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AMERICAblog: White House issues new language on "Don't Ask Don't Tell" policy

  • Gridlock · 7 months ago
    Oh here we go with the parsing of language. Obama, seriously? BE A FUCKING LEADER.
  • Sifu · 7 months ago
    Don't ask, don't tell still leaves considerable room for dedicated career military personnel to be blackmailed. Don't ask don't tell weakens our security just as any discrimination weakens our military.

    The concern that military dignity will not be preserved should have been considered by the right wingers before they started forcefully stacking nude prisoners in pyramids. These actions haves reduced our military options and have shredded our bonds of trust. As does 'don't ask...'

    As far as the concern of dignity in service is concerned, I think the military community has long had and understanding with regards to public displays of affection. I think that few folk will consider it an exception to say that when you get your gay on, feather boas in uniform are right out.
  • caphillprof · 7 months ago
    Obama is a coward.
  • nicho · 7 months ago
    Just classic political bait and switch.

    (Relax, it's just a two minute prayer.)
  • Steve_in_CNJ · 7 months ago
    is he still working in mysterious ways?
  • Gridlock · 7 months ago
    I will be seriously pissed the eff off if he goes this route. I really will. Just when the country is starting to get over the whole 'gay panic', he starts backing off? THAT WILL CREATE A TREND.

    Remember who put you where you are, Obama. Bigotry and inequality are NOT acceptable. Perhaps you need a trip to the cottonfields, or the back of the bus to get reacquainted?

    *furious*
  • mirth · 7 months ago
    I do not get this.

    I understand the enormous tasks before President Obama and restraints on a new administration generally and I realize gov't moves slowly, but the Pentagon has stated their readiness to openly integrate homosexuals into the armed forces and other more enlightened countries have already and successfully done so. To continue this discriminatory policy adds unnecessary stress and even dangers to Gays in the military.

    Even worse is that sexual expression is allowed for one group and disallowed for another group - this alone shames the principles of our country and those we ask to serve it.

    DADT should have been rescinded on Day One and there can be no justification for why it was not.
  • John Aravosis · 7 months ago
    Personally, I'm not as upset about them taking this slowly and methodically. Bill Clinton's mistake was taking this on from day one and NOT PLANNING the entire thing in advance. In other words, not getting his ducks in a row in order to fight the opposition. So, taking this slowly and getting it right works for me. What bothers me is the change in language, coming on the heels of that Boston Globe story several months ago that suggested the White House would wait to see what a Pentagon study said before deciding what to do. This falls into that same category of evidence of a s subtle shift in policy.
  • caphillprof · 7 months ago
    DADT is like torture. It undermines the homeland.

    We too soon forget that DADT sidelined all those Arabic translators in the US Army at the very time we couldn't communicate with the Iraqis.
  • red_dwarf · 7 months ago
    Cap - good point. The loss has been so great it has indeed affected national security.

    Since a large population of those serving as grunts in the military are ignorant homophobic fruitcakes it's most certainly a hard row to hoe.

    Here's an idea. Put the facts on the table and start educatin' these nimnuts - maybe if they can get past their beer, guns, religion and nascar we might make a little progress.

    If they repealed the DADT policy all of these losers that are signing up for the military might end up in the streets - could be worse, eh?
  • mirth · 7 months ago
    What is to plan, methodically or otherwise?

    It's not as if barracks or work assignments have to be changed. There is the rewriting of current policy, which could be covered by immediate directives while wording is retooled. Opposition? That will continue no matter what and must be overlooked or ignored in ending the current discriminatory policy.

    I suspect, John, that were you planning to enter the armed services, whether as a desired professional choice or because you could find no other work, you might feel differently about the need for urgency. And I know that Gays now serving feel the urgency.

    DADT is shameful. It should be ended. Immediately. Period.
  • mysistagirl · 7 months ago
    quote: "It's not as if barracks or work assignments have to be changed."

    Actually, barracks would ABSOLUTELY have to be changed. I am ex military and I assure you if glbt personnel served openly when I was in service, I would vehemently object to having a lesbian female roomate. It would be tantamount to putting me in the room with a male. I would vehemently object to going into the open shower bays with lesbians for the same reasons. I am sure that hetrosexual males will feel the same way about gay males.

    And if you think that putting gay men in the room together or lesbian females in the room together is the solution, that's problematic too. Because the glbt's orientation is completely opposite, this would be no different than putting a hetrosexual male in the room with a hetrosexual female, and that is prohibited for obvious reasons.

    So the only one solution is to give glbt's their own private rooms and bathrooms, and guess what? Then you cannot deny the same living arrangements to hetrosexuals. Can ya'll say cha-ching? The cost would be staggering.

    Things are never as simple as the glbt community would have people believe. It has to be thought COMPLETELY thru so that the final solution is one where the gblt community is not discriminated against, while at the same time, their situation is not an outright imposition on others who don't share their orientation.

    Lastly, having said all that, now is simply not the time to start this kind of internal conflict within the ranks of the military. They are in harms way fighting two wars and it would be ridiculous to spring this on them now. It needs to be resolved during peacetime when it will reak the least amount of internal havok.
  • mirth · 7 months ago
    If any constraints should be placed on anyone serving in the military, it is on homophobes such as yourself.
  • mysistagirl · 7 months ago
    You are simply refusing to deal with the reality that I presented, and instead, resorting to the usual "homophobe" attack.

    You don't want to deal with the idea that the gblt has a tendancy to impose it's will on others. You just want what you want no matter how it affects anyone else.

    spare me.
  • mirth · 7 months ago
    Oh pleeze.

    I'm also straight, and unencumbered with such nonsense as Gays having "a tendency to impose their will" on others.

    Thank gawd you are no longer in the military. And thank gawd people with your beliefs are dying off.
  • mysistagirl · 7 months ago
    hmmm. that's interesting. A straight person who thinks it's flattering to a straight woman for a lesbian to look at her. ok. if you say so.

    Anywho, people with my beliefs are alive and well. If they move too fast on this dadt issue without thinking it thru, you will see just how alive and well they are. I assure you, you'll see.
  • Gridlock · 7 months ago
    Hey, gay here. Do I get offended if some woman thinks I'm hot? Do I get offended if I get checked out in a club or walking down the street? Do I get offended if a girl asks me "are you SURE you're gay? Damn."... Do i get panicky, do i get insulted, do i start yelling?

    No, only morons do that. It's called "Take the compliment for what its worth, someone thinks you're hot."

    That doesn't mean they're going to gangrape you.

    Are you sure your own sexuality is stable? You sound terrified and insecure. It makes you sound like a closetcase, boasting and overcompensating.

    In short, grow the fuck up and act like an adult.
  • mirth · 7 months ago
    Ooooo, a threat.

    So what, exactly, are you freaks going to do?

    'Cause change gonna come, "sista."
  • Gridlock · 7 months ago
    No kidding. Troglodyte dinosaurs like her are a dying, gasping breed. Too bad stupid animals are more dangerous when cornered.

    p.s. honey, we outnumber you by about 10 to 1 all told. So bring it.

    If we can't beat you head on, we'll give you really stupid hair and design fugly clothes to show off your muffin top. We'll go out flaming.
  • RainbowPhoenix · 7 months ago
    We're quite familier with how alive and well you people are, because that's the reason why so many GLBTs are dead.
  • RainbowPhoenix · 7 months ago
    Contrary to popular belief, we are perfectly capable of keeping our hands to ourselves. If you have trouble being around a lesbian, that's your problem, not hers.
  • mysistagirl · 7 months ago
    **sigh** another one missing the point.

    Hetrosexuals are also capable of keeping their hands to themselves, but professing to do so, is not a ticket to share rooms between male and female.

    And your selfishness is showing. It's not just one person's problem. It needs to be resolved in a way that is pallatable for BOTH.

    As I said to a previous poster:
    You don't want to deal with the idea that the gblt has a tendancy to impose it's will on others. You just want what you want no matter how it affects anyone else.
  • RainbowPhoenix · 7 months ago
    What tendency to impose our will on others?
  • mysistagirl · 7 months ago
    When you give me a response that completely ignores the very real conflicts that I stated, and instead, just tell me it's my problem for not being willing to deal with it, that is indicative of someone that is willing to insist on their way(or will) no matter how it affects others.

    That's what I meant by that.
  • RainbowPhoenix · 7 months ago
    Except the conflicts you stated are not real. If they were we would be hearing about them from the countries that do allow us to serve openly.
  • Gridlock · 7 months ago
    Snap.

    Pwned.
  • red_dwarf · 7 months ago
    Rainbow - exactly. What's her name has some real personal issues - unfortunetly she's not alone - must be genetic.
  • Harper · 7 months ago
    Don't flatter yourself, honey. No lesbian would look at you, especially with that obnoxious 'tude.
  • mysistagirl · 7 months ago
    You're missing the point.

    A hetrosexual male might feel the same way, but he still does not get to share a room with a female just because he does not think she's worth a second look.

    Try to be objective, will ya.
  • mysistagirl · 7 months ago
    by the way, since I'm hetrosexual and as straight as an arrow, it's not flattering to have a lesbian looking at me. In fact, it's insulting and exactly why I would not share a room or shower with one.

    Get a clue before you speak.
  • Harper · 7 months ago
    You are flattering yourself to imagine that any lesbian would want you at all. Get over yourself, for the love of God.

    I'm sure there are a lot of respectful, non-homophobic straight people who wouldn't want to share accommodations with a bigot like yourself.
  • t. · 6 months ago
    You have most likely already roomed with a gay gal already get over yourself.
    served 8 years. between all the sex parties, drunken debauchery that happens. No one is pure.
  • ndtovent · 7 months ago
    Your argument doesn't hold water, sweetie..

    For one thing, ANY commander of ANY unit or base can impose 'no fraternization' regulations as they currently do with hets in coed situations. The same regulations could (and I'm sure, WOULD) be implemented service-wide across all branches if DADT were repealed.

    2)Other advanced countries have allowed openly gay people to serve in their military for years now, and it has not degraded their integrity or unit cohesiveness. Nice try.

    3)Now is most DEFinitely the time to start 'this internal conflict' as you describe it. It was actually started 15 years ago when dadt was first enacted and has been ongoing ever since. If you'd pulled your head out of the sand and listened to a newscast once or twice, you might have heard about it.

    4)DADT is BS, costly, arcane, oppressive policy which needs to be repealed.....yesterday!
  • ndtovent · 7 months ago
    oh btw....i'm an ex-navy vet who served 6 years active duty, honorably, I might add. Most of the sailors I worked with knew I was gay, or figred it out, and they didn't give a shit. They knew I was no threat to them. Get over yourself.
  • Harper · 7 months ago
    "It is based on my faith, whether lesbians like me or not."

    So it's based on your "faith" now? So people who don't conform to your faith have to have separate accommodations? Should they also drink from different fountains and sit at the back of the bus? Or perhaps wear a pink triangle?

    Wow. Glad you're on the losing part of history on this one. But don't worry, there ARE countries that enforce peoples' "faith" over others' to the degree you seem to like. Any of the 'istan's should do you fine.
  • Gridlock · 7 months ago
    How do you "change" bigoted and discriminatory language to make it acceptable without destroying the entire meaning?

    It's administration doublespeak.
  • usagi · 7 months ago
    How can anyone possibly be surprised? Obama has had "issues" with teh gays from the start of the campaign. I'm less forgiving than John of McClurkin and Warren, and you should have seen the four-color Yes on 8 flyer featuring Obama and his marriage quotes that hit mailboxes the week of the election (yes, No on 8 bears most responsibility for not screaming about Obama's opposition letter from the rooftops, but there was still some pretty damning stuff).
  • Indigo · 7 months ago
    I suspect it's a high priority issue for the second term, possibly in the first 100 days . . . unless there is no second term because somebody got impatient for Obama to do the right thing now, not later, certainly not much later.
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  • The Tim Channel · 7 months ago
    If repealing DADT would somehow help the banksters it would already have been done.

    I'm guessing not that many banksters smoke pot either and that's why Obama has been so slow to clear the jails of non violent drug criminals and free the weed.

    Enjoy.
  • ndtovent · 7 months ago
    maybe they don't smoke pot, but a lot of them sure blow coke up their noses likes it's going out of style.
  • ndtovent · 7 months ago
    Well lets hope that what Robt Gibbs says is true, but I don't look for anything much to happen with these issues in Obama's first term, unless a clause is attached to one of the major bills and sneaks through.
  • kladinvt · 7 months ago
    That has to be one of the most ignorant comments I have ever read. Aren't you military people supposed to be well disciplined machines? To cover each other's backs? Even die for each other? And you think people can't refrain from having sex in the showers? Truly sad.
  • Sifu · 7 months ago
    Kladinvt, if you look at the statistics of rape in the military, often they are not the well disciplined machines that we would all like them to be.

    No question here, sexuality will always be causing problems in the military. I just don't think the gay issues are particularly worse than the straight issues.

    The military tradition of trivializing rape is every bit as much a cultural issue.

    My hope is that after gay soldiers are free to respectfully and decently pursue military careers without having to be furtive in their lifestyle, that it will then be possible to develop a culture that does not protect sexual predators in the military.
  • kladinvt · 7 months ago
    My comment was directed towards mysistagirl's rant.
  • Sifu · 7 months ago
    mysistagirl, from my experience, heterosexual males can get up to some pretty bizarre and downright creepy behavior in shower rooms et al.

    Trust me, territorial and dominance issues are right up there.

    Straight, gay and confused, men often have issues. Don't ask don't tell helps keep them in the dark where they can fester.
  • William B. Turner · 7 months ago
    Very disappointing of the President. Tell him about it.