformation is indeed trouncing on our beliefs and is nothing less than slander. I can see the argument about supposedly "butting into other people's lives", but by denying the Church or it's members it's freedoms to express their opinions and vote, then you would be denying THEIR constitutional rights as well.
  • RIPWAMU · 1 year ago
    Oh my. I can see how you might read that incorrectly. A man, under polygamy, can choose to have one wife or he can choose to have multiple wives. I did not mean to convey that a specific woman didn't have the right to say no. Obviously, those who practice polygamy have more than one wife and more than one woman has chosen to marry him.

    What does it matter if gay marriage leads to polygamy? As long as it doesn't directly affect me or my taxes don't go to support gobs of children then I don't care. Why should you?

    Freedom to express opinions is valid - as long as it is not done untruthfully in an effort to hurt another group of people. THAT my friend is slander. The platform used in California was full of misinformation and outright lies. That is not fair.

    And one more thing. Homosexuality is not a choice, it is science/genetics. Homosexuality goes back as far as time and has been interwoven in ALL religous factions because it is science/genetics.
  • Bostonian_Queer_in_Dallas · 1 year ago
    You're a cult...get over it.
  • azcavalier · 1 year ago
    Hey, any Church is a cult, because we actually LIVE our believes. But we're not blind, mindless, kool-aid drinking followers. I love it....if you have strong beliefs and live them, you're a cult. If you don't, then your'e a hypocrite.

    I have NO problem with my beliefs. Heck, I have no problem with YOUR beliefs. But you'll never see me preach against it or attack you for it. And I'll certainly never put out false "documentaries" about your beliefs either.
  • Bostonian_Queer_in_Dallas · 1 year ago
    Religion is the opiate of the masses.
  • Tyke · 1 year ago
    Ah, now it's clear. You have no problem allowing anyone else the BELIEFS

    ... but not their basic rights.

    got it

    thanks for clarifying.

    Perhaps your church should have left off the false ads along with false documentaries? They seem to be just a longer or shorter version of false.
  • kevinbgoode · 1 year ago
    Apparently you don't understand the state's role in determining marriage rights. Of course that doesn't stop the Church from trying to impose religious tyranny upon people of other faiths...and of no faith. But then, that's part and parcel of being Mormon, isn't it? To engage in recruitment, and, when that fails, to impose doctrine by constitution upon those who refuse to believe.

    The governments interests in limiting polygamy are very well spelled out. Now why is it that an entire religion can wage an incredibly campaign in state after state about the definition of civil marriage and yet know nothing about the subject?
  • azcavalier · 1 year ago
    Oh please. Yes, we're trying to legislate Mormonism since we can't you willingly! It's an evil plot! Use some common sense. The Church has made two political stances (non-partisan, I might add) in the last 40 years. It made a statement about the ERA, and it made a statement about this. I would hardly call that imposing doctrine by constitution upon those who refuse to believe. The church is being responsible in what it does, and is being true to it's own beliefs. The church takes marriage VERY seriously. You honestly can't expect it to sit back and NOT fight for what it believes is moral, right, and very crucial to society, do you? Really?

    The government allowed Mormons to be killed and driven from state to state, having their lands seized and their civil rights trounced upon without lifting a finger. So, the Mormons LEFT civilized areas to keep to themselves. It is HISTORY and FACT that the laws against polygamy were passed to arrest the Church leaders at the time who had more than one wife, because those who had the law passed knew that those men would never divorce or leave their wives and families to comply with the law. The law still exists because the Church stopped the practice when it became law. Talk about a government impinging on a religion and their beliefs.
  • captvegas · 1 year ago
    Why don't you pussies have the guts to go after the voting block(s) that got this proposition passed? Oh, I know, because you're a bunch of hypocritical losers who are seeking the easiest target. You know it wouldn't look very nice for a bunch of white gay people to storm black and latino churches, so you piss and moan about Mormons. How about you spineless pussies call for a boycott on hip-hop and tourism to Mexico. If you're going to generalize and punish a region of the country because of the people that live there, let's say you can't go to Atlanta or San Antonio either.

    Why don't you people on this blog just admit that you are filled with the same hate and venom that you claim to despise. Look at the pathetic comments on this "article" if you need any proof.

    No, I'm not Mormon, and I couldn't give a rat's ass if any of you losers on here believe me or not. I am from Utah originally, and to boycott the ski areas; where hardly any of the residents are A.) Mormon B.) from the fucking state to begin with, shows how stupid all of you people who follow this blog are.
  • RIPWAMU · 1 year ago
    "You people", "hypocritical losers", "spineless pussies", "pathetic comments", "stupid" are all hate oriented words. You are rather transparent with your bias. Go on over to Fox and spew your intolerance over there.

    You obviously do not know why the Mormon church is being protested on this board or the various other avenues of protest that are being discussed.
  • captvegas · 1 year ago
    I don't need to go over to Fox, there are plenty of examples of the hate you claim to despise right here. Just because Mormons are not like you, they are fair game, right? It seems like there's another group that is persecuted for being different.....hmmm, maybe that's why I use the word hypocritical.

    The failure of the gay community to rip into the black and latino communities, who voted for this proposition overwhelmingly, shows you lack a spine. You won't go to the Cavalry Baptist Church because you are intimidated, just admit it. Instead you target the Mormon temple workers that are typically well over 70 years of age.

    I know damn well why the Mormon church is being eviscerated here. They asked their members to support a measure that is in-line with beliefs that they consider holy. They brought in a lot of money from out of state by way of individual donors. However, there are an estimated 490,000 Mormons in CA, how many people voted for the measure??? Maybe you mental midgets should focus on combating the people that hate you just because you're gay, rather than a church that is just trying to protect what they believe is a sacred ritual.
  • RIPWAMU · 1 year ago
    Do you know what happens when you ASSUME? I am not gay for your information. I am straight.

    There is a difference between boycotting and intolerance. The Mormon church, which is non-profit, should not be donating millions of dollars in a political campaign. If they wish to blur the lines then their non-profit status should be revoked. I have worked for many non-profits and their stance was very clear - as a non-profit the only "politicing" they do is related to program funding or direct legislation for themselves.

    In my OPINION, these protests wouldn't even be necessary if religious groups stayed out of government and CONSTITUTIONAL matters. They don't want others to judge them, so what gives them the right to judge others? You yourself stand there in judgment of a group of people whose beliefs differ from yours. What gives you that right?

    The hypocrisy I see is in your last paragraph.
  • RIPWAMU · 1 year ago
    Additionally, I am not scared or intimidated by the Calvary Baptist Church or any other person/group for that matter.

    I am a person who practices tolerance to all. I also am disappointed that other cultural groups did not choose to allow people to live their lives as they wish. However, African Americans and Latinos are also strong religious followers in which their religion also denounces homosexuality.

    I was baptised Catholic, the most hypocritical of all organized religions in my opinion, which is why I do not practice organized religion. I believe in tolerance to ALL. God and I are good. I don't need to go to a building and put money in a coffer to have a relationship with him. The Catholic church is full of closeted gays, pedophiles, and sexual offenders.
  • azcavalier · 1 year ago
    I think that the word tolerance has been redefined here recently. Instead of love, it has come to mean 'condone' – acceptance of wrongful behavior as the price of friendship...today’s politically palatable definition insists that unless one accepts the sin he does not tolerate the sinner. Any church that believes that God is absolute and perfect also agrees that He is unchanging (for to change would insinuate that He was wrong, and therefore, not perfect), and as such should never really change it's moral stances because of "the times" and what is popular in society. If it was considered morally wrong then, it still is today. Tolerance means opening your arms and loving the people, regardless of belief or action. It does NOT mean accepting what they do as being OK.
  • in · 1 year ago
    Well said!
  • Topher · 1 year ago
    With all due respect, I highly doubt any gay or lesbian person is looking for your tolerance. I'll speak for myself, however, when I say that what you think of me is only a concern to me when you use it as a baisis to deny/revoke my constitutional rights. Otherwise, I couldn't really care less if you think I am a sinner. And, lucky for me, I don't have to wait around for you to "condone" my existence in order to secure my rights!
  • ChrisSF · 1 year ago
    If God is absolute and unchanging, why doesn't that mean all religions other than your own should be banned? Why does tolerance include "condoning" the "wrongful behavior" of people practicing false religions but doesn't include allowing people to marry those they love? Where do you draw that line and why? Let's go further. If God is absolute and perfect, why not scrap the Constitution and replace it with God's law as you understand it to be? Hey, if you know what's best for everyone, then why not? What I am getting at is that no one has a monopoly on moral and religious truth. If we all were a bit more humble about that, we'd be much better off. And if we approached things that way, I think we could agree that whether to marry a person of the same sex or the opposite sex is something that really ought to be left up to the individual and his or her own feelings and beliefs.
  • in · 1 year ago
    You "believe in tolerance to All"? Hmmm... interesting. I'm so sorry that your experience in the Catholic church has made you so bitter. Hatred gets you no where, you won't win.
  • Webster · 1 year ago
    You better take that "hatred gets you nowhere" message back to your church.
  • RIPWAMU · 1 year ago
    Hatred? Not even close. Bitter? Not here. I live my life through education and knowledge. Open mindedness allows me to see ALL sides to an argument and then decide what is best for me. My statements regarding the hypocrisy of the Catholic religion are actual facts, not assumptions.

    What is it that people fear so much with the gay community or them being married? How does it really affect their life? It doesn't and that is what is so sad.
  • captvegas · 1 year ago
    How can anonymous blog posters do anything but ASSUME? It doesn't matter whether you're gay or not, it matters that you are in favor of demonizing a particular church, out of the hundreds that supported Prop 8, because they are different. You're also in favor of boycotting a state? WTF is wrong you people (not gay people, americablog readers people)?

    You want to know something funny? I voted against Prop. 8, and I agree with you. The state should recognize all couples who have the desire to be married. My one and only issue is with the hate filled attacks on the Mormon church; especially when they are being singled out like this. They didn't advocate this amendment because they hate gay people, they consider eternal marriage/family as one of the tenants of their religion. They also have every right to encourage members to vote for measures such as this. Just as a church or other non-profit group that was ardently opposed to Prop.8 had every right to voice their opinion.

    If someone will protest at the LA temple, their next stop should be their local latino dominated Catholic church, then on to the Baptist church, etc. It's that simple. If you believe that strongly, get some balls and go stand up to ALL the groups that got this passed.
  • RIPWAMU · 1 year ago
    Much of the frustration has to do with the church providing so much of the funding against the gay community as well as all the misinformation that was given to voters.

    I am more in favor of removing their tax exempt status than boycotting them. And I don't just feel that way about the Mormon church, I believe that any church who gets involved in trouncing the rights of Americans should have their tax exempt status revoked.

    I think those millions of dollars putting their noses into someone else's life could have been spent taking care of children, homeless, etc. Doing what is generally known as the work of the church.

    I am sick and tired of religious entities telling others who they can marry, what they should believe in, who they should "hate", what they can do with their body, etc.
  • captvegas · 1 year ago
    Fine, as long as you are in favor of the same punishment for the non-profit groups opposed to Prop. 8. Good bye tax exempt status for GLAAD, etc., good bye!
  • kevinbgoode · 1 year ago
    Sorry...but they don't engage in acts of religious tyranny. The LDS and its allies directly engaged in a campaign to constitutionally remove the legal rights of 18,000 married couples in California. . .and as far as I know, none of them were married in any of those denominations supporting Prop H8. The Church willingly engaged in a propaganda campaign of deliberate falsehoods to not only forcibly end those marriages, but to attack their churches and their right to worship according to the Constitution.
    The exercise was a campaign to impose religious tyranny over a minority by removing their constitutional rights and their right to worship according to their conscience. Given the LDS's record of disrespect for the religious beliefs of others, this is certainly not the same kind of issue as a lobbying group.
  • azcavalier · 1 year ago
    What is the "record of disrespect for the religious beliefs of others" that the Mormon Church is being accused of? Do you even know about the Mormon Church's own history?

    And let's get this straight. It is not, nor has it ever been, a constitutional right for gay people to be married. Show me where in ANY constitution it says that it's a right for ANYONE to be married.
  • Webster · 1 year ago
    *Sigh* Read the Supreme Court decision on Loving v. Virginia.
  • Topher · 1 year ago
    US Supreme Court: Loving v. Virginia, 388 U.S. 1 (1967). "Marriage is one of the "basic civil rights of man," fundamental to our very existence and survival.... To deny this fundamental freedom on so unsupportable a basis as the racial classifications embodied in these statutes, classifications so directly subversive of the principle of equality at the heart of the Fourteenth Amendment, is surely to deprive all the State's citizens of liberty without due process of law. The Fourteenth Amendment requires that the freedom of choice to marry not be restricted by invidious racial discrimination. Under our Constitution, the freedom to marry, or not marry, a person of another race resides with the individual and cannot be infringed by the State."

    I hope this factual information helps you work through this issue. I'd highly advise you to get your information from somewhere besides your church. You can see already that if they told you there is no fundamental right to marriage, they were lying to you.

    The CA Supreme Court used the same reasoning (albeit in reference to the CA Equal Protection Clause--the corrolary to the 14th Amendment) to reach the same decision replacing "race" with "gay and lesbian."
  • RIPWAMU · 1 year ago
    I'm getting a little tired of those who appear to be against gay people or suppporters reading only what they want to read.

    As soon as GLAAD or any other promotes anything other than tolerance YES their status should also be revoked.
  • captvegas · 1 year ago
    Oh, I see Wamu. You only want the tax status revoked if an organization disagrees with your point of view. Why didn't you say so? Are there any other non-profits we should put to the Wamu litmus test? What are some other beliefs that you want punished? let's get them all in one fell swoop, we'll call it Wamu's law.
  • RIPWAMU · 1 year ago
    You are something else. No matter what I say you have to attack. I will not stoop to your level.

    How dare you make this about MY point of view? I have only spoke about being tolerant of those who may be different from "the majority" or whatever it should be called. You know - prejudice and discrimination. I believe in tolerance, even for you.

    A non-profit should not make public opinion or donate MILLIONS of dollars towards public policy that would discriminate or show prejudice against another group.

    Stop attacking someone who is trying to say that we should all be a bit more understanding and tolerant of others by not forcing opinions into policies.

    When are people (not necessarily meaning you) going to stop and realize that America is a melting pot of all types. It is not entirely construed of white, heterosexually married, christian folk? Instead of embracing diversity there are those who would rather shoot them down or poke them in the eye.

    As a great man has said "We can disagree without being disagreeable".
  • azcavalier · 1 year ago
    The point here is that it is not a "right" to get married. No one's "rights" have been trampled on. One group didn't get their way, and so they're now blaming others for hating them. That's not the case. And the Church (at least the Mormon Church) doesn't tell you what you can do with your body...it provides suggestions and guidelines, but doesn't force anything. And it definitely doesn't espouse hate. Before you go accusing a Church of it's principles and philosophies, you should study up on what the Church ACTUALLY does worldwide, both doctrinally and socially. The Mormon Church has a welfare system that is second to none. It provides more food, clothing, education, etc. than any other group. When Katrina hit, the Church had truckloads of stuff on the way within hours. The U.S. Government on the other hand....
  • Webster · 1 year ago
    Sorry, like it or not, gay people had the right to marry in CA. A well-funded (mostly by the Mormons) disinformation campaign, took rights away from a class of citizens. It doesn't matter how much good the church does--if they could have spent that $20 million on "clothing the naked and feeding the hungry" then they would have done some admirable instead of reprehensible. Sorry again, but bigotry and discrimination at the hands of a "church" IS OVER--and we will no longer accept interference by those churches in civil matters.
  • azcavalier · 1 year ago
    Moral beliefs is not a "disinformation campaign". The truth here is that the majority of the people disagree with gay marriage, and so the proposition passed. Like it or not. But you don't like it, so you're targeting a group who disagrees. And again, the Church didn't spend any money. Not a dime. Members of the Church who, based on their beliefs, willingly donated moeny and time to a cause that they thought was just.

    And talk about trampling civil rights...what happened to the right to practice our religion the way we choose? What are you going to do... destroy the Church? Imprison it's members? What about the tolerance that you so espouse? Talk about bigotry and discrimination.

    Let's get this clear. The Mormon Church does not discriminate against any group, race, or creed. Period. It disagrees with them, and RARELY does it EVER take a stand on political matters (I can think of two, maybe three in the last 40 years). But when it does, it's decried for being hateful, and vast repercussions are declared against it.

    And, whether or not the passing of Proposition 8 is reprehensible or admirable really depends on which side you're on, doesn't it?
  • kevinbgoode · 1 year ago
    There is no "moral" foundation in engaging in deliberate falsehoods.

    Tell me - how many lies can a religious person intentionally tell and still be considered a "Christian?"

    Now that's a "moral" question.
  • azcavalier · 1 year ago
    And what deliberite falsehood are you accusing me of?
  • Webster · 1 year ago
    Every word you've typed--including "the" and "and."
  • azcavalier · 1 year ago
    There's tolerance for you! Specifics, please. I have not lied at all. Just expressed a different opinion.
  • Webster · 1 year ago
    Yes, your opinions. Nowhere did you touch on facts.
  • azcavalier · 1 year ago
    Nor you.
  • Webster · 1 year ago
    The hierarchy and the church leaders led the campaign. They lied about forcing churches to marry gay people and they lied about gay marriage being taught in schools. It lied--and demonized--gay people (that's discrimination) and religious beliefs do not belong in law. Any you, sir/madam/it are a liar as well. The Bible I own not only says lying is wrong, it also exhorts us to "love our neighbor," not making any distinction against a gay or a straight neighbor. And I won't quote from the Book of Mormon, because every word in that is fiction.
  • DougStamate · 1 year ago
    "...What happened to the right to practice our religion the way we choose?"
    What happened to MY right not to be forced to obey the strictures of a religion in which neither I, nor even a majority of this country's citizens, believe in?
    There was nothing in the California Supreme Court's ruling that forced any religion to alter its beliefs. The ruling simply stated that marriage was a right that could not be denied based on both persons being of the same gender. There was nothing that said any church had to solemnize any weddings between same-sex couples.
  • RIPWAMU · 1 year ago
    Ok, you definitely seem to have a short fuse. You keep putting words into my post that aren't there. I spoke of not only the Mormon church, but ANY church. Think of how much more good will they could have spent with those millions instead of hate and fear mongering.

    If some are trying to take away the "right" to get married then yes, their "rights" have been trounced.

    There shouldn't be HATE in the first place!

    I was speaking of the Catholic church and why I no longer follow the "organized" part of the religion. They do tell you what you can and can't do with your body or in your home. Here's an instance for you - if you worked for a Catholic organization then your health insurance benefits will not include birth control. No matter the reason. Thousands of women need to take birth control for menstruation regulation. However, if your insurance is through a Catholic organization no can do.

    There are religious groups would like nothing more than to reverse Roe v. Wade. And many don't believe in a provision regarding rape and incest.
  • azcavalier · 1 year ago
    You're right, I did take it that you were talking about the Mormon church. I'm sorry that I misunderstood.

    I have no idea what the Catholic Church does or does not believe. So I can't really argue those points.
  • RIPWAMU · 1 year ago
    Thank you.

    Although I may not always agree or understand how other religions or people live their life, it is not up to me to judge them. I don't have to agree with them and I don't have to live it. At the end of the day it doesn't affect me personally and does not threaten myself or my family.
  • JustFacts · 1 year ago
    Actually, as of 2007, religious groups now must offer birth control in their benefits package: http://rawstory.com/news/afp/Religious_groups_m...
  • Topher · 1 year ago
    "The point here is that it is not a "right" to get married."

    Actually, you are legally wrong. The Supreme Courts of both the United States and California disagree with you. Marriage is a "fundamental right" as defined in Loving v. Virginia. California's Constitution guarantees that right to same-sex couples. Proposition 8 attempts to remove that right. The first time in American history rights will have been removed from a group of people.

    I know this is an emotional issue for many people, but please, especially if you are going to come onto a blog and be the counter-voice, at least know the facts of the situation at hand.
  • azcavalier · 1 year ago
    Yes, I didn't exactly take the time to research that.

    My question is, how did that right for same-sex couples to be married find it's way into the California constitution? Through the state supreme court? Or through popular vote?
  • Topher · 1 year ago
    That's okay. There is a lot going on in multiple legal levels here, and it takes a lot to figure out.

    The right for same-sex couples to marry was written into the CA Constitution in its Equal Protection Clause. The Court struck down the existing law limiting marriage to opposite-sex couples as a violation of equal protection this past Spring. So, there was no actual "finding its way in." It was there right from the beginning in the Equal Protection Clause. I'd note here too, that the CA Govenor has stated that this is an issue for the Court to decide.

    As an aside, same-sex marriage was also passed twice by the CA legislature (the representatives of the will of the people), but vetoed by the Governor.

    Essentially in California, you have two branches of government stating that there is a fundamental right to same-sex marriage (one stating prior laws excluding same-sex couples violated the CA Constitution, the other affirmatively passing laws including same-sex couples in marriage), while the third branch defers to the Court, but recognizes the right to exist.

    Popular vote has never been an avenue to decide upon civil rights, let alone the applicability of "fundamental rights" which are a separte class of inalienable rights. The concept that a slim majority of voters can decide to remove Constitutionally protected rights from a protected class (gays and lesbians are legally a protected class in California) is unfounded in ALL of American history, and is, quite frankly, antithetical to our entire system of government and understanding of freedom.
  • Tyke · 1 year ago
    "I voted against Prop. 8"

    Dude - NO ONE believes that. Saying so just amplifies your trollish smell.

    More likely you are posting from Utah from where many freshly minted new blog ID's are sprouting up by the minute. But it's OK because it's not the actual physical "church" posting. It's individual members, so it has nothing at all to do with the church. really. honestly. of course. and they ALL voted against Prop. 8. really. honestly. of course they did.
  • azcavalier · 1 year ago
    First of all, the Church itself did not donate a cent. MEMBERS of the Church did, and that difference is important, legally. And the whole "non-profit" argument is definitely part of this matter. IF Prop 8 had not passed, and gay marriage was made legal and a protected right, what would happen if Mormon Churches would not open their doors to allow wedding ceremonies to gay couples that wanted to? They could be sued, and one of the first things attacked would be their non-profit status. It would be attacked on the grounds that they were discriminating against a legally-protected group.

    And there is nothing wrong with ANY church standing up for what it believes is a moral issue. It's no different than any other large organization, say...the AARP, NAACP, or NRA, lobbying in state and national forums. Remember, the seperation of Church and State is simply to keep the government from persecuting or prohibiting religious beliefs and practices. It is NOT defined as keeping and religious group from organizing and expressing their views on legal matters.

    And, of course, boycotting Utah is going to be SO effective at getting anything changed. Since most of the people that would be hurt by such a boycott had nothing to do with Prop. 8. Talk about misdirected anger. Like the guy above pointed out...WHO voted for the proposition? over 3 million Californians? Think that most of them are Mormon? No. What about the Catholics? Any of you going to boycott them? And the Blacks OVERWHELMINGLY voted for Prop. 8, because most of them are good Christian folk. Also, if you break down the vote by demographics, those over 30 years old OVERWHELMINGLY voted for Prop. 8, where those under the age of 30 mostly voted against it. Going to go and target old people, too?

    This is the beauty of a free country with elections. The majority disagree with gay marriage. And so the Proposition passed. And now the minority is upset. I'm sorry, but this is the way that a Democracy works. Not everyone is going to be happy.

    And what is really getting lost here is this. Societal recognition of same-sex marriage cannot be justified simply on the grounds that it provides self-fulfillment to its partners, for it is not the purpose of government to provide legal protection to every possible way in which individuals may pursue fulfillment. By definition, all same-sex unions are infertile, and two individuals of the same gender, whatever their affections, can never form a marriage devoted to raising their own mutual offspring.
  • RIPWAMU · 1 year ago
    Your last paragraph has me speechless. So marriage is only about procreation? No wonder there are so many divorces. I do not understand your point and frankly it scares the crap out of me.

    Not of this would even be an issue if people just let people live their own lives in the way they see fit. Religion should not control our government. There should be no legal definition of marriage.

    Also, a couple of any orientation should have the right to not get married. Why does property, health care proxy, children, and everything else have to be tied to marriage?
  • azcavalier · 1 year ago
    Because, whether or not you believe it, marriage is the foundation of society. It's how we teach our children on moral issues, and they learn from their parents. It has been shown through studies that children are much more secure and stable when raised by a traditional set of parents. Children raised in other circumstances just don't fare as well, emotionally speaking. Now, i'm not saying that children raised in single-parent homes are doomed to fail. They're not. But studies have shown that the BEST way to raise children is to have a father and a mother. Parents of opposite sexes compliment each others' strengths and weaknesses in ways that same sex parents cannot. That's just fact. And if we cannot protect this, then it will have a detrimental outcome on society for future generations. I mean, where do you think tomorrow's leaders are coming from?

    And religion hardly controls our government, but when it comes to marriage that is fundamentally a religious thing. Marriage's origins began with religion. Whether or not you actually BELIEVE in any particular religion is irrelevant. Marriage indeed should be about family. In today's society, where two people can live together without repercussion, why WOULD you get married if not to have children? I mean, if it's just about commitment, then why don't you just say to your partner, "I won't cheat on you, let's live together until we die" and then do it? What is the benefit of getting married? Just to say you did?
  • kevinbgoode · 1 year ago
    That's a nice fantasy. Why don't straight people just give up marriage? They aren't responsible enough anyway - and why should the majority of society continue to foot the bill for the errant individual choices of looney tune heterosexuals?
    It's amazing that I'm expected to pay taxes to "support society" by affirming the rights of a serial rapist to engage in legal matrimony, simply because his penis gets excited over a pair of boobies. And even more ridiculous is the concept that I'm supposed to foot the bill for that same rapist to engage in "moral" teaching of his children. Would that be before or after they are molested by their local Catholic Church? Hmm..while I'm at it - why isn't that Catholic Church listed in the directory of child sexual predators, anyway? Special rights for them, eh?

    Now how dare YOU engage in questioning MY motives for marriage, when your own people have such a dismal, hypocritical record of responsibility in your own. Why, a good number of you jump ship from any church as soon as the minister suggests you won't be married there - moreover, you suddenly discover a special right to create your own morality when that same church who married you won't recognize your choice to divorce. Suddenly you run to the state for assistance and waltz right out of the church without a word.

    It amazes me that straight people, particularly conservatives, only seem to discover "morality" when they are attacking the rights of others.
  • azcavalier · 1 year ago
    Are you arguing with me? Because most of what you said there doesn't apply to any points that i've made.
  • RIPWAMU · 1 year ago
    I'm not even sure what to say. I guess I would like to see a specific study from the American Psychiatric Assocation speaking of the damage a non-traditional, specifically gay marriage, family does to a child. Now that 50% of marriages in this country end in divorce I would also like to see an APA study on those effects. I don't want to see a study funded by a religious organization, I want to see one by a medical association.

    Unfortunately the benefit is the right to make medical decisions for your partner, to even visit them in the hospital without releases (which can't always happen if the patient is unable to give it), to make decisions about a child's health or education, property rights, etc. The list is unfortunately long.
  • Topher · 1 year ago
    "Marriage indeed should be about family."

    I agree! Marriage is about family. The reality of the world (even if it's not something you've seen or witnessed) is that there are gay-headed families. There's a lot of them! All Proposition 8 purports to have done was remove marriage rights/protections from existing (or budding) family units. How do you address the childen of same-sex couples? Are they not legally entitled to family?

    And just one additional point: you say that marriage is fundamentally a religious thing. Look, have religions carried the marriage banner? Yes. Did religions used to actually govern people? Yes. (Holy Roman Empire et al.) Today, though--today in 2008-- we are not governed by religious institutions. We are goverened by a secular government that has an interest in regulating family units, and do so by arranging them into "marriages." It's a completely different animal than the marriage you are talking about. No one is arguing that religious institutions must change their definition of marriage. We are only working with the secular, legal definition, which is governed by the Constiution and not church elders.
  • kevinbgoode · 1 year ago
    Oh really now? I noticed that none of the organizations you listed claim to be "churches". . .but as long as you are crowing about the "moral" issue, something that is always a curious contradiction when it comes to conservative "lifestyle" choices of joining wingnut religious hate groups, let's look at your contention.
    We already know that for decades, society has allowed infertile heterosexuals to engage in all the privileges of marriage.
    We also already know that, despite criminal records of known serial rapists and child sexual predators, conservatives warmly endorse marital rights for people with a continuing history of creating children for the purpose of engaging in abuse. Why, a straight person can murder his wife and, given there is another woman looney enough to want him, can marry again. . .so much for social morality.
    Why, can't people who torture and kill their own children continue to engage in marriage, despite a proven inability to raise offspring?
    Nay - marriage for heterosexuals is completely based on self-fulfillment. . .and for most of the conservative "churches" which market in deliberate deception, that fulfillment is centered on the supremacy of the heterosexual male's penis.
  • azcavalier · 1 year ago
    Never claimed they were churches. Just large, organized non-profit groups who have rights (just like churches) to organize their members to vote their conscience.

    Infertile heterosexuals can still have children of their own through other scientific methods, or they can adopt and raise a healthy socially well-adjusted child. This doesn't change the fact that, as I stated below, parents of opposite sexes compliment each others' strengths and weaknesses in ways that same sex parents cannot. Whether the children are theirs biologically or not.

    And your point of people having children for evil purposes, well, obviously there is no church or political group that wants that to happen. Yes, even criminals have the right to get married, but if they're doing something criminal in the process, then they will go to prison. But we have to catch them first.

    And i don't know a single guy that really believes he needs to get married for the "fulfillment of his penis".
  • kevinbgoode · 1 year ago
    what would happen if Mormon Churches would not open their doors to allow wedding ceremonies to gay couples that wanted to? They could be sued, and one of the first things attacked would be their non-profit status.
    ======================

    Wow...so you are saying that Catholic priests have been legally forced to marry Mormons and Jews for years. Astounding. Why, I didn't know that every church has been forced to abrogate their beliefs about holy matrimony among their membership to accommodate the wishes of outsiders.

    We'll also pretend that no one ever left the Church because it refused to marry them. . .oh..wait...that happens all the time.

    How many lies can a "religious" person, who claims to have such direct access to all morality, manufacture and still be allowed to call themselves "Christian."
  • azcavalier · 1 year ago
    Nope. Because Mormons usually choose to go to a Mormon church for weddings. As Jews would go to their own churches. These are religions with very strong traditions and beliefs, which more often than not clash with each other, and more importantly to this argument, believe the other to be flat out wrong and non-binding in the eyes of God. As a Mormon, why in the world would I want to get married in a Jewish service which I would feel is non binding? Sure LEGALLY it would be valid, but spiritually it wouldn't mean anything.

    "We'll also pretend that no one ever left the Church because it refused to marry them. . .oh..wait...that happens all the time."

    What's the point of that statement? Are you saying that Churches should be forced to marry people? Can't business refuse the right to serve someone if they don't wear shoes or shirts? Should we force businesses to serve those people? Churches have rights, too. And if someone chooses to leave a church because they don't agree with it, what's the problem? That's their RIGHT. To CHOOSE.

    Again, what lies are you accusing me of?
  • kevinbgoode · 1 year ago
    Usually isn't an absolute. You need to show that a church has been sued by members of another religious group for failure to perform a marriage.
  • Topher · 1 year ago
    Another point you may want to consider is this: the religious ceremony actually has no legal effect. Marriage laws varry from state to state, but generally require the signing of the marriage licence and some sort of ceremony confirming the agreement (like a closing on a real estate deal). This can happen before a justice of the peace, a minister of choice, or any other provision particular states may make. There is no legal effect in making the required ceremony religious.

    And, the point I think Kevingoode is making is that no religion can be forced to perform gay weddings. And his examples are strong. Religions can restrict whomever they wish from marrying within their rites. Catholics do it already all of the time. It's a first amendment protection. One of the strongest guarantees found in our federal Constitution.
  • Tyke · 1 year ago
    Oh for crying out loud STOP LYING!!

    There are religions that will not marry anyone in their church who is not a consecrated member. They cannot be sued any more than ANY church could have been sued if Prop 8 failed for not marrying a same sex couple if that violated their religious beliefs.

    The law ONLY speaks to civil marriage rights. Government CANNOT give or take away religious rights without a change in the US constitution.

    I am currently in a non fertile marriage. By your clever made up "rules" my marriage should be legally dissolved as should EVERY marriage that takes place after the woman has gone through menopause.

    ... and just when did the AARP, NAACP, or NRA lobby to TAKE AWAY any one group of citizens' rights?

    oh yeah - NEVER
  • kevinbgoode · 1 year ago
    Well, honey...when we pass a constitutional amendment removing the rights of some rightwing group at the pleasure of the majority, you can come back and whine about hate.

    Until then, just remember that Republicans are a minority, and any hate group worth the salt you claim we have, should have put their rights up to a popular vote as well. Oh my. . .what an idea.
    I do believe conservatives would suddenly discover a love for "activist" judges.
  • captvegas · 1 year ago
    sweetie, I don't give two shits if gay people get married, more power to them. I voted against Prop. 8. I'm against the singling out of the Mormon church just because they're an easy target. I'm against the hypocritical protests being organized by the puss that runs this blog. He knows Mormons are still politically okay to attack because they don't carry enough weight. He knows that Jessie Jackson and Al Sharpton aren't going to show up and defend Mormons. John Aravosis and his ilk are gutless pansies that wouldn't dream of being this spiteful towards blacks or latinos because he knows they would kick his ass in a literal and figurative sense.
  • kevinbgoode · 1 year ago
    Hmm...I wonder what the LDS could have done to NOT become a target, don't you? You know, like...oh...not launch expensive campaigns in various states to have constitutions altered to remove the rights of others?
    As you know, this isn't an isolated incident.

    As for "gutless pansies," It has been my experience that those who are most gutless are those whose lives are dedicated to searching for imaginary ways to take away the rights of others - in order for themselves to feel more important.

    As for your concern about us tackling the positions of other groups in this matter, all I can do is advise: All in good time.

    And never underestimate the ability of someone whose marriage and family has been threatened by others to defend themselves.
  • Webster · 1 year ago
    Bravo, Kevin! Well said!
  • Chrissy · 1 year ago
    "As for your concern about us tackling the positions of other groups in this matter, all I can do is advise: All in good time. "

    And that good time is now.

    Already, hispanic gays have organized protests in heavily hispanic areas. I understand that black gays will be protesting a black church that was involved. The downtown huge catholic church had protesters this past Sundays.

    So the whining of the Mormons about "why aren't you protesting black people" is now passe. By the way, why do the Mormons immediately mention black people first? I guess the racism in their church never fully left after 1978.
  • justlaffin · 1 year ago
    omg I am agreeing with a republican.. hell oh a time to run out of valium....
  • Tyke · 1 year ago
    " captvegas " is an ID just created in the past few hours that ONLY has posts supporting LDS or whining that no one should criticize the hate filled lie based ad campaign they financed.

    Smells very, very trollish
  • SouthernYankee · 1 year ago
    Here is a suggestion I read on another blog that might help and show your protest at the churchs'. When they pass the basket around have your family and friends put a note in the basket telling them that you will not contribute because your support of prop 8. Every week after just put an empty envolope in the basket. I think that is great.
  • Bush_Bites · 1 year ago
    The Mormons are starting to make the Scientologists look pretty normal.
  • Dave of the Jungle · 1 year ago
    I rarely mention the MOUNTAIN MEADOWS MASSACRE.
  • Tyke · 1 year ago
    Well the MOUNTAIN MEADOWS MASSACRE does demonstrate that the current level of intolerance and rabidly anti anyone not EXACTLY like them approach of the Mormon Church is in fact normal and typical for them, so it is a good historical lesson to study.
  • Donna_Q · 1 year ago
    The point we need to make is not necessarily that the two cases are equivalent. Many people are going to need a lot of educating before they will be able to accept that. The point we must make is that if Proposition 8 stands, there is nothing to stop voters from amending state constitutions to ban miscegentation, or to bring back Jim Crow. An equal protection guarantee and a provision expressly denying equal protection to a class of people are mutually repugnant and cannot exist harmoniously in the same constitution. One or the other must go. If a statute banning gay marriage violates equal protection, it doesn't stop violating equal protection just because it's been shifted from the statute books to a constitution. I understand courts might be reluctant to hold that a constitutional provision can itself be substantively unconstitutional, but but the consequences of such reluctance may be catastrophic. Sometimes the slope really is slippery, and a pit of crocodiles waits at the bottom. It CAN happen here.
  • Topher · 1 year ago
    Great point, Donna. You highlight the fact that Prop 8 truly does fundamentally alter the CA Constitution by making it impossible for the Supreme Court to exercise its role vis a vis the Equal Protection Clause.
  • in · 1 year ago
    What poor "journalism" on your part, Mr. Aravosis. In no way did Arnold ever mention the Mormon church, nor did he make mention of ANY religion in his comments. The first rule of journalism is Accurary, Accuracy, Accuracy! You are throwing your beliefs about gay rights and justifying your actions by stating that the governor of California stands with you on your religion smearing. The people of California have spoken, and unfortunately for you, they do not agree with you. Need I remind you that 75% of African American voters in California voted FOR proposition 8. And yet the 2% of the California population who are Mormon are being "blamed" for you misfortune. I understand this is a very sensitive and emotional topic. In no way is anyone out to get any gay person. They have the same civil rights as anyone. Look it up, it's the truth! However, as marriage IS a moral issue, I can not sit back and let you take swipe at religion without calling you out on it.
  • RIPWAMU · 1 year ago
    What? This is a blog, not a newspaper. The link was to another blog, not a newspaper. I don't think anyone was claiming this as news journalism.
  • in · 1 year ago
    Exactly the point. However, blogging is considered news by many, especially when the writer claims editorial content.
  • Webster · 1 year ago
    In this particular case, however, AmericaBlog has the facts--all you have are the talking points of the Religious Right, which are lies.
  • kevinbgoode · 1 year ago
    A. This is a blog, not a newspaper. If you are such an amazing expert on "journalism" you'd have an understanding of the differences in the media.
    B. He isn't inaccurate. Ever hear of advocacy journalism? Surely, as a conservative, you should understand that concept. Every "mainstream" outlet operated by the Right engages in the practice with impunity. Why, some of the Right's most celebrated "journalists" - like "born-again" Matt Sanchez, are even able to psychically project direct quotes of the THOUGHTS of others.
    C. Since you are so committed to "accuracy," I wonder why this is the first time I've seen any claim that African-Americans voted 75% in favor of the proposition.
    D. A person committed to "truth" or "accuracy" would also freely admit that the LDS church leaders willfully and intentionally engaged in financing a campaign based on manufactured lies, including lies to the public about the current interpretation of law.
    E. If "marriage" is a "moral" issue, then what kind of "morality" do conservatives display when they would amend the constitution to prevent gays from marriage yet freely allow rapists, child sexual predators, spousal abusers, and serial killers access to the institution without restriction?
    F. Obviously, anyone can manufacture an imaginary friend in the sky and use it as a means to smear other people, right? Isn't that essentially the modus operandi of the Right anyway? One should remind you that, unlike sexual orientation, no one disputes that "religious" beliefs are a lifestyle CHOICE - meaning an adult can make the decision to join a hate organization with full knowledge and desire to oppress others. As such, you (and your church) have set precedent to have your own special rights and protections voted away by the majority at their pleasure - magic underwear and all. After all, it only takes a simple constitutional amendment, right?

    Oh - and by the way - gays no longer have the same civil rights as anyone. They have to pretend to be straight in order to placate your church enough to engage in marriage.
  • azcavalier · 1 year ago
    "Oh - and by the way - gays no longer have the same civil rights as anyone. They have to pretend to be straight in order to placate your church enough to engage in marriage."

    Since when is choosing which church to get married in a civil right?
  • kevinbgoode · 1 year ago
    Apparently, the LDS and it's heinous allies believe that even a civil ceremony must meet their dictated definition of "marriage."
  • Chrissy · 1 year ago
    It seems the LDS cannot distinguish between marriage licenses given by the state and their religous ceremony. It is a civil right. Loving vs. Virginia -- a long time ago -- verified its a civil right.
  • in · 1 year ago
  • DougStamate · 1 year ago
    "...the 2% of the California population who are Mormon are being 'blamed'...".
    It's not the Califirnia Mormons that are under fire; it's the Mormons from out of state that poured millions into deceitful ad campaigns. And for some strange reason, many of those Mormons live in Utah! Go figure!
  • DonQuixote · 1 year ago
    Mormon's don't pass a collection plate around. Active members donate 10% of their gross income in tithing payable to their local ward and given personally to their bishop.
  • DonQuixote · 1 year ago
    In today's Deseret News Mr. Aravosis is quoted as saying the following about the LDS Church: "They just took marriage away from 20,000 couples and made their children bastards."

    That is just about the most ridiculous thing I have ever read. Since gays by nature can't have children, the only bastards created are those from a gay who won't marry the partner responsible for conceiving the child. That is the thing churches want to see - men marrying women so children have a father and a mother.

    By definition a child raised by a gay couple are either going to be fatherless or motherless - not the best interest of a child.
  • kevinbgoode · 1 year ago
    You really don't know anything about gay people, do you? Except that your Church is entitled to remove their constitutional rights.

    Talk about religious tyranny. Forcing shotgun divorces on 20,000 couples and their children.
  • Chrissy · 1 year ago
    Horrible the hate that spews from the these Mormons.
  • Tyke · 1 year ago
    "gays by nature can't have children"?

    Reproductive organs are automatically and immediately removed when one is gay?

    Who knew?

    My lesbian aunt who carried "someone's" child to term over a decade ago will be very, very surprised!
  • LowKey · 1 year ago
    As will my 4 nieces and one nephew who have a gay father. They would be very surprised to hear that gays cannot reporduce.
  • Gary SF · 1 year ago
    The concepts of 'bastard' and 'illegitimate child' are Biblical, which is ironic since your God was not married, so his son Jesus is the bastard son of God. Can't we move beyond this idiotic labels that do nothing intentionally inflict pain upon an innocent child? Oh, if I had a child to adopt out, I would choose a same-sex couple household over ANY Mormon household.
  • kevinbgoode · 1 year ago
    Frankly, I think that when ANY "church" engages in intentional, deliberate lying - particularly in a campaign to remove the constitutional rights of other citizens, it should be de-recognized as a "church" for violating its own doctrine and should permanently have its tax status removed.

    It amazes me enough that so many "churches" engage in lying and then demand to be called "Christian."
  • AmandaStephens · 1 year ago
    I feel this is so crazy that the people have voted and yet the LDS church is being targeted. What percentage do you really think the LDS votes made up? Honestly. There were so many other people involved in this and yet the LDS people are the main focus. Why do you think that is? We live in America where we are free to vote, and we vote and there is protests becuse what has passed or what hasn't? Don't we vote to be heard? We have a voice, and it was made. It does not mean that gays can not continue to live how they live. It does not mean that gays are being discriminated against, but that those who voted yes were choosing to keep marriage between a man and a woman. People believe what they believe. Just as the 43% that voted no. Should anyone be pinpointing at anyone for the religion we choose to live? We are Americans and yet we live in such great divide and find fault with each other continually. If America loves their new president elect so much, no one is really listening to the speech he gave the night he won. Didn't he say that we need to work together? It is always amazing to me that whenever the LDS church may have ties to anything, it seems to get the most negative attention and is at fault for anything that has gone "wrong". But again, people believe what they believe.
  • Chrissy · 1 year ago
    It's not the percentage of votes, but 4/5ths of the financing and doing almost all the footwork. The phone banks from Utah and Idaho as well as the free television commercial production.

    I've noticed that the LDS are trying to change the subject.
  • Webster · 1 year ago
    No, sweetie, we believe what we see and what we know: The Mormon church through directives from the hierarchy and their leaders led a disinformation campaign in California to strip people of their rights. You may believe in any Invisible-Sky-Thingy-in-Charge you want to--but you cannot put your beliefs into law--particularly as our system of government (the three branches, remember?) has built-in protections to prevent the tyranny of the majority over minorities.

    The Mormon Church was complicit in this duplicitous effort. It lied in the ads it funded and produced and was instrumental in helping to make a class of people second-class citizens. It was legal for gays to marry in California, the Mormon Church moved in with money and lies (saying that churches would be forced to marry gays and that gay marriage would be taught in the schools) and cruelly stripped families of the legal rights that were afforded them as married couples.

    As I say, you can believe whatever fiction you care to believe--but you cannot write your beliefs into law--not in this country (perhaps you would be happier in Iran or with the the Taliban in Afghanistan where that behavior is common?).

    In addition, the definition of marriage has changed over the century--for instance, women are no longer viewed as "property" and bargaining tools for wealth. Additionally, words do change their meaning over time: "fell" used to mean cruel, and "nice" used to mean "wanton" or "foolish" for just a couple of examples.

    In other words, get your damned beliefs out of my life, my bedroom, and the laws of this secular nation--or you will pay the price. Religious bigotry and religious intervention in the life of others is over in this country.
  • kevinbgoode · 1 year ago
    You have a voice in MY right to marry? Well now....why wasn't I allowed a voice in yours?

    Look, you chose a "religious" cult which practices persecution of others, up to and including the removal of their constitutional rights. If you choose to live under the rules of tyranny, that's your business. When you campaign to impose that tyranny over my freedom, your church becomes MY business. . .and particularly if it engaged in willful deception of the public.
  • Gary SF · 1 year ago
    It isn't the percentage of Mormons that voted for proposition 8; it is the percentage of the total donations that Mormons made. The LDS church has targeted gays in Hawaii, Australia and in other states. In this country, there is the right to speak freely - which you all did with your lies and donations. It is our turn to exercise our free speech rights to boycott you all. Good luck selling pencils on the corner. Oh, and your religion has rotted your brain: 47% voted no.
  • misunderstood · 1 year ago
    One major correction that needs to be stated is that The Church did not donate money to this, the individual people did. When have mormons lost their civil rights? Look up the history of, Independence Missuori, Far West, Kirtland Ohio, and many other places in that region. Technaly speaking my family still owns around 100 acres in the midwest that a mob backed by a govenor came in and stole their land and kicked them out of the area. We have never received any payment for our property.
  • Webster · 1 year ago
    *Sigh* The hierarchy and the church leaders handed the word down and the Mormon Sheeple obeyed. The church is complicit--directly complicit--in this travesty. Mormon leaders headed up the "Yes on 8" campaign in California and the ads (filled with lies) were produced by Mormons.

    You have the right to believe whatever you want. You do not have the right to force your beliefs into law in a secular country. You do not have the right to take away people's rights.

    And when Eden is restored, you'll get your land back in Missouri. *Snicker*
  • Chrissy · 1 year ago
    And the latest reports to the state of California show that, yes, the Mormon Church made at least one donation.

    I'm sorry Mormons if your leaders have decieved you with a bad set of talking points.
  • LowKey · 1 year ago
    The Mormon church donated directly over half of the money to put discrimination against gay into the laws of Hawaii. And they directly paid for 80 percent of the funds used in Alaska to put discrimination into the laws. Same with California with prop 22 back in 2000. They got a lot of blowback from this, and their New York PR firm told them that this time they should not donate directly, so instead they strongarmed their members into doing the donating. As well as manning call centers in Utah and Idaho to spread lies. I spent 25 minutes on the phone with a mormon from Utah who told me lie after lie about prop 8 and I corrected his every lie. He finally said "we are wasting our time" and hung up on me.

    But he was wrong, I wasn't wasting my time, beacue that was 25 minutes he might have spent talking to people who didn't know that the lies the mormon church put into his talking points were lies.

    It was also not a waste because I was able to educate him a little about his own religion. Like you, Misunderstood, he knew next to nothing about the history of his own church. It's not your fault or his, because you were indoctrinated into believing that myths were history. Unlike you, I actually know the history of the Mormon church. I know, for example that mormon bigorty in regard to marriage dates back tot he very beginning of the mormon church. I know how Brigham Young declared that if a balck and a white person were to marry they should be killed on the spot.

    I know how Joseph Smith's 'traditional" marriage included having sex with the wives of his follwers. (He called it celestial marriage.)

    I know how Joseph Smith's "traditional" marriage include his having sex with the 14 year old daughters of his followers. Having sex with his foster daughters. Having sex with his teenage servant girls. And calling them "marriage."

    I know all about mormon "tradidtional" marriage.

    I also know all about Kirtland. WHere Joseph Smith had to flee the city because he was about to be convicted for bank fraud. How he had earlier been tarred and fellowed, not by anti-mormons as you weer told, but by Mormons who he conned out of their hard earned money.

    I know all about Missouri too. How Smith started two civil wars there. Well tried to start two. The first one fizzled out beacue his army got cholera because they didnt boil their drinking water. But the second civil war he started, after declaring that the Mrmons would exterminate anyone who stood in their way really happened. The Mormons attacked non-momron towns, burning, looting and raping the women. The Mormons attacked then attacked the state militia and after losing the battle, Smith and the other mormon leaders weer convicted of treason and sentenced to death. He escaped jail, however, by bribing his guards and fleeing to Illinois.

    The mormons have a long history of attacking freedom and liberty.

    It's time for some change.

    I hope someday you'll join us. But until then, a least stop with all the lies.
  • El Rojo · 1 year ago
    The arguments now coming from the Mormons continue to be based primarily on what has to be a deliberate misunderstanding of the events. Yes, we all know that Mormons make up a small percentage of the people in California who actually voted. That, as I suspect you know, is not the issue.

    The issue is that 80 percent--that's 4/5--of the money that came in to push Prop 8 through came from the Mormon church. Second, two of the main arguments put forth in the Yes on 8 commercials were lies: (1) that churches would be required to marry same-sex couples or lose their tax-exempt status, and (2) that schools would be required to teach same sex marriage. It's easy enough to say, as did one poster whose post has apparently been removed, that these claims are supported. Of course, that poster gave no backup of this statement. I'm not going to hold my breath waiting for it because it is not there.

    Now that there is a groundswell of support for a boycott of the Mormon church, the Mormons are going on the defensive: why are you mean hateful gays picking on us? I agree that there are certainly other groups to be targeted; it's just that none of those other groups donated 4/5--that's 80 percent--of the money that went toward pushing this proposition through.

    (As an aside: I myself have canceled participation in two events over the coming year because it would have meant my staying at a Marriott, one chain of hotels whose doorway I will never darken again. Also in 2011 I'll be chairing a convention for the third time. The last two times we held our convention at a Marriott. Guess where it will not take place this time?)

    I don't want to hear about African-Americans, Latinos and the rest of them. The only thing relevant about those arguments is that these groups, like the Mormons, have been historically discriminated against. Yet they--you--will not hesitate to do the discriminating when the opportunity arises.

    From what I'm reading, the No on 8 campaign was not run nearly as well as it could have been. And it's too bad that Arnold chose to veto this measure the two times that the California legislature passed it. One, his signing it would have spoken volumes as to his support of it, much more than the meager lip service he gave to it before the vote and slightly less meager lip service he is giving to it now could have ever done. Two, if he had signed it on an earlier occasion, the thing would not have come before the voters in this highly-charged election year. But I digress. Arnold's support or lack thereof for the measure is not directly related to the Mormon church efforts to influence this legislation.

    This is a big deal because of the potential nationwide repercussions. It's one thing, shameful though it still may be, to fail to grant a right in the first place. It's quite another to take a right that has been granted by a court and to strip it away, which is what has happened in California. Gays in this country are by and large tired of being shat upon. Iin this respect, the Mormon church has done them a great favor. In gay history, the Mormon church wlll be mentioned in the same breath as the Greenwich Village cops on that night back in 1969 as galvanizing a reaction from the gay community. In fact, the Greenwich Village cops will likely take a back seat to the Mormon church insofar as the Stonewall reaction was strictly local at the time and took a while to spread to the rest of the country. Now, thanks to the publicity that Prop 8 got and the nationwide interest in the measure, the reaction has been swift, immediate and widespread (viz tomorrow's protest at the Mormon Temple in New York City--damn, I wish my next trip to the Big Apple were now instead of next month) and will continue.

    It's easy enough for the Mormon church, the good folks at www.protectmarriage.com, and others who supported the measure to now sit back and say, "Well, that's over. Now it's time to make nice with each other and let those wounds heal." Too bad for you: those wounds are not going to heal as long as gays are considered to be second-class citizens.

    So, as a gay icon once said, "Fasten your seat belts; it's gonna be a bumpy night."
  • ChrisSF · 1 year ago
    I am not for singling out Mormons, but since when does "working together" include voting to take away other people's constitutional rights? If that's the kind of cooperation you want, I'll pass. If you really want to work together, then support marriage equality for everyone -- you marry who you want, I'll marry who I want, and everyone's happy. Isn't that the correct position to have in a pluralistic society where we are all in it together? And that $70 million could have been spent helping the poor!
  • Tyke · 1 year ago
    There are a whole bunch of instant ID's popping up created todat solely to "debate" about gay marriage and how victimized the poor Mormon church is!

    It appears that trolling has recently become a full time activity being sponsored by the Mormon Church.

    They would only be sending their minions out in this manner if they feel threatened! YES - the boycotts and protests are working. The presence of these dedicated trolls is the proof!

    Thank you so much for giving us this cause for encouragement azcavalier, captvegas and all of the others. Your blatantly obvious attempts are really making us realize that we are right and we are making headway!
  • Webster · 1 year ago
    Exactly. Every time one of these Mormon trollers comes on here it just makes me more determined than ever to fight back--and fight back hard. Stonewall is going to seem like a minor tussle after this--AND WE WILL PREVAIL!
  • monitor · 1 year ago
    FYI:

    For every one of the Mormon troll comments that remain on the threads, approximately 10 more have been removed. This appears to be a coordinated attack and it is a huge task for the monitors. Thank Disqus for our unlimited ability to ban.
  • Webster · 1 year ago
    The same sort of organized campaign against gay people they used in CA, I take it? And they try to tell us that Mormons had no hand--were just "innocent bystanders"--in a high-minded effort to "protect the definition of marriage." Thanks for your efforts, and keep up the good work. There's only so many of the same over-and-over talking-points I can take.
  • monitor · 1 year ago
    To the best of our ability, the only troll comments that remain on the threads are ones with replies from our non-troll readers. The troll comments without replies, as quickly as we monitors are able, are removed from the threads.
  • Tyke · 1 year ago
    Thanks for the clean up. It has been educational to see the comments that stayed and now to learn that the impression they gave of being part of an organized effort was just the tip of the iceberg.

    The Mormon church leaders must actually have believed they could fool bloggers with this stunt.

    It is reassuring to know how worried they are!
  • Topher · 1 year ago
    I agree!

    There is a protest planned in NYC tomorrow!
    Nearly 2,500 people on Facebook have already confirmed they will attend!

    Event: Prop 8 Protest in New York at Mormon Temple AGAINST HATE
    "LGBT New Yorkers and Straight Allies Please Join Us..."
    What: Protest
    Host: Michaelangelo Signorile, Ann Northrop, Corey Johnson
    Start Time: Wednesday, November 12 at 6:30pm
    End Time: Wednesday, November 12 at 8:00pm
    Where: New York Manhattan Mormon Temple
    To see more details and RSVP, follow the link below:http://www.facebook.com/n/?event.php&eid=57450719688
  • bevanhill · 1 year ago
    Here's an editorial I sent to three Southern California newspapers today. Let see if any of them publish it.

    My spouse and I were married legally in the eyes of the state of California on 10/19/08. Today, the legality of our marriage is in limbo because 52% of California voters don’t think we deserve the same fundamental rights that straight people in this state have. Many of those 52% say they based their decision on religious/moral beliefs. Years ago good religious-minded folks in this country used the same rationale to deny whites and blacks to marry each other. After all, back then, many people believed that God placed the races on different continents and therefore did not want them to mix. It was the natural order. Their case was wrong then and their case against gay marriage is wrong today. It’s not about religion. It’s about basic human rights. 52% of California voters have voted to strip us of our basic fundamental rights. It’s wrong and shameful! Now, I have to fight the government and the voters who supported Prop 8 to keep my marriage legal. Can you imagine having to fight the same battles for your marriage rights? The sad truth is that, most people who voted for Prop 8 can’t even fathom what it would mean for them to suffer the same loss that the gay citizens of this state suffered due to the passage of Prop 8. They believe they belong to a different class of people than gays, and simply can’t imagine how the tables would, or could ever be reversed on them.
  • frizbeesf · 1 year ago
    What's in a Name Anyway?

    Andrew Sullivan writes on his site today that Evangelical Conservative Tony Perkins over at the "Family Research Council", had indicated he would have "no problem" with Civil Unions in California that provided Gay and Lesbian couples with the same rights as marriage,but just a different name for it.

    Interesting...

    I will confess that for the longest time I held a very similar view. I would get frustrated with marriage equality activists who seemed to be so hung up on the terminology. If calling it "Marriage" is the problem why not call it Civil Unions or Domestic Partnership or call it "Fred" for that matter. As long as all rights are the same why did it matter it was called?

    The counter argument has always been that this would be agreeing to something that was "separate but equal" and history has clearly shown that separate structures for civil rights are never equal, just separate. Racial segregation in the decades before the civil rights movement proved this. Whites and Blacks had separate things like drinking fountains, restrooms and schools that were anything but equal.

    Yet the argument could be made that this was hardly the same thing. If both a gay and straight couple had the exact same hospital visitation rights, as long as both couples had access to the same hospital and quality of care, how is calling the basis for those visitation rights by different names unequal?

    I found myself thinking that by insisting on the word marriage the LGBT community was just being stubborn and more interested in the symbolism of labels than actual equality.

    I was thinking about while I was voting last Tuesday. I was reading in the newspaper and on the web of various spots around the country that were experiencing voting problems. Things like long lines at polling places, out of date registration lists, etc. The media was rightly focusing on these problems with the emphasis that the right to vote was such a fundamental part of our democracy that states owed citizens every form of assistance if they encountered difficulty in exercising their rights to vote.

    It suddenly occured to me to wonder how Tony Perkins would feel if California passed a law saying that evangelical conservatives would longer have the right to "vote" but instead anyone who was of the same religion as Perkins would have the right of "electoral choice". They would go to the same polling place as everyone else, use the same ballots, and have the same choices. Their choices would count just as much as everyone else', but for them, and only them it just wouldn't be called "voting".

    The right would be exactly the same but it just would be called something different. Since there would no difference in the actual ability to make their choice at the ballot box, the name shouldn't matter right? As long as an "electoral choice" counted the same as a "vote", why should the name make a difference?

    Well you can bet Tony Perkins, James Dobson, Pat Roberson and every conservative from Sacramento to San Diego would be rioting in the streets claiming discrimination.

    I can practically hear Newt Gingrich railing how "electoral choice" was NOT the same as voting. Because symbolism DID matter, calling voting by a different name is sending a message that Evangelicals were not as important as other Americans. The change in terminology would even result in evangelicals feeling like they shouldnt participate in our democratic process. The fact that rights were the same was irrelevant. To call voting by a different name for just one group of Americans was unacceptable.

    So what is in a name? Isn't a civil right by another name just as equal? If you think so, ask yourself this question; If your family, and only your family's right to make your choice at the ballot box was called "electoral choice" and everybody else had the right to "vote", how would you feel?

    Separate but equal suddenly doesn't feel so equal does it?
  • catirrel · 1 year ago
    There are several great reasons why same-gender marriages are NOT just like civil rights. This is a simple argument that the unintelligent can easily grasp and propagate. This marriage issue and the civil rights of the 50s are not similar--yet. I invite your brain to join the discussion, thinking before you begin typing rhetoric.

    READY FOR THIS? REALLY, YOU ARE NOT VERY DIFFERENT THAN THE MORMONS. Lets postulate, in 10-20 years, assuming the term of marriage is changed legally to allow same-genders--then what is next? Surely this is not the end of the evolution? Do you TODAY support human/non-human marriage? Marriage of 40 year-old men to 4-year old girls? Legalization of bigamy? Or polygamy? Well—it appears that you draw a line too, just in a different place? Would such allowances cheapen the covenant of marriage in your mind? Oh, and if you thought--'THAT will never happen', your naivete is showing. That is exactly what your grandparents said, yet—here we are. How can this be JUST LIKE THE CIVIL RIGHTS, when you admit your own bigotry—just at a different place? Civil rights by definition have no boundaries. Should marriage be granted to ALL, not just hetero and homo-sexuals…no boundaries?

    Sure. I have a brain and choose to use. I wish more would too. There must be a better argument than that weak-minded one. But I am starting to doubt so.
  • chandler_in_lasvegas · 1 year ago
    Dear Asshole,
    The fundamental right is to establish a legal relationship with another. We already have polygamy because heterosexuals use divorce lie a rotating fuck card. Theoretically, there is NO Christian divorce so that remarriage is just simply polygamy. And the legal relationship exists in another form as Ex's and for kids Steps. In a gay family, parents can have a relationship to their children, even cross parent but there is NO legal relationship between a gay couple. As for inter species relationships, MANY jurisdictions have TONS of regulations on the legal relationship between owner and pet, between owner and livestock. Animals have more legally defined rights than gays do. The age of consent laws are based on a citizen's ability to enter into a sexual relationship not based on sexual orientation. These laws are already in effect, except for some locations in Utah and Kentucky where heterosexuals already tread on common decency. In fact I would stress that we are fighting a battle over legal rights, just like slaves did to be recognized as fully human, rather than civil rights, like where blacks were given protections in employment. The right to marry is a legal right that comes with legal obligations. Obligations are what separate them.

    And may I conclude by saying what an asshole you are again?
    (rhet.)
  • gwyneth · 1 year ago
    I almost didn't reply to this because I can't believe anybody could still throw this argument in this day and age! But here goes, the reason why a 4 yr old and 44 year old can't be married is because it infringes on the 4 yr old's rights. The reason why polygamy and bigamy is outlawed is because it opens the door to people not supporting all their families (when they go on welfare) and infringes on people's rights when they are forced into arranged marriages. All of these arguments that you claim "have no line anywhere" actually do have a line and very clear ones and their called constitutional rights.

    Your rights end where another person's begin unless their breaking another law or infringing on another person's rights. Get it? Civil rights have no boundaries? Are you kidding me??? Can you please deport yourself somewhere where they have no civil rights or constitution then? Because it desn't seem like you have any respect for them anyway. So, I guess you wouldn't miss having rights, maybe you could move to Lebanon? I hear it's nice this time of year.

    Also, this is one of the stupidest and most easily refuted arguments on this site.
  • Donna_Q · 1 year ago
    "Do you TODAY support human/non-human marriage? Marriage of 40 year-old men to 4-year old girls?"

    The stupidest of the anti-same-sex marriage arguments. Marriage is a civil contract. Children and non-humans have no capacity to contract. No capacity, no consent, no marriage. Simply idiotic. You're not using your brain nearly as well as you claim.

    As for the nearly-as-bogus polygamy argument, see my comment from a few hours ago. Same-sex marriage opponent azcavalier graciously acknowedged it as the first good counterargument he had come across to the polygamy analogy.
  • licoricewhip · 1 year ago
    Unfortunately or Fortunately depending on which side of this issue you stand we live in a country where people are free to back any issue they choose with their vote and or their wallet. I frankly don't care much about this issue as I am not gay. I do believe that gays should be given the same rights as any other couple even if marriage is not an option. There are many benefits to being able to be married when it comes to medical insurance and taxes and I would not withhold those benefits from anyone. That being said I think it is wrong to stereotype and bash or blame any group of people for a single issue, I could sit here all day and tell you how I feel that Bill Clinton and his cabinet are to blame for the credit meltdown we have experienced, but it accomplishes nothing. There were many organizations involved with this very heated topic and to single out just one is wrong. When you complain about the amount of money spent on an issue you are really complaining about the process and we live in the greatest country in the world because of the freedoms we possess. The opposition to this issue had the same opportunity to raise money to support their side of this heated topic. Spreading the type of misinformation I have read in these posts does nothing but polarize people and invite an environment of hate. There is already far to much of that in the world. Just my 2 cents so take it for what it is worth.
  • gwyneth · 1 year ago
    Actually, I think that the system was abused when a Church heavily influenced legislation by reading a letter out to all of their congregations which resulted in 20+ million dollars and countless volunteer hours going toward their cause. Our system is actually not supposed to be used in that way by any organizations that have a tax exempt status. If they want to be a political organization and participate in influencing legislature then they should be paying taxes to the federal government. I hope that the amounts of money are significant enough to where the IRS revokes their tax exempt status.

    But it is part of our system that ensures that the disenfranchised minority group will get to take this to Supreme Court (again!) to see if it is ruled as unconstitutional which we hope that it will be because there are many legal benefits to being married which (in our system) should not be granted to one group of citizens and not others.
  • kiwiwiki · 1 year ago
    Proposition 8 is unconstitutional & segregationalist!
    Please take a hard stance against Container Supply Co., Inc. & Robert Hurtt.
    Together, they donated over 500K to pass Proposition 8.
    They manufacture containers for BREMNER WAFERS, ALMOND ROCA, MOTHER'S CARNUBA WAX, BARDAHL OIL TREATMENT & MORE.
    Check out the Container Supply Co., Inc. website: http://www.containersupplycompany.com/secondary...
    It has been a week since the election & there is no boycott of these products. Americablog.com can send a significant message by calling for boycotts.

    Additional info: http://onerealization.blogspot.com/